I’m the guy who pops into your life and you can’t help but wonder where I was this whole time.
A great listener, partly because I’m insatiably curious and partly because my own story is so unconventional, I have to learn yours too.
I love deep and flirty conversations at all times of day, especially about science and the future, and as a shock to some, I can even use complete sentences. I can do small talk, but it’s not my favourite. I have an often self-deprecating, but seldom dark sense of humour, and love giving and getting laughs in the middle of our otherwise humdrum lives.
Whether it’s a fascinating article you read, a series you’re newly obsessed with, a silly meme that made you laugh, or if we get that far, even that piece of erotica you find yourself going back to - I’m here for all of it.
I’ve got a successful career in tech where, because I use these skills to great effect, I am respected and sought after. But alas, they’re not saving me from my dead bedroom at home.
I want to find someone who will appreciate me sharing these talents with them, and make me feel as wanted as I want them. Is that you?
If you want to wake up my sweet nothings in your dms, feel the butterflies in your stomach as we think about each other in wee vignettes throughout the day, and have the kind of connection you’ve found lacking in others - I’m your antidote.
For the stuff I don’t like, I’m not hugely into sports - Americans seem to invent most of their own - though I am getting into baseball. I used to run and play rugby semi-seriously. I love to rock climb but haven’t had the chance in too long. I love the satisfaction of a good vista, or a completed game playthrough.
At the risk of being ungentlemanly but to whet your appetite if you’re curious; I am incredibly open minded and generous behind closed doors - almost certainly more than any man you’ve ever met. I love to spoil with attention, and explore everything you know makes you feel good and anything you’ve been curious to try too.
Non judgmental and patient, I’d especially love to connect with you if you’ve dealt with too much shame or guilt in the past, and want a safe outlet to be into whatever you’re into.
I don’t have kids, but don’t mind if you do. I have a busy career, but will make time for you if you’re the right person, and make sure you feel like the priority you would be to me.
I’ll be an open book to you and give you the honesty you deserve to build trust, but that also means I won’t tell you what you want to hear.
And for those still reading, thanks! I am indeed 40, I’m very open if you can’t tell already, but have a thing for short curvy women of any race. I’m not a gym rat, but I am working on my current dad bod.
Send me a dm and let’s continue piquing your curiosity.