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45M visiting for Pride

I’ll be visiting Ottawa for Pride curious if there’s any bi m/f couples out there looking for a third. Happy to take things at your pace and will be able to host.

I’m 45 (look younger apparently - happy to exchange face pictures if there’s interest after my ad). I’m about 5’11” and 175lbs. I go to the gym four or five times a week and while my body (like all of ours) is a work in progress I’m really happy with where I’m at… if I can get the snacking under control it would be even better ;) I have darker hair and hazel eyes and a well kept beard. I’m also Caucasian.

These days I mostly date/fool around with men, but have been on the lookout for a bi couple who might be looking for a third. I’m very respectful of boundaries and relationship dynamics and not looking to add drama to anyone’s life but looking to enhance where and if I can.

I tend do lean dominant but that can be curbed if it’s not the vibe. I’m very verbal, talkative and a great hang in and out of the bedroom.

PS - while I’m mostly looking for bi m/f couples feel free to drop a line if my ad intrigued you.

u/Civil-Cricket-8612 — 5 days ago

Swordplay Thoughts & Question re: No Voyeurism Rule

Cis guy who went to Oasis for Swordplay last night with a trans male friend yesterday and we had fun fooling around by the pool, in the pool and on the third floor but was curious what’s up with the “no voyeurism” notice on the third floor. What does that mean? Isn’t part of the fun of attending the club *being* watched? Am I missing something? Apologies if I’m missing something obvious. It made us worried to watch other people up there while we were playing ourselves.

Some other random thoughts on the evening:

- thanks to the staff member running the fuck machine for making my friend feel comfortable giving it a shot
- perhaps some sort of mixer game like there is on other nights would be helpful for swordplay? I think the Venn diagram of “anxious” and “attendees for swordplay” is basically a circle and we would’ve loved to interact with other people but found it a bit tricky
- if you happened to be a trans guy wearing big pants who was strapping a cutie upstairs while we were fooling around beside you in the bar room on the third floor, we did peek a bit and it was very hot. ;)

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u/Civil-Cricket-8612 — 1 month ago

Pride Swordplay June 21?

Anyone planning to be at Swordplay next Sunday? Or any bi couples out there in general?

I’m a bisexual guy who loves meeting couples/singles of all types. Open to any number of scenarios — I’m reliable, communicative and a real good hang. I’m especially into cucking situations but again nothing is off the table. Think of me as getting off on making whatever y’all’s fantasy is come true.

I’m a young 45. I still go out dancing on the weekends and lead a pretty social life. I’m 5’11” and 175lbs. Darker hair with a beard. Caucasian but not annoying about it. Good smile and often described with “boyfriend dick” (the kind you never get sick of). I work out 4 or 5 days a week and get compliments when I go out but as a former nerdy teenager I’m still getting use to hearing them. Deemed a “daddy” I’m super open to age, ethnicity or physical type. Hot is hot so if you’re confident in yourself, we’re gonna be a match.

I’m happy to exchange pictures and really hope to hear from some people looking for this sort of connection. Happy hunting!

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u/Civil-Cricket-8612 — 3 months ago

45M4FM Toronto Couples (of all genders) Looking For Another Guy?

I’ve had some luck so figured I’d give it another shot.

I’m a bisexual guy who loves getting together with couples of all types. Open to any number of scenarios — I’m reliable, communicative and a real good hang. I’m especially into cucking situations but again nothing is off the table. Think of me as getting off on making whatever y’all’s fantasy is come true.

I’m a young 45. I still go out dancing on the weekends and lead a pretty social life. Prefer connections over one off situations and very open to grabbing a drink or two first to make sure we mesh. Willing to take some time texting but it’s summer let’s get out and do something - Hanlan’s? A Blue Jays game? Oasis?

I’m 5’11” and 175lbs. Darker hair with a beard. Caucasian but not annoying about it. Good smile and often described with “boyfriend dick” (the kind you never get sick of). I work out 4 or 5 days a week and get compliments when I go out but as a former nerdy teenager I’m still getting use to hearing them. Deemed a “daddy” I’m super open to age, ethnicity or physical type. Hot is hot so if you’re confident in yourself, we’re gonna be a match.

I’m happy to exchange pictures and really hope to hear from some people looking for this sort of connection. Happy hunting!

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u/Civil-Cricket-8612 — 3 months ago