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For context we’ve been married almost 20 years. We have sex about once a week. I’d love it more often but that’s where we’re at. I know she loves me and enjoys sex when we have it, and occasionally she will even initiate….and by initiate I mean she’ll come to bed naked….but won’t really do more than that.

I would like for her to really want me….to lust after me….to desire me so much that she can’t help but show me. For her to give me those lust filled greedy eyes that I give her at times!

How do we work on that part? Getting her to show that she wants and lusts after me? Ladies, what flipped that switch in you?

My wife and I have had several couples massages. They’ve all been great and just normal massages. I’ve also gone to places by myself and gotten happy ending massages and those are always fantastic. I would love to bring my wife for a couples massage where we both receive happy endings.

Has anyone tried this before and what was the experience like?

For those of you who do it….how did you get interested in it? What made you try it?

Feel free to share here or privately

I’m working on building a playlist in the bedroom. What are your favorite songs to fuck too?

A couple of my faves are:
#1 Crush- Garbage
Gooey - Glass Animals
I belong to You - Lenny Kravitz
One Time - Marion Hill

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Have any of you hooked up with your ex after divorce?

We got married young about a year after my mission. We tried to make things work for 3 years but it just wasn’t happening. Sex was very vanilla and there was no extras going on besides normal missionary sex….which was a shame cause she was a bombshell with big DD tits. No oral, or any fun positions or even lingerie or anything.

For numerous reasons, I finally decided to end the relationship after three years and we got divorced.

As you others who have gone through a failed marriage know…it can get quite lonely after divorce…and especially tough from an intimacy perspective within the confines of the church guidelines. It hard to go from having sex to not being aloud to have sex anymore.

Anyways…after a couple months, the ex and I got to talking about life in general and that turned into going out for dinner….which turned into going back to her (my old house) place….which turned into glorious fucking!

We actually hooked up 4-5 more times over the next couple month. Each time she was a little more sluttier. She was giving me blow jobs ( which didn’t happen in marriage). She was titty fucking me with her big tits and letting me cum on them! She even opened her ass to me and let me deposit my load inside her ass multiple times (which of course anal NEVER happened in the marriage).

The best, and hottest sex I had with her was after we divorced! I actually joked to her at one point that had she been this way during the marriage we might still be together!!!

Anyone else have stories like this. Would love to hear them here or privately.

I’m not much into see you guys jerk off but I love jerking to your wives and you telling me what you want me to do to them!

Of course I’ve got my hot wife too!

Read someone else’s post about wanting to role-play and that got me thinking about it in general!

How do you all do it? Meaning, I understand the concept, but I can’t suspend disbelief to actually get in to it! No matter what happens I know it’s still my wife and not my sexy nurse or neighbor or whatever. And she knows I’m not her hunky pool boy or fireman!

It just digresses into awkward silly giggles and whatnot that may or may not lead to normal sex.

Is it just me or is real role playing only reserved for thespians??

Honest question here….does anyone legitimately enjoy the taste of their man’s cum and having it in your mouth? Or is it one of those things where you like it in the moment because of the sexiness of it all? Or do you only do it because your SO likes the idea of cuming in your mouth?

For me, I enjoy the taste of my own cum when I’m licking it off my wife in the moment. But if I smell my cum on the towel we used to clean up later…it smells bleachy and I can’t imagine having that in my mouth.

What’s your thoughts? Feel free to share them here or privately.

Do you have a hotpast mission story? I’d love to hear!

Mine was while we were teaching these two 19 year old girls. They were just some really cool chill girls to hang with and so we did hang out with them when we weren’t teaching others. We would go hang at one of their parents house and just talk and eventually moved to watching movies that had come out. My comp and one of the girls seemed to be getting very friendly and would cuddle with each other. Being the impressionable person I was at the time, I grew closer to the other girl and we began to cuddle. It eventually progressed to where they were cuddling under a blanket and we were too as we’d watch whatever movies. I don’t know what was happening with the two of them, but I know for me our hands started to wander and we would feel each other over our clothes. Eventually it led to under the clothes and we were masturbating each other very quietly. Happened a handful of times before I eventually got transferred.

Just wondering if anyone else has this experience? We are having sex again after the most recent kid and my wife is still breastfeeding. When we have sex though, her milk will letdown and start dripping all over us. If you had asked me before I would have thought it was gross, but in the moment when it started happening it was an incredible turn on for me. The warm liquid all over our bodies just intensified everything. Would love to hear your experience.

We are done having kids now but after each kid was born and we were having sex again….her milk filled breasts would leak all over my chest while she was riding me. I don’t know why, but it was such an amazing turn on to see it dripping from her nipples and running down her and on to me. The warm slippery wetness made everything hotter! Anyone else enjoy this? Dm if you’d like to share stories.

I discovered I really like my nipples played with during sex. Not before or after, but during sex, OMG it’s like an instant orgasm when my wife starts biting my nipples. And the harder she bites the better! Anyone else?

Post your first time sexual story here. Feel free to embellish the story bit too!

Have any of you ever been able to accomplish this? I would love to be able to do this to myself. If you have what was it like?