u/BigOlFinesse

To jump into a little bit about myself, I can be a bit of a surly person on the surface, but generally I’d like to think I have a very positive and optimistic outlook on life. I take good care of my health, fitness and diet and stay on top of obligations and responsibilities whether they be with family or friends. I’ve been working since I was quite young and relish in all that is afforded by that.

I really value my independence, so I’m not looking for someone to take all agency out of my life, just a genuine and real companionship that is mutually supportive and beneficial.

Perhaps androgynous may have been a bit misleading, as whilst I’m definitely a man, my style and mannerisms swings quite heavily from masculine (though still odd) to what would be conceived as more traditionally feminine when I’m out and about during my time off.

I’m quite politically opinionated, and lean very heavily to the left when it comes to social, economic and individual aspects of life. I also read quite a lot, though this comes and goes in phases. My genre of choice would be sci-fi though I’ve been branching out quite a lot recently on family and friend’s recommendations. I live in a house share with 2 close friends of mine, and cook regularly, always trying (and often ruining) new recipes, though that will not stop me from being a good chef one day.

I’m 5”8 and have a stocky lower half and skinny upper half of my body. Blond hair that I haven’t cut since pre pandemic. And a few piercings. I believe I have some pictures up on my profile should you be curious.

I would prefer someone my age or older, you don’t have to have had any experience in this type of dynamic, but a self assuredness is very valuable. I have quite a bit of experience in femdom dynamics and I’m someone that likes to both give and receive. I take joy from being the centre of attention and take even more joy from knowing the other is having that pleasure.

Generally I get a lot of vicarious enjoyment out of things both sexually and socially, the more good in this world the better. I have dived into many different kinks, and taken great joy in many of them, though ultimately I don’t hold any too close to my heart as I’m more of a people pleaser than anything else. (Though not so much so that I don’t know my own worth and boundaries) I’m not the biggest fan of penetration, giving or receiving, though this is not a steadfast opinion.

Should you be interested please just message me with whatever is on your mind, and I’d love to have a conversation and see where things go. I’d ultimately like the dynamic to become something that materialises in the real world for us both, but again that’s not a steadfast opinion.

I hope this hasn’t been too rambling and performative, but I suppose that’s kind of the point of a post like this, and I do like rambling and performing.

Nonetheless, I hope this post finds you basking in the beauty of life. Have a nice day

Pics on my profile should you be so curious.

Hope your evening is as relaxed as mine is, I have not long moved here and I’m looking to make some connections and meet some people in this funky place. I’m incredibly open minded and willing to talk to men, women and all else that this lovely world has to offer.

I’m an funny combination of masculinity and femininity that presents itself at different times in different ways, though definitely a man despite the suggestive and promiscuous ways I sometimes dress, and this isn’t something I’m shy about publicly. I take care of my health and lifestyle and am fairly independent. I’m also fairly submissive naturally, but perfectly capable and willing to switch depending on the person and/or the mood. I live in a house share with two close friends, so capable of hosting should the chance arise, but if you could also that would be splendid.

I have a fair amount of experience in quite a few different kinks, and I’m not at all wedded to the traditional dom/sub dynamic. I’d like to think I’m a very generous person and more than willing to put time and effort into someone’s pleasure.

Age wise, I’d prefer someone my age or older, and having experience in this wonderful thing we call life is something I find quite attractive.

Reach out to me however you please, however crazy it may be, I’m not judgements in any way but it certainly makes it easier to hold a conversation with cards on the table.

Xoxo