u/DMVCURIOUSCOUPLE

My wife 45f and I 57m have been trying to meet potential thirds in upscale DC bars and restaurants recently. Some have music on other floors, so there is a lot of entertainment energy. Most of these clubs are black owned. She has her spade anklet prominently displayed and given the opportunity, would love to engage in conversation with an attractive man. She is very attractive and in great shape. So far we haven’t been approached in any fashion. My question is, what can we do to give off even more of a vibe to make others interested? She is somewhat shy, but once approached is very friendly.