u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan

36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

Looking to meet up within a week to see if we have chemistry.

Just a guy here in Brooklyn with a high sex drive looking for a gal with a high sex drive. About me, I'm more of a quiet introverted type, 420 and psychedelic friendly. I like spending time practicing guitar and piano, giving affection to my cat, hiking, museums, video games with my friends. Other facts about me; I like chocolate, ambient music, and my favorite show is King of The Hill. Description wise, brown shaggy curly hair, slim, glasses.

I'm looking for someone that's hopefully in my immediate area near the Morgan L train station, 420 friendly and looking to hang out as well outside of sex. I want someone that I can enjoy hanging out with in bed and out of the bed. Someone to share memes (and sexy pics) throughout the day.

Shows I enjoy: King of the Hill, The Sopranos, early Simpsons, Kids in the Hall, Bob's Burgers, I think You Should Leave,

Other music I like: The Grateful Dead, Motown, Julian Baker, Allman Brothers, Sylvan Esso, Phish, Pink Floyd, Parliament Funkadelic.

Please please please, NO men (this includes couples, I don't want to be your bull) Looking only for a cis-woman.

If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains.

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36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

I am also looking for someone to devote all my attention and affection towards, a life long partner.I am 100% certain that I do not want kids or to be any sort of step- parent. I have a cat that is my baby, and I would do anything for him, but that's the extent. Quite fine with being the cool uncle.

About me: Born and raised in NYC, lived in Florida for a bit till High school. Have a degree in business, manager at my job. My main hobby is playing music, I primarily play bass but play several other instruments. I also dabble in DIY electronics and lighting design. I'm not a sports guy at all. I’m a bit of a homebody outside of that but do I enjoy spending time in parks or museums. I rarely drink, but I do enjoy weed and psychedelics occasionally. I do what I can to stay healthy. A recent medical diagnosis has forced me to be more conscious of my diet choices. That said, I do enjoy indoor rock climbing and hiking. A matching high sex drive would be nice too.

I’m looking for someone with similar tastes and lifestyle. Ideally we both have our own hobbies and interests that we include each other in, I’m looking for someone to be my partner, someone to share my life with and be a part of theirs. I honestly love the idea of doing romantic things for my partner and being affectionate. I want to hear about your day every day. A matching high sex drive would be nice too. I'm a sucker for dorks, artists and gals with glasses.

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36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

I am also seeking a long term monogamous child free relationship. (My last girlfriend I met off this sub). Is sexual chemistry and high libido important to me, yes. But also having someone to share hobbies with, hold hands with while we walk in the park. I want to hear about your day, take a trip upstate to go hiking, get ice cream in the summer, hot coca in the winter. It's more than just really good sex.

About me, I'm more of a quiet introverted type, 420 and psychedelic friendly. I like spending time practicing guitar and piano, giving affection to my cat, hiking, museums, video games with my friends (jackbox, currently playing Schedule 1 and Fallout4 again). Other facts about me; I like chocolate, ambient music, and my favorite show is King of The Hill. Description wise, brown shaggy curly hair, slim, glasses. I'm looking for someone that's hopefully near the L train or in Brooklyn.

Shows I enjoy: King of the Hill, The Sopranos, early Simpsons, Kids in the Hall, Bob's Burgers, I think You Should Leave, 90 day fiance binge for no real reason. Love video essays and Red letter media on Youtube.

Other music I like: The Grateful Dead, Motown, Julian Baker, Sylvan Esso, Phish, Pink Floyd, Parliament Funkadelic.

Please please please, NO men (this includes couples, I don't want to be your bull) Looking only for a cis-woman.

If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains.

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36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

Bigger then better but all cup size welcome. I'm 36 in Brooklyn, can host.4 20 friendly, have an adorable cat, manager at my job and musician by hobby. Let's have some fun!

NYC only. Please don't message me if you're not in NYC. Really into the idea of 100% focus on my partners pleasure. Loving the idea of you on my bed, I light up a joint for you, and the next hour(s) is all about your pleasure. Last tested: Jan 2026 Please read: Don't respond if you take days to respond or think ghosting is ok. I'm 36, single and can host in East Williamsburg right by the L train. Looking for someone that knows how to communicate, 420 friendly (obviously), not allergic to cats, and looking for consistency. Not looking for penpals, looking to meet up within a week to see if we have chemistry. If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains. I'm sorry, but respectfully just not interested in BBW.

