u/DamselRed

Lets see, where to start? Maybe a little bit about me. I'm 44 years old and a single mom of 2. I'm a therapist and I get to work from home, which I absolutely love. I am left politically and it's important to me to share those values.

I am a natural submissive. This means that it's just part of who I am. I'm not looking for something that's just a quick bit of kinky fun. I'm not looking for something casual at all.

In fact, I am looking for the exact opposite. I want the chemistry, passion, and deep connection. I am demisexual and sapiosexual so I need that emotional connection to even feel sexual. I am drawn to intelligence as well as dominance. I really value people who are self aware and emotionally intelligent and are always pushing to be the best version of themselves. I also value communication and being able to talk through things when they get tough or uncomfortable.

I definitely have my preferred kinks with impact play/sadism being something I need. I also need strong affection, nurturing and care that are often associated with a Ddlg type relationship. I love the contrast of the pain that comes with masochism and the absolute caring of a Daddy. I have a middle side that is more of a teenage, precocious, almost bratty personality. I crave the boundaries that come with the Ddlg relationship. To be allowed to be innocent and sweet and guided along with more traditional D/s kinks like impact play is my sweet spot and what I am looking for.

I believe bdsm is a yin/yang relationship and that both sides can work together to create something beautiful. The mental side of bdsm is incredibly important to me. There are pictures of me on my profile, so please check them out.

I'm looking for a slow burn essentially. I'm okay starting online but with the knowledge that it will eventually be in person.

Lets see, where to start? Maybe a little bit about me. I'm 44 years old and a single mom of 2. I'm a therapist and I get to work from home, which I absolutely love. I am left politically and it's important to me to share those values.

I am a natural submissive. This means that it's just part of who I am. I'm not looking for something that's just a quick bit of kinky fun. I'm not looking for something casual at all.

In fact, I am looking for the exact opposite. I want the chemistry, passion, and deep connection. I am demisexual and sapiosexual so I need that emotional connection to even feel sexual. I am drawn to intelligence as well as dominance. I really value people who are self aware and emotionally intelligent and are always pushing to be the best version of themselves. I also value communication and being able to talk through things when they get tough or uncomfortable.

I definitely have my preferred kinks with impact play/sadism being something I need. I also need strong affection, nurturing and care that are often associated with a Ddlg type relationship. I love the contrast of the pain that comes with masochism and the absolute caring of a Daddy. I have a middle side that is more of a teenage, precocious, almost bratty personality. I crave the boundaries that come with the Ddlg relationship. To be allowed to be innocent and sweet and guided along with more traditional D/s kinks like impact play is my sweet spot and what I am looking for.

I believe bdsm is a yin/yang relationship and that both sides can work together to create something beautiful. The mental side of bdsm is incredibly important to me. There are pictures of me on my profile, so please check them out.

I'm looking for a slow burn essentially. I'm okay starting online but with the knowledge that it will eventually be in person.

Lets see, where to start? Maybe a little bit about me. I'm 44 years old and a single mom of 2. I'm a therapist and I get to work from home, which I absolutely love. I am left politically and it's important to me to share those values.

I am a natural submissive. This means that it's just part of who I am. I'm not looking for something that's just a quick bit of kinky fun. I'm not looking for something casual at all.

In fact, I am looking for the exact opposite. I want the chemistry, passion, and deep connection. I am demisexual and sapiosexual so I need that emotional connection to even feel sexual. I am drawn to intelligence as well as dominance. I really value people who are self aware and emotionally intelligent and are always pushing to be the best version of themselves. I also value communication and being able to talk through things when they get tough or uncomfortable.

I definitely have my preferred kinks with impact play/sadism being something I need. I also need strong affection, nurturing and care that are often associated with a Ddlg type relationship. I love the contrast of the pain that comes with masochism and the absolute caring of a Daddy. I have a middle side that is more of a teenage, precocious, almost bratty personality. I crave the boundaries that come with the Ddlg relationship. To be allowed to be innocent and sweet and guided along with more traditional D/s kinks like impact play is my sweet spot and what I am looking for.

I believe bdsm is a yin/yang relationship and that both sides can work together to create something beautiful. The mental side of bdsm is incredibly important to me. There are pictures of me on my profile, so please check them out.

I'm looking for a slow burn essentially. I'm okay starting online but with the knowledge that it will eventually be in person.