u/ConflictLow3065

I'm struggling sexually with my husband. While we have a wonderful sex life and a beautiful home and family he's blessed us with ... there's ONE part thats more so causing me physical pain..

He has an anal kink. While that's absolutely fine, he's incredibly impatient. To the point where I am getting hurt more often than not. He's respectful of that of course and allows me to heal but, I am to the point where Im so turned off by the pain and bleeding that I feel like everytime I communicate it with him he gets disappointed.

We've been together almost 10 years.. we have a very traditional relationship and family set up. I want him to be satisfied and happy with me.. how do I navigate this?