u/Captor-Raptor

So were we, when it mysteriously disappeared a few months ago. We had hoped there was some kind of glitch that brought it offline, and that it would return as quickly as it vanished.

But when it became clear after several months that this wasn't going to happen, we decided to create a new sub for the same community that had suddenly lost their home.

If you're wondering if this is "the new marriedBDSM", that's exactly what this is, and we're glad you found it – especially if you were previously a member there!

Hello and welcome! This sub was created as a community for people who have a D/s dynamic – or practice any other form of BDSM – with their a spouse or within another long-term committed relationship. It is here for support and discussion. No image sharing is allowed (including via links).

Integrating D/s into a multifaceted relationship like marriage presents unique challenges – both emotional and logistical – that aren’t often discussed in other BDSM subreddits. Also, a lot of discussion in other subreddits revolves around issues and dynamics that aren’t relevant to people in this sort of relationship (finding parters, online-only dynamics, etc.)

Posts here don’t need to exclusively deal with issues unique to D/s within marriage, but they must be relevant to people in this sort of dynamic. Please review the rules in the sidebar for full details about what is and is not allowed here.

This is meant to be a welcoming and inclusive community. Be kind to each other, accept that everyone loves and plays in their own way, and let’s learn and grow together!