📍south Austin, Texas

Not hookup. Please read the entire post and don't waste my time 😭

I am hoping for dating that might lead to a primary partner or relationship thats heavy on authority imbalance(D/s) and spanking. Close Play partners where felt safety has been built is an option.

You should be between 29-50, not a fuck boy, read bios, IN AUSTIN, confident but not arrogant, *able to hang with me conversationally thin/fit/average/a little extra okay, verbal, quirky but have your shit together, actually open to dating if the connection is there, Open to ENM(zero tolerance for toxic relationship stuff). A mix of nurture and sadism, firm but understanding.

Be curious and want to see and know me, like I will you. Attentive but not anxious attachment. Treat me first as a human, not an object.

If you have facial hair, please be well kept. Good hygiene and teeth. I know what's inside is important, and also that attraction still plays a part 🤷‍♀️ it is what it is.

I am complex in mind 🧠 but a simple & easy-going partner.
We all have our faults, but I'm confident in myself as an amazing partner, g/f, & lover.

Intelligent, educated, emotionally aware, and endearingly awkward.

I 💚 animals, learning, growth, creativity, & seeing you for your true self. That can be intimidating to some. Let's get intoxicated by every Oz Of each other .

I give off garden gnome/artsy librarian vibes- JUST turned 40, 5'2", thicc/plus, INFJ, brown hair and eyes, "Quirky",empathetic, & kind of Demi with endless curiosity. Partial photo of my on bio feed. Seduce my mind as well as my body 🤤

Hoping for an eventual power exchange LTR, but Not trying to force anything. I want to let it evolve naturally- chemistry, growth, adding value.

Hardcore introvert & need a chill extrovert to adopt me🥺🤞

kink/BDSM/power exchange I am submissive & it feeds my soul. Even slave tendencies for the right person. I am not a newbie at all. Less experienced folx welcome, but not looking to be your sole source of education, and prefer someone with some experience.

I need both the mental and physical stimulation. It's not just the act.

I am into a vast vast array of things depending on what energy my partner pulls out of me, but heavily leaning on the power imbalance, some domestic discipline. I am very service oriented, dedicated, and loyal, but have zero left in me to deal with users, manipulators, flakes, etc. OTK, lecture, roleplay, tears, correction, absolution, felt safety, hand, impliments.

My relationship style varies. Often, shades of ENM. You can be ENM or Mono.

⭐Dom ≠ asshole or adding to the Orgasm Gap due to apathy.💥

Seeking: Reciprocity & effort! (I'm tired, y'all) Creativity Healthy Connection Authenticity To nurture & be nurtured Passion Intimacy Playfulness Affection/touch/sensuality Understanding Support Guidance & Discipline Encouragement Emotional availability Duality

**Message me about something specific to my bio and not something that could be cut n paste, where you are located, age, things about you as a person, physical description and be prepared to send a photos (even if not your full face yet).

No- just your age, height, and "hey wanna chat" isn't enough.

📍south Austin, Texas

Not hookup. READ THE POST. Pllllleeeeaasseeeee don't waste my time.

I am hoping for dating that might lead to a primary partner for authority imbalance and spanking relationship. Close Play partners maybe an option.

You should be between 29-50, not a fuck boy, read bios, IN AUSTIN, confident but not arrogant, able to hang with me conversationally, thin/fit/average/a little extra okay, quirky but have your shit together, actually open to dating if the connection is there, Open to ENM(zero tolerance for toxic relationship stuff).

A mix of nurture and sadism, firm but understanding.

Be curious and want to see and know me, like I will you. Attentive but not anxious attachment. Treat me first as a human, not an object.

If you have facial hair, please be well kept. Good hygiene and teeth.

I know what's inside is important, and also that attraction still plays a part 🤷‍♀️ it is what it is.

I give off garden gnome/artsy librarian vibes-

JUST turned 40, 5'2", thicc/plus, INFJ, brown hair and eyes, "Quirky",empathetic, & kind of Demi with endless curiosity.

Seduce my mind as well as my body 🤤

I am complex in mind 🧠 but a simple & easy-going partner.

