Labor Day weekend for vacation. Would love the cheat code to find a nice young Jamaican gentleman to hang out with or more. 45f - Attractive blonde, great body, fun personality. Hubby is 57m. Does anyone have advice or suggestions? Real life examples needed please.
Wife and I have discussed the hotwifing options now for about eight months. She is a hard no. That’s fine since it’s her call. We have also tried many other ways to spice up our sex life without crossing the line, with great success. Unfortunately it’s not nearly at the level needed to keep me where I need to be sexually. Again, that’s fine since it’s her call. Problem is I am starting to feel resentment building. I am thinking of asking consent to engage with folks in the LS so my needs can be met. Those would not include any sexual activity on my part, but would be the role of a voyeur stag. I know people will say I am being selfish, but knowing that and stopping the resentment buildup don’t necessarily correlate. I have no interest in ending our marriage as she is amazing, wonderful, and any other positive adjective available. We are just stuck on different paths. And yes, I have been very transparent and communicative about my needs. What say thee wise souls? Has anyone else been down this path and resolved it positively?
My wife 45f and I 57m have been trying to meet potential thirds in upscale DC bars and restaurants recently. Some have music on other floors, so there is a lot of entertainment energy. Most of these clubs are black owned. She has her spade anklet prominently displayed and given the opportunity, would love to engage in conversation with an attractive man. She is very attractive and in great shape. So far we haven’t been approached in any fashion. My question is, what can we do to give off even more of a vibe to make others interested? She is somewhat shy, but once approached is very friendly.