u/CeCouple88

My wife and I have been slowly dipping our toes into the hotwifing and non-monogamy world. I have some background in my previous posts. Just thought I would post to offer some hope and encouragement to couples working their way through starting out.

A little over a week ago she returned from a trip away where she dated a guy for a few days, and then ended up sucking him off. The scenario and story have driven us both crazy. Our emotional and sexual connection has been through the roof.

Through the experience she’s gotten comfortable with me exploring the hotwifing communities on Reddit, and she’s now thinking about planning a trip to see this guy. She feels like there’s some unfinished business because she didn’t get to fuck his big cock.

Anyway, it’s been years in the making, but we’re really into this now, and it’s been so great in so many unexpected ways. The best part has been how much closer it’s made us feel in all ways, not just sexually. I’m so glad we’ve taken the time to explore this together, finding what works for both us, through conversation and compromise along the way.

My wife and I have been slowly dipping our toes into the hotwifing and non-monogamy world. I have some background in my previous posts. Just thought I would post to offer some hope and encouragement to couples working their way through starting out.

A little over a week ago my wife returned from a trip away where she dated a guy for a few days, and then ended up sucking him off. The scenario and story have driven us both crazy. Our emotional and sexual connection has been through the roof.

Through the experience she’s gotten comfortable with me exploring the hotwifing communities on Reddit, and she’s now thinking about planning a trip to see this guy. She feels like there’s some unfinished business because she didn’t get to fuck his big cock.

Anyway, it’s been years in the making, but we’re really into this now, and it’s been so great in so many unexpected ways. The best part has been how much closer it’s made us feel in all ways, not just sexually. I’m so glad we’ve taken the time to explore this together, finding what works for both us, through conversation and compromise along the way.

Hey everyone!

My wife and I have been playing with hotwifing slowly over the last year or so. I’ve always really been into the idea watching her with another guy or having a threesome. We played with those scenarios (and many others involving other people) for years in fantasy.

My wife travels for work a few times a year, and for years I’ve encouraged her to flirt and seek connection when she’s away from home. Even just giving her that encouragement let her feel a lot of freedom and autonomy that she can’t access easily at home, in our routines and in the domestic sphere.

Last year when she was out of town she visited a male friend of ours, and there was a ton of tension. When she came back we had some of the hottest sex of our marriage. And we started to listen to poly podcasts and do some reading about different forms of non-monogamy that aren’t just focused on the hotwife kink. Over the following months our communication and connection were unlocked in new ways. We developed so much openness and excitement on an emotional and relational level, and that was something I didn’t anticipate. It felt like we were newlyweds in some ways.

I was also able to understand that my wife needed emotional connection for anything physical to happen. She doesn’t feel an attraction without an emotional connection. So what we were aiming for started to evolve from her indulging my hotwife kink to us exploring an open relationship where she is the only one that has partners outside the marriage. And exploring that configuration has really worked for us.

Last fall she went out of town again and went on some dates with our friend, and did a lot of making out and groping. Again when she came back the sex was insane. And so was the intensity of our connection in all ways.

The next few seasons got really busy. And for several reasons the connection with our friend didn’t work out.

Then, last week, she was away for work again. And again I encouraged her to go flirt. And she managed to get invited on a date! She was just at a bar watching soccer, and got chatting with the guy next to her at the bar. The next thing you know, they’re on a date. And then dating and hanging out for three days. Without anything happening! He was a total gentleman. She was direct with him that she as married, and he let her lead things. And then on her last night she decided to take the bull by the horns (so to speak 😉) and invited him over to her room to eat dinner and watch soccer. And finally, it did escalate! It didn’t go as far as she was hoping, because he didn’t bring a condom. But she got to suck a big cock and tell me all about it!

We’ve had absolutely mind blowing sex since she got back, and have been riding a totally high. And of course we’re both processing (which is in part why I’m writing this). And she’s still texting with the guy she was with, which is great!

Thanks for reading if you made it this far! I just needed a place to get this out, and this seemed like a great forum.

And update from my post yesterday!

My wife is out of town and invited a new friend back to her hotel room to watch a World Cup game. He brought sushi and wine. But the idiot didn’t bring a condom! They ended up making out, getting naked, and touching each other everywhere. And then she went down on him! He was very complimentary and loved it. And apparently he had a big cock 😁. But then after he finished, he didn’t reciprocate! They went for a drink, and my wife felt fine, but she’s also feeling like the guy really could have done better.

We talked on the phone when she got back to her hotel room, and she ended up cumming while I told her about how her ass was being received on Reddit!

All in all, we’re both feeling good about the situation. It was actually a good step. The most she’d done before was some making out and groping with a friend of ours. So this escalated things. And will give us lots to talk about and play with!

She gets home late tonight. I’ve been edging myself all week while she’s been gone 😳. Can’t wait!

Also, we clearly need to get on some verification so I can post some pictures.

Thanks so much for all the encouragement and kind words on my first post!

Hi everyone! Just wanted to say hello! Have been reading this subreddit for years. And the wife and I are trying this out! She’s been on a couple dates, and done some making out. She’s out of town right now, and has met someone. She’s invited him to her hotel room tonight, which will be a new step for us.

And she also gave me permission to share a couple pictures! Any advice on where to do that?