u/Cougar_Hunting_492

35 [F4M] #Dallas #TX - Muslim Femdom Seeking a Fit, Devoted Submissive Muslim Man for a Serious Relationship

Trying this again after I feel like I have gotten my bearings together and self-reflected on my life, my deen, and where I am at in this journey of life. I'm about to be 35, I'm 5’7 and 120 lbs. I just recently moved to the Dallas area recently and I was hoping to meet an interesting muslim sub who wants an emotional connection and a long-term relationship (eventually of course!!) Looking for a muslim man only who’s submissive, wants a longterm relationship that leads to marriage and kids, whose fit and muscular. Looking for someone who only eats halal, prays 5 times a day, fasts during ramadan, and reads Quran.

Lifting and fitness is a huge passion of mine, I'd say that fitness is something that has become a huge part of my life since I was 18 and I have always wanted someone who I can share that passion with. I have a professional degree with a corporate career. I’d like to be able to retire early and I am striving for a wealthy and rich lifestyle for myself and my loved ones, I am currently trying to build on the side a real estate empire, investing in real estate and building a portfolio while increasing my financial acumen. Financial success is definitely something I am striving towards, and looking to build alongside with someone.

I love spending time with my friends and families, love meeting new people and getting to know the really extensive Muslim community in DFW. I'm having a ton of fun with them, going to restaurants and trying new foods. I would love to travel more!! I love to travel, it’s a huge passion that makes me absolutely enjoy my life. I really love staying active and I love going on long walks or hiking! I used to surf and I skii too! Cooking is a hobby of mine as well, my friends tell me I’m a good chef and I enjoy counting my calories and tracking my macros (is it weird I weigh my food!?) It’s just one thing that makes me committed to my fit lifestyle. I do love to cook everything, especially for a cheat day, but overall my diet is focused on a healthy halal lifestyle!

Intellectual pursuits fascinate me and I am quite heavily invested in pursuing them recently: Philosophy fascinates me and I am slowly getting into Stoicism. Currently reading Stoic texts but I find that reading is such a mental based exercise it's something I wish to continue developing in the future.

My style of Fem Dom:

I want our relationship to stay between us, many members of our community are not really familiar with this and have preconceived notions on gender roles and sexuality. I am more of a gentle dom, I have a bit more of an emphasis on making you do tasks and having you complete them. (take out the trash, do the dishes, nothing weird etc., nothing super demanding). I have a HUGE thing for muscles, and I definitely love ordering you around and making sure that you lift and goto the gym, also I love a sub who keeps himself in shape because in some way I know he’s doing it for me, and if you look good shirtless it’s a bonus. My fem dom is quite gentle compared to the extremes I see on here, I am focused on a sub who is all about praise, a gentle fem dom dynamic that is about being attentive to my needs while also maintaining a romantic/emotional/intellectual connection. I am into ensuring he does all of my tasks, he is attentive to my needs, and he is good at keeping me happy. I enjoy being a corporate woman with strong credentials who also has a partner who is strong and masculine to the world, but submissive to me in private. I want someone who will worship my fit brown goddess body. I do not wish to discuss sexual, physical or kinks in the initial conversations, let’s please get to know one another and build a repertoire and comfort before we share such things.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a submissive guy who is looking for something serious eventually. I want something that has an emotional connection. I find with a lot of subs there is a huge emphasis on the lifestyle, but not enough on connecting emotionally. I want to reassure you that I am fully committed to the fem dom lifestyle, just need to be in a monogamous relationship so that I can really enjoy it with someone who I can trust and feel secure with. I love my life, I just want to round out this part of me. I’m very well-rounded and an absolute boss babe, just need someone to add to that. I also want to be able to get along with him outside the bedroom, feel like I’m in a ‘normal’ relationship while also getting to know each other! I want to be in a spiritually aligned relationship with Deen while also privately exploring our physical, mental, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual relationship.

At the core, what I’m looking for is a partner who is attentive, emotionally available, spiritually aligned, and who wants to make me happy not out of obligation, but because he feels connected to me. The submissive energy shows up in our daily life such as being supportive, consistent, disciplined, taking pride in pleasing me, and also taking care of himself physically and mentally.

These are my must haves:

  • I prefer a younger guy who is 25-30 but I don't mind someone who is less than 35 years old
  • A Muslim and actively practicing his deen
  • Height is always nice but will not hold it against anyone as most of brown guys are short kings (and we love them either way)
  • South Asian (I love my other ethnic brothers and sisters, but something I've come to realize is for me it's important to be culturally aligned)
  • Professional and educated
  • Serious about a long term relationship leading to marriage and children
  • Serious about fitness (this is a huge ask for me please)
  • Would prefer someone located in Dallas or TX at least, if not then in the US and open to relocating to me.

