u/CenTexFunGuy

Location, Location, Location: please be upfront once we move off site

This is more of a vent/rant than anything else. As we all know its is very common, but.. it does not have to be. I have wasted a few hours of texting and dm'ing only to find out they are 100-150 miles away from me. Not the 30 mile radius I searched in.

I get many of you SBs need discretion and safety. 100% on board with that. However, once we move offsite, please, please let us know ASAP you do not live near us at all.

I spent over two hours texting with 2 POTs. Hammered everything out. Then they tell me they live 100-150 miles from me. I would have never engaged them knowing this upfront. Or would have bowed out of the convo very early on.

I know most of us have a search radius for a reason. Mine is 30 miles. Maybe 50 max. So as not to have to 'travel' and vice versa. I know I will get downvoted for this one. but I am not a fan of paying your travel fees since you mislead me from the get go. One POT added a 20% travel fee after the fact. Yeah, no. Not a fan of that.

Please let us know ASAP and factor that into your ask. Not adding it on after the fact.

Back to our regularly shceduled program.

Happy Sugaring!

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u/CenTexFunGuy — 1 day ago