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36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

Bigger thebetter but all cup size welcome. I'm 36 in Brooklyn, can host.4420 friendly, have an adorable cat, manager at my job and musician by hobby. Let's have some fun!

NYC only. Please don't message me if you're not in NYC Unrelated, I keep getting really rude people messaging me from this subreddit. Why? Really into the idea of 100% focus on my partners pleasure. Loving the idea of you on my bed, I light up a joint for you, and the next hour(s) is all about your pleasure. Last tested: Jan 2026 Please read: Don't respond if you take days to respond or think ghosting is ok. I'm 36, single and can host in East Williamsburg right by the L train. Looking for someone that knows how to communicate, 420 friendly (obviously), not allergic to cats, and looking for consistency. Not looking for penpals, looking to meet up within a week to see if we have chemistry. If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains. I'm sorry, but respectfully just not interested in BBW.

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36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

36 year old single male living and can host in Brooklyn off the L train. 420 friendly, tested last month and have an adorable cat that likes snuggles. More about me, manager at my job, musician as a hobby. I enjoy introducing new experiences, like how to play a E major 7 chord, or getting tied down to a bed and spanked. Usual stuff. NYC ONLY

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36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

36 year old single male living and can host in Brooklyn off the L train. 420 friendly, tested last month and have an adorable cat that likes snuggles. More about me, manager at my job, musician as a hobby. I enjoy introducing new experiences, like how to play a E major 7 chord, or getting tied down to a bed and spanked. Usual stuff. NYC ONLY

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 8 days ago

36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

Bigger than better but all cup size welcome. I'm 36 in Brooklyn, can host.4420 friendly, have an adorable cat, manager at my job and musician by hobby. Let's have some fun!

NYC only. Please don't message me if you're not in NYC Unrelated, I keep getting really rude people messaging me from this subreddit. Why? Really into the idea of 100% focus on my partners pleasure. Loving the idea of you on my bed, I light up a joint for you, and the next hour(s) is all about your pleasure. Last tested: Jan 2026 Please read: Don't respond if you take days to respond or think ghosting is ok. I'm 36, single and can host in East Williamsburg right by the L train. Looking for someone that knows how to communicate, 420 friendly (obviously), not allergic to cats, and looking for consistency. Not looking for penpals, looking to meet up within a week to see if we have chemistry. If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains. I'm sorry, but respectfully just not interested in BBW.

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 8 days ago

36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

Bigger than better but all cup size welcome. I'm 36 in Brooklyn, can host.4420 friendly, have an adorable cat, manager at my job and musician by hobby. Let's have some fun!

NYC only. Please don't message me if you're not in NYC Unrelated, I keep getting really rude people messaging me from this subreddit. Why? Really into the idea of 100% focus on my partners pleasure. Loving the idea of you on my bed, I light up a joint for you, and the next hour(s) is all about your pleasure. Last tested: Jan 2026 Please read: Don't respond if you take days to respond or think ghosting is ok. I'm 36, single and can host in East Williamsburg right by the L train. Looking for someone that knows how to communicate, 420 friendly (obviously), not allergic to cats, and looking for consistency. Not looking for penpals, looking to meet up within a week to see if we have chemistry. If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains. I'm sorry, but respectfully just not interested in BBW.

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 8 days ago

36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

Please don't respond if you take days to message back or think ghosting is ok.

Looking to meet up within a week to see if we have chemistry.

Just a guy here in Brooklyn with a high sex drive looking for a gal with a high sex drive. About me, I'm more of a quiet introverted type, 420 and psychedelic friendly. I like spending time practicing guitar and piano, giving affection to my cat, hiking, museums, video games with my friends. Other facts about me; I like chocolate, ambient music, and my favorite show is King of The Hill. Description wise, brown shaggy curly hair, slim, glasses.

I'm looking for someone that's hopefully in my immediate area near the Morgan L train station, 420 friendly and looking to hang out as well outside of sex. I want someone that I can enjoy hanging out with in bed and out of the bed. Someone to share memes (and sexy pics) throughout the day.

Shows I enjoy: King of the Hill, The Sopranos, early Simpsons, Kids in the Hall, Bob's Burgers, I think You Should Leave,

Other music I like: The Grateful Dead, Motown, Julian Baker, Allman Brothers, Sylvan Esso, Phish, Pink Floyd, Parliament Funkadelic.

Please please please, NO men (this includes couples, I don't want to be your bull) Looking only for a cis-woman.

If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains.

