r/TradwifeAcademy1950s

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Need some guidance

I'm struggling sexually with my husband. While we have a wonderful sex life and a beautiful home and family he's blessed us with ... there's ONE part thats more so causing me physical pain..

He has an anal kink. While that's absolutely fine, he's incredibly impatient. To the point where I am getting hurt more often than not. He's respectful of that of course and allows me to heal but, I am to the point where Im so turned off by the pain and bleeding that I feel like everytime I communicate it with him he gets disappointed.

We've been together almost 10 years.. we have a very traditional relationship and family set up. I want him to be satisfied and happy with me.. how do I navigate this?

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u/ConflictLow3065 — 14 hours ago

A wife’s body belongs to her husband. 🔥🖤

🔔 Remember, girls: Frigidity has no place in a traditional marriage. Your body was given to him on your wedding day and it remains his to enjoy whenever he desires.

A good wife never refuses. She learns to open herself, to receive, and to give herself with enthusiasm to her husband, even when she feels no desire. His pleasure is her duty, and fulfilling that duty is part of true obedience.

When you stop treating your body as something that belongs to you and start treating it as something that belongs to him, the coldness disappears and the marriage grows stronger. Serve your man.

Stay available. Stay willing. Give yourself completely to him. 💕

u/Jack_Badguy_8765 — 17 hours ago

Alarming new study shows that feminism has serious side effects and women should immediately stop participating.

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Among the study's more alarming findings:

-Feminists are 98.7% more likely to be handed an Excel spreadsheet connected to an impossible deadline compared to traditional women. Even more alarming, in many cases, the spreadsheet did not sum properly at the bottom.

-Feminists receive 94% fewer forehead kisses and hear "good girl," 91.3% less.

-Feminists are 17 times less likely to get to wear a cute little sundress with strappy sandals in a field covered in sunflowers. They are also 43 times less likely to get railed, bent over while wearing the cute little sundress.

This alarming study comes on the heels of recent unverified speculation that feminists will be unable to eat chocolate or consume pumpkin spice drinks in the near future.

Further details as they develop!

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u/her_Bully — 1 day ago

This look says it all

Look at the bliss, the joy, the happiness that's felt with a simple touch given while she is beneath her Man. Learn to exist for Him.

u/MidwestTPEDom — 2 days ago

Ready for his pleasure

I'm learning that dressing in a feminine way is about so much more than just pretty dresses and floaty, floral fabrics. Those are just the start!

Putting something pretty and delicate on always makes me feel feminine and sexy, and he enjoys seeing me in things like this. But it's about making choices with HIS pleasure in mind. When i put this blue dress on, I thought about:

- The loose straps that can fall down at any time, inviting his gaze and touch.

- The thin, almost sheer fabric that skims my body and allows my nipples to poke through. I know how much he loves seeing them on display even when I'm going about usual business at home.

- The elastic neckline, which makes for easy access to playing with my tits if he needs stress relief.

- The floaty skirt that allows for even easier access if he needs more stress relief!

- The delicate, soft pattern that he has told me he likes on me. Dressing to his tastes always makes him smile 😊

His pleasure makes me happy ❤️

u/Persimmonsandhoney11 — 2 days ago

Reminder for wives!

Reminder for wives! Stay respectful to your husband!

Do not disagree with him in public

Laugh at all his jokes (no matter how dumb)

Keep his house clean

Try to assist him in any way possible

Encourage him to grope and grab you

Thank him for all he does for you🫶

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u/Idkwhatimdoingtbh22 — 4 days ago

Learning how to sew

I (23f) feel like sewing is such a domestic skill and I’ve been wanting to learn it. I was recently gifted pretty much everything I need to do so.

… I haven’t. I’ve been procrastinating. I literally cannot stop touching myself today when it’s my last day off for the week and I really wanted to dedicate time today to learn. I can’t ignore it. I am hoping someone will maybe have some advice. How to satisfy myself long enough to focus?!

I have a bullet vibrator, clit sucker, wand, two plugs (one bigger one and one smaller one), and two dildos. one thrusts but its kinda loud and i have a roommate.

I am being so serious lol help

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u/ApartSlide694 — 5 days ago

What hobbies are attractive in a traditional wife?

I’m finding myself bored and uninterested in the usual things that girls my age are interested in like video games or going out drinking. What sorts of hobbies should I try that might be attractive to my future husband?

