u/Capn_T_Driver

40 [M4F] #IL #WI Dom/CG looking for that special someone

Hello!

Right out of the gate, I'm looking for a woman who is interest in and/or willing to incorporate diapers and some aspects of ABDL with her little space. If that's not you, we're not going to work out. I also need my potential little to have a firm grasp on her adult space regardless of padding status. I'm looking for a relationship grounded in reality, but spiced up by our shared kink interests.

About me:

I'm 40, male, white, 6'5", about 210lbs, I live about 40-odd miles northwest of Chicago, I own a trucking business that enables me to do a ton of traveling, and I have an assortment of interests and hobbies outside cruising US interstates for work, such as guitar, photography, sports cars, and more. I do have experience as a Dom/CG, and I place a heavy emphasis on the nurturing aspects of this dynamic. I want you to feel safe, secure, and comfortable with me first and foremost, and once that's been achieved we can expand our dynamic from there. For example, if we scene together and I put you in a diaper, I am still going to focus on engaging with YOU, not your diaper. I also enjoy wearing diapers for myself, but I don't have a little space, and I do not switch beyond diaper changes.

I'm also an ABDL author and currently writing a multi-part story you can find through my profile.

About you:

ideally I'm looking for a woman who's between 24-33, but I'm willing to talk to someone older or younger than that range. However, I will not talk to anyone younger than 21. I need you to be a healthy weight for your height, because I really enjoy giving uppies, again regardless of whether or not you have a little space. I don't expect supermodel perfection, and I think curves can be sexy as long as they're healthy. I also will not do online-only: you must be willing to meet in real life.

As nice as it would be for you to live somewhere within about three hours of Chicago/O'Hare Airport, I have the ability to travel to you thanks to my business once we've gotten to know each other and established a connection. I operate west/southwest of New York City and east of Omaha, Nebraska, which encompasses a huge area of the US. I do not operate in Canada or Mexico, however.

I'm very willing to accommodate your little space, as long as your little space is still verbal and mobile. While I definitely need and want you to be in diapers, I'm also willing to incorporate pull-ups as well depending on your needs/wants/desires for our dynamic. I will note I don't expect you to be padded every single time we engage in kink activity.

Even though I'm seeking a kink-featuring relationship, I still want to build something that's grounded, healthy, and very much adult that has a long-term future regardless of how often we engage in kink activities. I do not intend to look at you as a kink dispenser, and I expect you not to see me the same way as well.

Limits:

Women who are chubby/thiccc/bbw, trans/non-binary/gender-fluid/sissy, poly/ENM, international travel (my business is currently not licensed to travel outside the US), gore, excessive discipline/abuse, excessively bratty behavior, bodily fluids/scat (outside of diapers), smoking/vaping, excessive drinking, marijuana in any form, and/or any other drugs.

If what I've written sounds like it could be something you're interested in, please feel free to send me a DM. If I'm not what you're looking for, then I hope you find what you're seeking!

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u/Capn_T_Driver — 4 days ago

40 [M4F] #IL #WI Dom/CG looking for padded partner be they big or little

Hello!

I'm looking for a woman who enjoys diapers at least casually, regardless of whether or not she has a little space, but also has a firm grasp on her adult space. I'm looking for a relationship grounded in reality, but spiced up by our mutual ABDL and kink interests.

About me:

I'm 40, male, white, 6'5", about 210lbs, I live about 40-odd miles northwest of Chicago, I own a trucking business that enables me to do a ton of traveling, and I have an assortment of interests and hobbies outside work, such as guitar, photography, sports cars, and more. I do have experience as a Dom/CG, and I place a heavy emphasis on the nurturing aspects of this dynamic. I want you to feel safe, secure, and comfortable with me first and foremost, and once that's been achieved we can expand our dynamic from there. For example, if we scene together and I put you in a diaper, I am still going to focus on engaging with YOU, not your diaper. I am also a diaper lover, but I absolutely do not have a little space (believe me, I checked) and I do not switch for anything more than diaper changes.

I'm also an ABDL author and currently writing a multi-part story you can find through my profile.

About you:

Ideally I'm looking for a woman who's between 24-33, but I'm willing to talk to someone older or younger than that range. However, I will not talk to anyone younger than 21. I need you to be a healthy weight for your height, because I really enjoy giving uppies, again regardless of whether or not you have a little space. I don't expect supermodel perfection, and I think curves can be sexy as long as they're healthy. I also will not do online-only: you must be willing to meet in real life.

As nice as it would be for you to live somewhere within about three hours of Chicago/O'Hare Airport, I have the ability to travel to you thanks to my business once we've gotten to know each other and established a connection. I operate west/southwest of New York City and east of Omaha, Nebraska, which encompasses a huge area of the US. I do not operate in Canada or Mexico, however, and it's rare that I cross the Rockies.

I'm very willing to accommodate your little space if you have one, as long as your little space is still verbal and mobile. I'm willing to incorporate pull-ups as well depending on your needs/wants/desires for our dynamic, but I need you to be willing to be in diapers as well.

Even though I'm seeking a kink-featuring relationship, I still want to build something that's grounded, healthy, and very much adult that has a long-term future regardless of how often we engage in kink activities. I do not intend to look at you as a kink dispenser, and I expect you not to see me the same way as well.

Limits:

Women who are chubby/thiccc/bbw, trans/non-binary/gender-fluid/sissy, poly/ENM, international travel (my business is currently not licensed to travel outside the US), gore, excessive discipline/abuse, excessively bratty behavior, bodily fluids/scat (outside of diapers), smoking/vaping, excessive drinking, marijuana in any form, and/or any other drugs.

If what I've written sounds like it could be something you're interested in, please feel free to send me a DM. If I'm not what you're looking for, then I hope you find what you're seeking!