I’d love to hear more about you though: your lifestyle, your deen, fitness, career, and what you’re ultimately looking for long term. That matters to me just as much as the dynamic. Longer responses get my attention.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/Cougar_Hunting_492 — 7 days ago

35 [F4M] #Dallas #TX - Muslim Femdom Seeking a Fit, Devoted Submissive Muslim Man for a Serious Relationship

Trying this again after I feel like I have gotten my bearings together and self-reflected on my life, my deen, and where I am at in this journey of life. I'm about to be 35, I'm 5’7 and 120 lbs. I just recently moved to the Dallas area recently and I was hoping to meet an interesting muslim sub who wants an emotional connection and a long-term relationship (eventually of course!!) Looking for a muslim man only who’s submissive, wants a longterm relationship that leads to marriage and kids, whose fit and muscular. Looking for someone who only eats halal, prays 5 times a day, fasts during ramadan, and reads Quran.

Lifting and fitness is a huge passion of mine, I'd say that fitness is something that has become a huge part of my life since I was 18 and I have always wanted someone who I can share that passion with. I have a professional degree with a corporate career. I’d like to be able to retire early and I am striving for a wealthy and rich lifestyle for myself and my loved ones, I am currently trying to build on the side a real estate empire, investing in real estate and building a portfolio while increasing my financial acumen. Financial success is definitely something I am striving towards, and looking to build alongside with someone.

I love spending time with my friends and families, love meeting new people and getting to know the really extensive Muslim community in DFW. I'm having a ton of fun with them, going to restaurants and trying new foods. I would love to travel more!! I love to travel, it’s a huge passion that makes me absolutely enjoy my life. I really love staying active and I love going on long walks or hiking! I used to surf and I skii too! Cooking is a hobby of mine as well, my friends tell me I’m a good chef and I enjoy counting my calories and tracking my macros (is it weird I weigh my food!?) It’s just one thing that makes me committed to my fit lifestyle. I do love to cook everything, especially for a cheat day, but overall my diet is focused on a healthy halal lifestyle!

Intellectual pursuits fascinate me and I am quite heavily invested in pursuing them recently: Philosophy fascinates me and I am slowly getting into Stoicism. Currently reading Stoic texts but I find that reading is such a mental based exercise it's something I wish to continue developing in the future.

My style of Fem Dom:

I want our relationship to stay between us, many members of our community are not really familiar with this and have preconceived notions on gender roles and sexuality. I am more of a gentle dom, I have a bit more of an emphasis on making you do tasks and having you complete them. (take out the trash, do the dishes, nothing weird etc., nothing super demanding). I have a HUGE thing for muscles, and I definitely love ordering you around and making sure that you lift and goto the gym, also I love a sub who keeps himself in shape because in some way I know he’s doing it for me, and if you look good shirtless it’s a bonus. My fem dom is quite gentle compared to the extremes I see on here, I am focused on a sub who is all about praise, a gentle fem dom dynamic that is about being attentive to my needs while also maintaining a romantic/emotional/intellectual connection. I am into ensuring he does all of my tasks, he is attentive to my needs, and he is good at keeping me happy. I enjoy being a corporate woman with strong credentials who also has a partner who is strong and masculine to the world, but submissive to me in private. I want someone who will worship my fit brown goddess body. I do not wish to discuss sexual, physical or kinks in the initial conversations, let’s please get to know one another and build a repertoire and comfort before we share such things.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a submissive guy who is looking for something serious eventually. I want something that has an emotional connection. I find with a lot of subs there is a huge emphasis on the lifestyle, but not enough on connecting emotionally. I want to reassure you that I am fully committed to the fem dom lifestyle, just need to be in a monogamous relationship so that I can really enjoy it with someone who I can trust and feel secure with. I love my life, I just want to round out this part of me. I’m very well-rounded and an absolute boss babe, just need someone to add to that. I also want to be able to get along with him outside the bedroom, feel like I’m in a ‘normal’ relationship while also getting to know each other! I want to be in a spiritually aligned relationship with Deen while also privately exploring our physical, mental, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual relationship.

At the core, what I’m looking for is a partner who is attentive, emotionally available, spiritually aligned, and who wants to make me happy not out of obligation, but because he feels connected to me. The submissive energy shows up in our daily life such as being supportive, consistent, disciplined, taking pride in pleasing me, and also taking care of himself physically and mentally.

These are my must haves:

  • I prefer a younger guy who is 25-30 but I don't mind someone who is less than 35 years old
  • A Muslim and actively practicing his deen
  • Height is always nice but will not hold it against anyone as most of brown guys are short kings (and we love them either way)
  • South Asian (I love my other ethnic brothers and sisters, but something I've come to realize is for me it's important to be culturally aligned)
  • Professional and educated
  • Serious about a long term relationship leading to marriage and children
  • Serious about fitness (this is a huge ask for me please)

I’d love to hear more about you though: your lifestyle, your deen, fitness, career, and what you’re ultimately looking for long term. That matters to me just as much as the dynamic. Longer responses get my attention.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/Cougar_Hunting_492 — 7 days ago