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u/New-Liy — 7 days ago

Submitting outside the bedroom

I've been embracing submission outside the bedroom more and more lately, thanks to inspiration from this lovely group! Even the tiniest acts of submission outside the bedroom have added so much oomph to submission in the bedroom. Also, it just feels right ❤️

Three acts of submission outside the bedroom that I performed intentionally today:

  1. When I made lunch for the both of us, I plated his up first and served it to him before plating mine. It felt good to literally put his needs before my own in this way 😊

  2. When he told me to pull my top down to expose my tits, I did it with a smile. I've been walking around the house and going about my business with my tits out almost all day, and he has definitely been enjoying it 😍

  3. When he wanted to rant about work stuff, I stayed quiet and listened until he was done. Part of embracing my femininity means I'm learning to listen more patiently and make sure he knows he has my support, even if I don't know the full story!

u/Persimmonsandhoney11 — 8 days ago

My husband gets off work early today

I'm so excited my husband only has to work a few hours today! He will be stopping by home while our baby is napping to have some fun time before he has to leave again🤭 I'm going to wear a dress with either no panties or a thong. So excited 🥰

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u/Idkwhatimdoingtbh22 — 7 days ago

A good wife knows how to satisfy her husband’s needs. 💋🔥

🔔 Remember, girls:
His needs come first, anytime and anywhere. A devoted wife is always ready to drop to her knees and take care of him with enthusiasm, no matter the place or the moment.

There is no better way to show love and submission than by pleasing him fully whenever he desires. A husband who is well taken care of is a happy and content man.

Stay eager. Stay willing. Give him what he needs without hesitation. 💕🔥

u/Jack_Badguy_8765 — 9 days ago

A true example of an obedient wife. 💍✨

🔔 Remember, girls:
When the time for correction comes, a good wife does not hide, argue, or delay. She presents herself calmly, ready to receive what her husband decides.

This is the mark of a respectful wife who understands her place. She accepts his authority without resistance, knowing that his discipline is given out of care and leadership.

In a traditional marriage, the husband leads and the wife follows. Learning to present yourself for correction with grace is one of the clearest signs of true obedience.

Stay soft. Stay humble. Accept his hand with gratitude. 😖😳💕

u/Jack_Badguy_8765 — 9 days ago
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The Rock

When you’re home alone and he isn’t there, is something missing? The empty space in the air where He should be? As you’re washing the laundry, or drying the dishes, do you feel it in your stomach? That ping of loneliness? When the car pulls into the drive, the door slams shut, and the jingle of the keys rings out into the air, where are you? Are you right there? Waiting in excitement to escape the absence? Embracing him for gracing you with his presence, his scent, his aura?

Does he look you in the eye and know that because you’re there, his day just got easier? That the woman who was born to serve only him is there to take the burden off his shoulder? You made a vow to carry that weight. True femininity is about holding his world on your back with his seed growing in your stomach. You are his female Atlas. Every grueling minute he spends at work he is holding the cruelty of capital at bay from touching a hair on your head. He suffers to provide for you. Are you sure you provide in equal measure?

Is the house clean? Is the sink empty? Children taken care of? When he goes to rest his aching body, are you there to sustain him? Feed him, give him cool drinks, and be a soft comfort on his side? Have you thanked him today? When he wakes is he serviced in the morning? Before he goes to bed is he pleased? Balls empty and belly full. You get to stay home all day, you should provide him these comforts not out of demand or expectation, but out of love.

And in return, like a bulwark against the world, your rock stands tall. Guiding you through the abyss of our planet. Stand behind him as he pushes forward in society for the both of you. He knows where you’re going. So just be sure to follow, and follow close. Hold his hand as he pulls you along. And he will guide you to peace in eternity.

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u/Easy-Sound4998 — 9 days ago

where can I find someone who is into traditional relationships?

if I had a husband I would have his yummy dinner layed out on the table as soon as he gets home. after he finishes eating I would suck his cock..... then I would make him a warm bubble bath and give him a massage. who doesn't like bubble baths and massages? they are so relaxing.

I just want a man who I can serve and submit to and devote myself to. maybe one day I can hopefully have that.

when I get to know someone and I ask "when would you want to go on a date?" they don't want to meet up. or they simply want sex from me. I want a relationship with traditional gender roles like the 1950's.

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u/lonelyimperfection25 — 9 days ago