u/faithfully-softening

Feeling frustrated with my search for a Traditional Husband

Hi Ladies, Gentlemen.

I have been searching for my future Husband for some time now, and have had several false starts.. one thing specifically that's been happening is whenever I've been talking to a Man and we seem to click super well and have things in common, including how we see marriage, traditional roles, amazing long conversations, the works, the moment we decide to move into 'courting' or exclusive talking/dating, it's like their interest evaporates.. previously amazing chats turn dull, almost like they're bored without the "thrill of the chase" but... I'm not theirs yet? I don't send nudes when courting, I don't sext, etc.. those are things for someone who is proud to claim and possess me. But I feel I'm never going to find that person ):

I'd love some advice on things I could possibly do better.. or possibly even where to look. I am still in a 'courting' phase.. but He has been distant, less interested since we decided to move into this phase and it's making me less inclined to continue when I feel I'm putting in all the effort to learn him.

Thank you 🫰🏻

***Wee update, spoke with my courtship about how I was feeling, and he walked me through things to show me that it was my anxiety at him being busy over the weekend and 'distant' due to his prior engagements that made me feel he was pulling away. He reassured me that he is very interested still

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u/faithfully-softening β€” 1 day ago

Feeling frustrated with my search

Hi Ladies, Gentlemen.

I have been searching for my future Husband for some time now, and have had several false starts.. one thing specifically that's been happening is whenever I've been talking to a Man and we seem to click super well and have things in common, including how we see marriage, traditional roles, amazing long conversations, the works, the moment we decide to move into 'courting' or exclusive talking/dating, it's like their interest evaporates.. previously amazing chats turn dull, almost like they're bored without the "thrill of the chase" but... I'm not theirs yet? I don't send nudes when courting, I don't sext, etc.. those are things for someone who is proud to claim and possess me. But I feel I'm never going to find that person ):

I'd love some advice on things I could possibly do better.. or possibly even where to look. I am still in a 'courting' phase.. but He has been distant, less interested since we decided to move into this phase and it's making me less inclined to continue when I feel I'm putting in all the effort to learn him.

Thank you 🫰🏻

***Wee update, spoke with my courtship about how I was feeling, and he walked me through things to show me that it was my anxiety at him being busy over the weekend and 'distant' due to his prior engagements that made me feel he was pulling away. He reassured me that he is very interested still

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u/faithfully-softening β€” 1 day ago