u/Being-Appropriate

Hihi,

This will be SUPER long so, it will hopefully weed out the people on here for some short term fun as that’s the opposite of what I’m looking for. I’m here for something real and genuine.

A little bit about me:
To get it out the way, l’m diagnosed autistic and it does impact me as a person and daily life. Examples being: socialising, routines and needing to recharge, etc.

I’m very timid and shy at first, but become chatty, bubbly and clingy when comfortable. (Still need me time tho)
Can’t shut me up about any of my interests or asking you questions.
Massive homebody,
I don’t work and live with a parent currently. I’m a massive homebody, tho I do want to go out a little more and see some lovely places and would love for that to be with someone I trust.

I’d say I’m very open to things, very curious too!
I like a wide range of things.

I love adore art, I draw and paint. Digital and traditional. (although haven’t been able to paint for quite some time sadly)
I love music, all types from classical to heavy metal.
I enjoy gaming, I built my own pc and have a switch.
I love nature and animals.
Oh! I also love everything gothic, vampires (even have custom fangs) and anything cute! I’m also big on trinkets and collecting!
Looks wise, I’m 168cm 5ft6 maybe 70-80kg? I have no clue. Very pale, straight dark brown hair to my hips and green eyes.
I’m mid size, don’t workout. Multiple tattoos and have ears pierced.

What I’m looking for:
Patience and adaptability
Focused on trust and building a relationship
Great communication
Affectionate and nurturing
Authority/ gentle authority
Protective
Knows themselves well.
I want and need someone that can guide and support me, who I can look to for anything and know they have my back. Of course I’d also be completely devoted to my person in return. I want to be able to fill each other’s weaknesses and opposites.

Physically:
I’d prefer for someone who is taller/fitter than me as I’d love to feel small in comparison as well as, I like being the soft and comfy one while you’re the strong/harder/slightly muscular one. (Hope that makes sense) I’m not saying I want a Greek god lol, I just want someone that can pick me up etc haha
Age range 23 to mid 30s, bigger age gaps make me nervous as there’s a lot of things to keep in mind for that type of dynamic.
Location, preferably close as the goal is to meet up, that’s a non negotiable.

For more kinky things I’d prefer to talk about in private, but I’ll say I’m mainly, if not entirely. On the submissive side with a good portion of brat (comes out more when I’m comfortable with the person). From what I’ve learned the roll I like for my partner to have is caregiver/daddy. Perhaps a mix of a lot of the different types/terms? (I’m not to sure on calling my person daddy tho)

I would appreciate it if you could send a sfw face photo of yourself as I do think looks and being attracted physically to someone is important (not everything but still a factor). I will send one in return if I do find you attractive and you can obviously delete me if you don’t when I send mine. Please, don’t take it personal! I would just rather not waste each other’s time.

It’s important I mention I have little to no experience. I’ve had two online relationships and no intimacy experience. Yes not even holding hands! Again I’m a massive homebody and not the best at socialising with new people. I have been looking into and searching thru these kinky kind of relationships for a few years now and do think it’s fits me well. I take quite some time to warm up to someone so if that’s not for you please don’t message!

Kink is not everything to me. I’m looking for a best friend and person who I want to share life with, Alongside the kind of dynamic I say in this post. At the base of it all we are people, we are equal and both deserve respect

I hope this post doesn’t come off too demanding as the main thing I care about is who a person truly is but, I’ve also had enough of denying what I want and settling for what doesn’t work.

With all that’s been said, someone who is patient and can teach me as we get to know each other would be perfect.

Thank you very much for reading this! Tell me a little about yourself! And I look forward to your message!

Hihi,

This will be SUPER long so, it will hopefully weed out the people on here for some short term fun as that’s the opposite of what I’m looking for. I’m here for something real and genuine.

A little bit about me:

To get it out the way, l’m diagnosed autistic and it does impact me as a person and daily life. Examples being: socialising, routines and needing to recharge, etc.

I’m very timid and shy at first, but become chatty, bubbly and clingy when comfortable. Can’t shut me up about any of my interests or asking you questions.

Massive homebody, I don’t work and live with a parent currently. I’m a massive homebody, tho I do want to go out a little more and see some lovely places and would love for that to be with someone I trust.

I’d say I’m very open to things, very curious too!

I like a wide range of things.

I love adore art, I draw and paint. Digital and traditional. (although haven’t been able to paint for quite some time sadly)

I love music, all types from classical to heavy metal.

I enjoy gaming, I built my own pc and have a switch.

I love nature and animals.

Oh! I also love everything gothic, vampires (even have custom fangs) and anything cute! I’m also big on trinkets and collecting!

Looks wise, I’m 168cm 5ft6. Very pale, straight dark brown hair to my butt lol and green eyes.

I’m mid size, maybe around 80kg currently? I truly have no clue. don’t workout. Multiple tattoos and have ears pierced.

What I’m looking for:

Patience and adaptability

Focused on trust and building a relationship

Great communication

Affectionate and nurturing

Authority/ gentle authority

Protective

Knows themselves well.

I want and need someone that can guide and support me, who I can look to for anything and know they have my back. Of course I’d also be completely devoted to my person in return. I want to be able to fill each other’s weaknesses and opposites.

Physically:

I’d prefer for someone who is taller/fitter than me as I’d love to feel small and weak in comparison as well as, I like being the soft and pliant one while you’re the strong/harder one. (Hope that makes sense) I’m not saying I want a Greek god lol, I just want someone that can pick up etc haha. I’d say the face is the more important than body tho! I like the intimacy of looking at each other.

Age range 23 to mid 30s, bigger age gaps make me nervous as there’s a lot of things to keep in mind for that type of dynamic.

Location, preferably close as the goal is to meet up, that’s a non negotiable.

For more kinky things I’d prefer to talk about in private, but I’ll say I’m mainly if not entirely on the submissive side with a good portion of brat (comes out more when I’m comfortable with the person). I feel the ‘fuck around and find out’ very interesting, From what I’ve learned the roll I like for my partner to have is caregiver/daddy. Perhaps a mix of a lot of the different types/terms?

I would appreciate it if you could send a sfw photo of yourself as I do think looks and being attracted physically to someone is important (not everything but still a factor). I will send one in return if I do find you attractive and you can obviously delete me if you don’t when I send mine. Please, don’t take it personal! I would just rather not waste each other’s time.

It’s important I mention I have little to no experience. I’ve had two online relationships and no intimacy experience. Yes not even holding hands! Again I’m a massive homebody and not the best at socialising with new people. I have been looking into and searching thru these kinky kind of relationships for a few years now and do think it’s fits me well. I take quite some time to warm up to someone so if that’s not for you please don’t message!

Kink is not everything to me. I’m looking for a best friend and person who I want to share life with, Alongside the kind of dynamic I say in this post. At the base of it all we are people, we are equal and both deserve respect

I hope this post doesn’t come off too demanding as the main thing I care about is who a person truly is but, I’ve also had enough of denying what I want and settling for what doesn’t work.

With all that’s been said, someone who is patient and can teach me as we get to know each other would be perfect.

Thank you very much for reading this! Tell me a little about yourself! And I look forward to your message!