I’m looking to get into Estim, what’s a good way to start?
So my Dom has recently began teasing me more and more about shock collars/estim as a focus for a session. It’s totally unexplored territory but it’s something I very much want to try. We play a lot long distance so I’ve been looking for something they can control remotely while we chat, game, play, etc. From my research, I’ve seen a lot saying you shouldn’t use a shock collar (even those made for humans or for small dogs) on your neck as there’s a lot of potential for nerve damage. Is there any way to make a shock collar work in this situation, or is it better to avoid it and focus on other locations for estim?
Also, I’d really appreciate any advice on what I should look to purchase for estim play. It seems like there’s a lot of components that are used together, so it’s a little overwhelming as to what I need and what can be saved for a later purchase. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated!❤️