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u/Capn_T_Driver — 4 days ago

40 [M4F] #IL #WI Dom/CG looking for that special someone

Hello!

Right out of the gate, I'm looking for a woman who is interest in and/or willing to incorporate diapers and some aspects of ABDL with her little space at least casually, but also has a firm grasp on her adult space regardless of padding status. I'm looking for a relationship grounded in reality, but spiced up by our shared kink interests.

About me:

I'm 40, male, white, 6'5", about 210lbs, I live about 40-odd miles northwest of Chicago, I own a trucking business that enables me to do a ton of traveling, and I have an assortment of interests and hobbies outside cruising US interstates for work, such as guitar, photography, sports cars, and more. I do have experience as a Dom/CG, and I place a heavy emphasis on the nurturing aspects of this dynamic. I want you to feel safe, secure, and comfortable with me first and foremost, and once that's been achieved we can expand our dynamic from there. For example, if we scene together and I put you in a diaper, I am still going to focus on engaging with YOU, not your diaper. I also enjoy wearing diapers for myself, but I don't have a little space, and I do not switch beyond diaper changes.

I'm also an ABDL author and currently writing a multi-part story you can find through my profile.

About you:

ideally I'm looking for a woman who's between 24-33, but I'm willing to talk to someone older or younger than that range. However, I will not talk to anyone younger than 21. I need you to be a healthy weight for your height, because I really enjoy giving uppies, again regardless of whether or not you have a little space. I don't expect supermodel perfection, and I think curves can be sexy as long as they're healthy. I also will not do online-only: you must be willing to meet in real life.

As nice as it would be for you to live somewhere within about three hours of Chicago, I have the ability to travel to you thanks to my business once we've gotten to know each other and established a connection. I operate west/southwest of New York City and east of Omaha, Nebraska, which encompasses a huge area of the US. I do not operate in Canada or Mexico, however.

I'm very willing to accommodate your little space, as long as your little space is still verbal and mobile. While I strongly prefer you to be a diaper girl, I'm willing to incorporate pull-ups as well depending on your needs/wants/desires for our dynamic, but I don't expect you to be padded every single time we engage in kink activity.

Even though I'm seeking a kink-featuring relationship, I still want to build something that's grounded, healthy, and very much adult that has a long-term future regardless of how often we engage in kink activities. I do not intend to look at you as a kink dispenser, and I expect you not to see me the same way as well.

Limits:

Women who are chubby/thiccc/bbw, trans/non-binary/gender-fluid/sissy, poly/ENM, international travel (my business is currently not licensed to travel outside the US), gore, excessive discipline/abuse, excessively bratty behavior, bodily fluids/scat (outside of diapers), smoking/vaping, excessive drinking, marijuana in any form, and/or any other drugs.

If what I've written sounds like it could be something you're interested in, please feel free to send me a DM. If I'm not what you're looking for, then I hope you find what you're seeking!

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u/Capn_T_Driver — 12 days ago

40 [M4F] #IL #WI Dom/CG looking for padded partner be they big or little

Hello!

I'm looking for a woman who enjoys diapers at least casually, regardless of whether or not she has a little space, but also has a firm grasp on her adult space. I'm looking for a relationship grounded in reality, but spiced up by our mutual ABDL interests.

About me:

I'm 40, male, white, 6'5", about 210lbs, I live about 40-odd miles northwest of Chicago, I own a trucking business that enables me to do a ton of traveling, and I have an assortment of interests and hobbies outside work, such as guitar, photography, sports cars, and more. I do have experience as a Dom/CG, and I place a heavy emphasis on the nurturing aspects of this dynamic. I want you to feel safe, secure, and comfortable with me first and foremost, and once that's been achieved we can expand our dynamic from there. For example, if we scene together and I put you in a diaper, I am still going to focus on engaging with YOU, not your diaper. I am also a diaper lover, but I absolutely do not have a little space and I do not switch for anything more than diaper changes.

I'm also an ABDL author and currently writing a multi-part story you can find through my profile.

About you:

Ideally I'm looking for a woman who's between 24-33, but I'm willing to talk to someone older or younger than that range. However, I will not talk to anyone younger than 21. I need you to be a healthy weight for your height, because I really enjoy giving uppies, again regardless of whether or not you have a little space. I don't expect supermodel perfection, and I think curves can be sexy as long as they're healthy. I also will not do online-only: you must be willing to meet in real life.

As nice as it would be for you to live somewhere within about three hours of Chicago, I have the ability to travel to you thanks to my business once we've gotten to know each other and established a connection. I operate west/southwest of New York City and east of Omaha, Nebraska, which encompasses a huge area of the US. I do not operate in Canada or Mexico, however.

I'm very willing to accommodate your little space, as long as your little space is still verbal and mobile. While I strongly prefer you to be a diaper girl, I'm willing to incorporate pull-ups as well depending on your needs/wants/desires for our dynamic.

Even though I'm seeking a kink-featuring relationship, I still want to build something that's grounded, healthy, and very much adult that has a long-term future regardless of how often we engage in kink activities. I do not intend to look at you as a kink dispenser, and I expect you not to see me the same way as well.

Limits:

Women who are chubby/thiccc/bbw, trans/non-binary/gender-fluid/sissy, poly/ENM, international travel (my business is currently not licensed to travel outside the US), gore, excessive discipline/abuse, excessively bratty behavior, bodily fluids/scat (outside of diapers), smoking/vaping, excessive drinking, marijuana in any form, and/or any other drugs.

If what I've written sounds like it could be something you're interested in, please feel free to send me a DM. If I'm not what you're looking for, then I hope you find what you're seeking!

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u/Capn_T_Driver — 12 days ago