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 8 days ago

36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

I am serious about finding a long term monogamous relationship. (My last girlfriend I met off this sub). Is sexual chemistry and high libido important to me, yes. But also having someone to share hobbies with, hold hands with while we walk in the park. I want to hear about your day, take a trip upstate to go hiking, get ice cream in the summer, hot coca in the winter. It's more than just really good sex.

About me, I'm more of a quiet introverted type, 420 and psychedelic friendly. I like spending time practicing guitar and piano, giving affection to my cat, hiking, museums, video games with my friends (jackbox, currently playing Schedule 1 and Fallout4 again). Other facts about me; I like chocolate, ambient music, and my favorite show is King of The Hill. Description wise, brown shaggy curly hair, slim, glasses. I'm looking for someone that's hopefully near the L train or in Brooklyn.

Shows I enjoy: King of the Hill, The Sopranos, early Simpsons, Kids in the Hall, Bob's Burgers, I think You Should Leave, 90 day fiance binge for no real reason. Love video essays and Red letter media on Youtube.

Other music I like: The Grateful Dead, Motown, Julian Baker, Sylvan Esso, Phish, Pink Floyd, Parliament Funkadelic.

Please please please, NO men (this includes couples, I don't want to be your bull) Looking only for a cis-woman.

If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains.

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 8 days ago
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36 [M4F] #NYC - Glass of wine, a joint, and a night focusing on your needs.

I'm looking for someone to devote all my attention and affection towards, a life long partner.I am 100% certain that I do not want kids or to be any sort of step- parent. I have a cat that is my baby, and I would do anything for him, but that's the extent. Quite fine with being the cool uncle.

About me: Born and raised in NYC, lived in Florida for a bit till High school. Have a degree in business, manager at my job. My main hobby is playing music, I primarily play bass but play several other instruments. I also dabble in DIY electronics and lighting design. I'm not a sports guy at all. I’m a bit of a homebody outside of that but do I enjoy spending time in parks or museums. I rarely drink, but I do enjoy weed and psychedelics occasionally. I do what I can to stay healthy. A recent medical diagnosis has forced me to be more conscious of my diet choices. That said, I do enjoy indoor rock climbing and hiking. A matching high sex drive would be nice too.

I’m looking for someone with similar tastes and lifestyle. Ideally we both have our own hobbies and interests that we include each other in, I’m looking for someone to be my partner, someone to share my life with and be a part of theirs. I honestly love the idea of doing romantic things for my partner and being affectionate. I want to hear about your day every day. A matching high sex drive would be nice too. I'm a sucker for dorks, artists and gals with glasses.

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 8 days ago

Anyone else consider stop posting here because of the amount of creepy dudes who message you?

No I don't want to "test" your imaginary girlfriend.

No I'm not going to give out a woman's contact information for you.

No, I don't want to talk about your favorite band or trade pics.

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 8 days ago

A woman from LA wanted the Big Apple experience.

When she did finally arrive, the time with her and the sex was amazing.

u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 9 days ago

I like when women share my pics with their friends

Men who message me will get reported and blocked. I'm only interested in talking to women.

u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 10 days ago

For some reason, I'm really turned on knowing I'm too big for anal sex.

Only one girl has been brave enough.

u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 11 days ago

36 [M4F] #NYC - Let me teach you Guitar/Piano among other things.

36 year old single male living and can host in Brooklyn off the L train. 420 friendly, tested last month and have an adorable cat that likes snuggles. More about me, manager at my job, musician as a hobby. I enjoy introducing new experiences, like how to play a E major 7 chord, or getting tied down to a bed and spanked. Usual stuff. NYC ONLY

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 12 days ago

36 [M4F] #NYC - Seeking a big titty goth girl for endless fun.

36 year old single male living and can host in Brooklyn off the L train. 420 friendly, tested last month and have an adorable cat that likes snuggles. More about me, manager at my job, musician as a hobby. I enjoy introducing new experiences, like how to play a E major 7 chord, or getting tied down to a bed and spanked. Usual stuff. NYC ONLY

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 12 days ago

36 [M4F] #NYC - Seeking a big titty goth girl. Are you her?

36 year old single male living and can host in Brooklyn off the L train. 420 friendly, tested last month and have an adorable cat that likes snuggles. More about me, manager at my job, musician as a hobby. I enjoy introducing new experiences, like how to play a E major 7 chord, or getting tied down to a bed and spanked. Usual stuff. NYC ONLY

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u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 12 days ago

Another woman I turned into a size queen

Met her on reddit a while back. She was great.

u/BrooklynDeadheadPhan — 12 days ago