u/DVis1993

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32 [M4M] #Online #Netherlands - Dutch Dom looking for Good boys (straight, bi, gay)!

I’m a 32-year-old Dutch professional with a passion for leadership, strategy, and building genuine connections. My background is in HR and business consulting-fields where trust, structure, and growth are essential. I run my own consulting firm and work as a freelancer, but outside of work, you’ll often find me in the gym, experimenting in the kitchen, or spending time with friends and family. At 189 cm tall with a strong, athletic build, I bring that same energy and discipline into every aspect of my life-including my personal relationships.

As a natural dominant, I thrive on taking charge, both mentally and physically. I believe in structure, clear communication, and slowly developing a dynamic based on obedience, chemistry, and mutual respect. For me, D/s isn’t just about a quick scene or a fleeting thrill-it’s about creating something real, honest, and lasting, even if it starts online.

My interests revolve around giving rules, training, and creating routines. I enjoy exploring control-think chastity, obedience, petplay, houseslave dynamics, electro, humiliation, and degradation (always within clear, consensual boundaries). I love developing rituals and habits together that deepen our connection and make the power exchange truly meaningful.

My limits are clear: no blood, needles, children, anything illegal, or anything non-consensual.

I’m looking for a genuinely submissive guy who craves guidance and thrives under. Someone who finds it exciting to give up control-over their pleasure, their routine, maybe even their daily habits-and who is open to building trust and friendship alongside our dynamic. Honesty, reliability, and communication are essential to me; I want someone who enjoys deep conversations but also knows how to have fun and share a laugh.

This isn’t about being a robot or living in a 24/7 role. I want to get to know you for who you are, to grow together, joke around, and explore the depths of power and obedience along the way.

If this speaks to you, send me a message with a star emoji, your name and age, where you’re from, a bit about your experience or curiosity, your kinks and limits, and what draws you to submission.

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u/DVis1993 — 2 days ago

32M [M4M] #online Dominant - Amsterdam - Looking for a nice (Chastity) bro!

Hey guys!

32M from Amsterdam here, looking for a chill bro (hetero, bi, or gay – all welcome) for ongoing chats about chastity (the wearing side), life, and everything in between. SFW during the day (gym gains, killer recipes, hanging with friends) and NSFW when the mood strikes.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Love hitting the gym and staying fit

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Big into cooking – homemade meals are my jam

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* See my buddies often and keep things real

If you're into long-term bro vibes and chastity play, hit me up! Let's chat and see where it goes. 😎

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u/DVis1993 — 11 days ago

32M [M4M] #online Dominant - Amsterdam - Looking for a nice (Chastity) bro!

Hey guys!

32M from Amsterdam here, looking for a chill bro (hetero, bi, or gay – all welcome) for ongoing chats about chastity (the wearing side), life, and everything in between. SFW during the day (gym gains, killer recipes, hanging with friends) and NSFW when the mood strikes.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Love hitting the gym and staying fit

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Big into cooking – homemade meals are my jam

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* See my buddies often and keep things real

If you're into long-term bro vibes and chastity play, hit me up! Let's chat and see where it goes. 😎

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u/DVis1993 — 11 days ago

I’m a 32-year-old Dutch professional with a passion for leadership, strategy, and building genuine connections. My background is in HR and business consulting-fields where trust, structure, and growth are essential. I run my own consulting firm and work as a freelancer, but outside of work, you’ll often find me in the gym, experimenting in the kitchen, or spending time with friends and family. At 189 cm tall with a strong, athletic build, I bring that same energy and discipline into every aspect of my life-including my personal relationships.

As a natural dominant, I thrive on taking charge, both mentally and physically. I believe in structure, clear communication, and slowly developing a dynamic based on obedience, chemistry, and mutual respect. For me, D/s isn’t just about a quick scene or a fleeting thrill-it’s about creating something real, honest, and lasting, even if it starts online.

My interests revolve around giving rules, training, and creating routines. I enjoy exploring control-think chastity, obedience, petplay, houseslave dynamics, electro, humiliation, and degradation (always within clear, consensual boundaries). I love developing rituals and habits together that deepen our connection and make the power exchange truly meaningful.

My limits are clear: no blood, needles, children, anything illegal, or anything non-consensual.

I’m looking for a genuinely submissive guy who craves guidance and thrives under. Someone who finds it exciting to give up control-over their pleasure, their routine, maybe even their daily habits-and who is open to building trust and friendship alongside our dynamic. Honesty, reliability, and communication are essential to me; I want someone who enjoys deep conversations but also knows how to have fun and share a laugh.

This isn’t about being a robot or living in a 24/7 role. I want to get to know you for who you are, to grow together, joke around, and explore the depths of power and obedience along the way.

If this speaks to you, send me a message with a star emoji, your name and age, where you’re from, a bit about your experience or curiosity, your kinks and limits, and what draws you to submission.

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u/DVis1993 — 15 days ago

I’m a 32-year-old Dutch professional with a passion for leadership, strategy, and building genuine connections. My background is in HR and business consulting-fields where trust, structure, and growth are essential. I run my own consulting firm and work as a freelancer, but outside of work, you’ll often find me in the gym, experimenting in the kitchen, or spending time with friends and family. At 189 cm tall with a strong, athletic build, I bring that same energy and discipline into every aspect of my life-including my personal relationships.

As a natural dominant, I thrive on taking charge, both mentally and physically. I believe in structure, clear communication, and slowly developing a dynamic based on obedience, chemistry, and mutual respect. For me, D/s isn’t just about a quick scene or a fleeting thrill-it’s about creating something real, honest, and lasting, even if it starts online.

