u/Cute_Darkl

I'm really into nipple play and piercings, but my nipples are too small. I've tried using clamps, but they fall off. Is there any way to make them grow?

I usually have sex with my friend with benefits, and we have a sort of exclusivity agreement, so it's been a while since I've tried anything else. That's why I'm wondering: I'm the receptive partner, and before we have sex, I wash, which dilates me. But when we're about to have sex, he asks me to tighten up and says I'm too dilated. Is that good or bad? Because from what I've seen in videos, it's better when the receptive partner is tight. So I don't know if it's good not to be tight, and if it is better, what can I do to be tighter?