u/CuriousWfey

A little over a week ago, I made a post about how my husband has no interest in trying prostate play. It's not that he's worried about his sexuality, or anything like that (he's openly bisexual), he just has a strong aversion to any kind of anal play. He won't even play with my ass.

Well, a couple of people suggested that we could try stimulating his prostate through the perineum. It wasn't the pegging that I wanted to ultimately do in the end, but I figured it was the best that I could hope for. I asked if that was something he would be comfortable with, and, surprisingly, he said yes. So I watched a bunch of videos, read a lot of material and... Well, you already read the title of this post, so you know how it ends. We tried a couple of times over the week, and husband didn't like it. He said that at best, it didn't do anything for him, and sometimes, I got too close to his ass for him to get comfortable. So we're officially shelving any kind of prostate play.

It's disappointing, but I think seeing how underwhelming it was for him has helped me move on from that desire that I just couldn't quite shake. I hope you lovely people have more luck than I did in exploring this.

A little over a week ago, I made a post about how my husband has no interest in trying prostate play. It's not that he's worried about his sexuality, or anything like that (he's openly bisexual), he just has a strong aversion to any kind of anal play. He won't even play with my ass.

Well, a couple of people suggested that we could try stimulating his prostate through the perineum. It wasn't the pegging that I wanted to ultimately do in the end, but it was the best that I could hope for. I asked if that was something he would be comfortable with, and, surprisingly, he said yes. So I watched a bunch of videos, read a lot of material and... Well, you already read the title of this post, so you know how it ends. We tried a couple of times over the week, and husband didn't like it. He said that at best, it didn't do anything for him, and sometimes, I got too close to his ass for him to get comfortable. So we're officially shelving any kind of prostate play.

It's disappointing, but I think seeing how underwhelming it was for him has helped me move on from that desire that I just couldn't quite shake. I hope you lovely people have more luck than I did in exploring this.

Made a similar post on r/ProstatePlay. Figured I'd post here too.

My husband and I have been together for quite a while now. We've always had a policy of at least discussing kinks and fantasies, even if we had no intention of going through with them. I've always fantasized about giving my husband a prostate orgasm and eventually pegging him, but he made it quite clear early on when we were still dating that his ass is completely off limits. He didn't even like me grabbing it during sex when we first started dating, though he's grown more comfortable with that now.

I thought I had made my peace with the fact that this particular fantasy was one that I would never be able to fulfill with him, but for some reason, I have spent a lot more time thinking about it now. I suppose it's because it's the one fantasy that I have that's a hard limit for him. I was hoping that maybe he changed his mind over the years, but when I brought up the topic again recently, he made it clear that his feelings haven't changed.

I'm not going to keep begging him to do it, but I can't help but mourn that one item on my sexual bucket list that I'll never be able to do...

To be clear, I am not trying to change my husband's mind on this. He made it quite clear that his ass is completely off limits, no matter how good a prostate orgasm can feel. I am trying to make my peace with the fact that this is something I'll never do. I doubt I could say anything that would change his mind, and I don't want to change his mind. If he's not the one asking for it, the entire thing loses its appeal to me.

My husband and I have been together for quite a while now. We've always had a policy of at least discussing kinks and fantasies, even if we had no intention of going through with them. I've always fantasized about giving my husband a prostate orgasm, but he made it quite clear early on when we were still dating that his ass is completely off limits. He didn't even like me grabbing it during sex when we first started dating, though he's grown more comfortable with that now.

I thought I had made my peace with the fact that this particular fantasy was one that I would never be able to fulfill with him, but for some reason, I have spent a lot more time thinking about it now. I suppose it's because it's the one fantasy that I have that's a hard limit for him. I was hoping that maybe he changed his mind over the years, but when I brought up the topic again recently, he made it clear that his feelings haven't changed.

I'm not going to keep begging him to do it, but I can't help but mourn that one item on my sexual bucket list that I'll never be able to do...

EDIT: Making an edit because people keep giving me advice on trying to get him to come around. I am not trying to change my husband's mind on this. He made it quite clear that his ass is completely off limits, no matter how good a prostate orgasm can feel. I am trying to make my peace with the fact that this is something I'll never do. I doubt I could say anything that would change his mind, and I don't want to change his mind. If he's not the one asking for it, the entire thing loses its appeal to me.