We all have our faults, but I'm confident in myself as an amazing partner, g/f, & lover.

Hoping for an eventual power exchange LTR, but Not trying to force anything. I want to let it evolve naturally- chemistry, growth, adding value.

Intelligent, educated, emotionally aware, and endearingly awkward.

I 💚 animals, learning, growth, creativity, & seeing you for your true self. That can be intimidating to some.

Let's get intoxicated by every Oz Of each other .

Hardcore introvert & need a chill extrovert to adopt me🥺🤞

kink/BDSM/power exchange:

I am submissive & it feeds my soul. Even slave tendencies for the right person.

Less experienced folx welcome, but not looking to be your sole source of education.

I am into a vast vast array of things depending on what energy my partner pulls out of me, but heavily leaning on the power imbalance, some domestic discipline flairs. I am very service oriented, dedicated, and loyal, but have zero left in me to deal with users, manipulators, flakes, etc.

I am NOT an actual fleshlight or check box on your bucket list.

My relationship style varies. Often, shades of ENM.

You can be ENM or Mono.

⭐Dom ≠ asshole or adding to the Orgasm Gap due to apathy.💥

Seeking: Reciprocity & effort! (I'm tired, y'all) Creativity Healthy Connection Authenticity To nurture & be nurtured Passion Intimacy Playfulness Affection/touch/sensuality Understanding Support Guidance & Discipline Encouragement Emotional availability Duality

**Message me about something specific to my bio and not something that could be cut n paste, where you are located, age, some things about you, and be prepared to send a photo as soon as we connect (even if not your full face yet).

📍south Austin, Texas NOT ONLINE DATING. Wont respond if it's obvious you didn't read the whole post.

You should be between 29-50, not a fuck boy, read bios, IN AUSTIN, confident but not arrogant, able to hang with me conversationally, thin/fit/average/a little extra okay, quirky but have your shit together, actually open to dating if the connection is there, Open to ENM(zero tolerance for toxic relationship stuff), okay that I can't have children, a mix of nurture and sadism, firm but understanding. Be curious and want to see and know me, like I will you. Attentive but not anxious attachment. Treat me first as a human, not an object.

If you have facial hair, please be well kept. Good hyheine and teeth. I know what's inside is important, and also that attraction still plays a part 🤷‍♀️ it is what it is.

I give off garden gnome/artsy librarian vibes- JUST turned 40, 5'2", thicc/plus, INFJ, brown hair and eyes, "Quirky",empathetic, & kind of Demi with endless curiosity. Seduce my mind as well as my body 🤤

I am complex in mind 🧠 but a simple & easy-going partner.
We all have our faults, but I'm confident in myself as an amazing partner, g/f, & lover.

Hoping for an eventual LTR, but Not trying to force anything. I want to let it evolve naturally- chemistry, growth, adding value.

Intelligent, educated, emotionally aware, and endearingly awkward. I 💚 animals, learning, growth, creativity, & seeing you for your true self. That can be intimidating to some. Let's get intoxicated by every Oz Of each other .

Hardcore introvert & need a chill extrovert to adopt me🥺🤞

kink/BDSM/power exchange: I am submissive & it feeds my soul. Even slave tendencies for the right person.
Less experienced folx welcome, but not looking to be your sole source of education. I am into a vast vast array of things depending on what energy my partner pulls out of me, but heavily leaning on the power imbalance, some domestic discipline flairs. I am very service oriented, dedicated, and loyal, but have zero left in me to deal with users, manipulators, flakes, etc.

I am NOT an actual fleshlight or check box on your bucket list.

My relationship style varies. Often, shades of ENM. You can be ENM or Mono.

⭐Dom ≠ asshole or adding to the Orgasm Gap due to apathy.💥

Seeking: Reciprocity & effort! (I'm tired, y'all) Creativity Healthy Connection Authenticity To nurture & be nurtured Passion Intimacy Playfulness Affection/touch/sensuality Understanding Support Guidance & Discipline Encouragement Emotional availability Duality

Message me about something specific to my bio and not something that could be cut n paste, where you are located, age, along with a pic (even if not your full face yet), and some things about you please.