My interests revolve around giving rules, training, and creating routines. I enjoy exploring control-think chastity, obedience, petplay, houseslave dynamics, electro, humiliation, and degradation (always within clear, consensual boundaries). I love developing rituals and habits together that deepen our connection and make the power exchange truly meaningful.

My limits are clear: no blood, needles, children, anything illegal, or anything non-consensual.

I’m looking for a genuinely submissive guy who craves guidance and thrives under. Someone who finds it exciting to give up control-over their pleasure, their routine, maybe even their daily habits-and who is open to building trust and friendship alongside our dynamic. Honesty, reliability, and communication are essential to me; I want someone who enjoys deep conversations but also knows how to have fun and share a laugh.

This isn’t about being a robot or living in a 24/7 role. I want to get to know you for who you are, to grow together, joke around, and explore the depths of power and obedience along the way.

If this speaks to you, send me a message with a star emoji, your name and age, where you’re from, a bit about your experience or curiosity, your kinks and limits, and what draws you to submission.

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u/DVis1993 — 18 days ago
▲ 3 r/BromanceR4R+1 crossposts

I’m a 32-year-old Dutch professional with a passion for leadership, strategy, and building genuine connections. My background is in HR and business consulting-fields where trust, structure, and growth are essential. I run my own consulting firm and work as a freelancer, but outside of work, you’ll often find me in the gym, experimenting in the kitchen, or spending time with friends and family. At 189 cm tall with a strong, athletic build, I bring that same energy and discipline into every aspect of my life-including my personal relationships.

As a natural dominant, I thrive on taking charge, both mentally and physically. I believe in structure, clear communication, and slowly developing a dynamic based on obedience, chemistry, and mutual respect. For me, D/s isn’t just about a quick scene or a fleeting thrill-it’s about creating something real, honest, and lasting, even if it starts online.

My interests revolve around giving rules, training, and creating routines. I enjoy exploring control-think chastity, obedience, petplay, houseslave dynamics, electro, humiliation, and degradation (always within clear, consensual boundaries). I love developing rituals and habits together that deepen our connection and make the power exchange truly meaningful.

My limits are clear: no blood, needles, children, anything illegal, or anything non-consensual.

I’m looking for a genuinely submissive guy who craves guidance and thrives under. Someone who finds it exciting to give up control-over their pleasure, their routine, maybe even their daily habits-and who is open to building trust and friendship alongside our dynamic. Honesty, reliability, and communication are essential to me; I want someone who enjoys deep conversations but also knows how to have fun and share a laugh.

This isn’t about being a robot or living in a 24/7 role. I want to get to know you for who you are, to grow together, joke around, and explore the depths of power and obedience along the way.

If this speaks to you, send me a message with a star emoji, your name and age, where you’re from, a bit about your experience or curiosity, your kinks and limits, and what draws you to submission.

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u/DVis1993 — 19 days ago

Hey guys!

32M from Amsterdam here, looking for a chill bro (hetero, bi, or gay – all welcome) for ongoing chats about chastity (the wearing side), life, and everything in between. SFW during the day (gym gains, killer recipes, hanging with friends) and NSFW when the mood strikes.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Love hitting the gym and staying fit

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Big into cooking – homemade meals are my jam

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* See my buddies often and keep things real

If you're into long-term bro vibes and chastity play, hit me up! Let's chat and see where it goes. 😎

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u/DVis1993 — 19 days ago

Hey guys!

32M from Amsterdam here, looking for a chill bro (hetero, bi, or gay – all welcome) for ongoing chats about chastity (the wearing side), life, and everything in between. SFW during the day (gym gains, killer recipes, hanging with friends) and NSFW when the mood strikes.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Love hitting the gym and staying fit

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Big into cooking – homemade meals are my jam

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* See my buddies often and keep things real

If you're into long-term bro vibes and chastity play, hit me up! Let's chat and see where it goes. 😎

reddit.com
u/DVis1993 — 19 days ago

I’m a 32-year-old Dutch professional with a passion for leadership, strategy, and building genuine connections. My background is in HR and business consulting-fields where trust, structure, and growth are essential. I run my own consulting firm and work as a freelancer, but outside of work, you’ll often find me in the gym, experimenting in the kitchen, or spending time with friends and family. At 189 cm tall with a strong, athletic build, I bring that same energy and discipline into every aspect of my life-including my personal relationships.

As a natural dominant, I thrive on taking charge, both mentally and physically. I believe in structure, clear communication, and slowly developing a dynamic based on obedience, chemistry, and mutual respect. For me, D/s isn’t just about a quick scene or a fleeting thrill-it’s about creating something real, honest, and lasting, even if it starts online.

My interests revolve around giving rules, training, and creating routines. I enjoy exploring control-think chastity, obedience, petplay, houseslave dynamics, electro, humiliation, and degradation (always within clear, consensual boundaries). I love developing rituals and habits together that deepen our connection and make the power exchange truly meaningful.

My limits are clear: no blood, needles, children, anything illegal, or anything non-consensual.

I’m looking for a genuinely submissive guy who craves guidance and thrives under. Someone who finds it exciting to give up control-over their pleasure, their routine, maybe even their daily habits-and who is open to building trust and friendship alongside our dynamic. Honesty, reliability, and communication are essential to me; I want someone who enjoys deep conversations but also knows how to have fun and share a laugh.

This isn’t about being a robot or living in a 24/7 role. I want to get to know you for who you are, to grow together, joke around, and explore the depths of power and obedience along the way.

If this speaks to you, send me a message with a star emoji, your name and age, where you’re from, a bit about your experience or curiosity, your kinks and limits, and what draws you to submission.

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u/DVis1993 — 25 days ago