u/Dante_s_trials

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Im not looking for someone that just submits to me, that accepts authority for authorities sake. I need to constantly earn and deserve submission, from a woman that I worship.

I am looking for at least a low protocol dynamic, that whilst not (necessarily) 24/7, does extend beyond the bedroom. Someone who has their own life, and wants to spend very intentional time together. Monogamous only. Relationship preferred but open to dynamic only.

I can host and travel.

I like to read, spend time in nature and with animals. Often described as competent. I enjoy making and fixing things.

I have, as people often do, many kinks, that seem to be expanding the more I discuss with people. However, for me the chemistry of a dynamic is far more important. And that chemistry seems to grow the more I talk to people. Whilst I am flexible regarding what is part of the greater dynamic and what is limited to scenes/sex - I do have conflicting tastes/interests and my preference would be to fully incorporate them. I would prefer to avoid labels, as they mislead if you dont fall neatly into the standard.

I will be completely honest regarding what I have experience with, what I'd like to progress into, and what Im willing to incorporate. Most of my individual kinks are not requirements, though I'd prefer to match on a lot.

Willing to answer any and all questions.

Curious as to how common this is? I've been aware of conflicting kinks I have, and somethings that Im interested in that don't particularly match with my dominant flavour, but I only really saw them as things that I would explore within a scene or during sex.

The more people I talk to, the more I realise how much preconceptions about myself are holding me back and the more I realise how many labels have misconceptions.

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Im not looking for someone that just submits to me, that accepts authority for authorities sake. I need to constantly earn and deserve submission, from a woman that I worship.

I am looking for a low protocol dynamic, that whilst not 24/7, does extend beyond the bedroom. Someone who has their own life, and wants to spend very intentional time together. Monogamous only. Relationship preferred but open to dynamic only.

I can host and travel.

I like to read, spend time in nature and with animals. Often described as competent. I enjoy making and fixing things.

I have, as people often do, many kinks. However, for me the chemistry of a dynamic is far more important.

Willing to answer any and all questions.

Im not looking for someone that just submits to me, that accepts authority for authorities sake. I need to constantly earn and deserve submission, from a woman that I worship.

I am looking for a low protocol dynamic, that whilst not 24/7, does extend beyond the bedroom. Someone who has their own life, and wants to spend very intentional time together. Monogamous only. Relationship preferred but open to dynamic only.

I can host and travel.

I like to read, spend time in nature and with animals. Often described as competent. I enjoy making and fixing things.

I have, as people often do, many kinks. However, for me the chemistry of a dynamic is far more important.

Willing to answer any and all questions.

Im not looking for someone that just submits to me, that accepts authority for authorities sake. I need to constantly earn and deserve submission, from a woman that I worship.

I am looking for a low protocol dynamic, that whilst not 24/7, does extend beyond the bedroom. Someone who has their own life, and wants to spend very intentional time together.

I can host and travel.

I like to read, spend time in nature and with animals. Often described as competent. I enjoy making and fixing things.

I have, as people often do, many kinks. However, for me the chemistry of a dynamic is far more important.

Willing to answer any and all questions.

To the doms and subs, what do you aim for in a dynamic?

It seems, possibly incorrectly, that it is disproportionately on the controlling side. I appreciate it can be both, but it is probably usually, if not always, both, but which one takes the lead?

I see being dominant as taking the lead, not determining the direction. And I do realise pleasure doms are a thing. Just interested to hear other people's take on it.

I'm looking for a brat. Ideally very braty. If you talk back, push, hit, spit... that is just lovely.

I'm not sure of the exact age range, probably 30s or 40s.

I'm not in a rush to jump into anything, but I would be aiming for a long-term, committed, monogamous relationship.

The person I am hoping to find is strong-willeded, unafraid to speak their mind, opinionated, sarcastic, sometimes argumentative. But ultimately, a good person. They would need to be open, communicative, and mature.

I am respectful, calm, stable, and confident. I relish conflict.

I've recently realised some of my hard limits aren't limits, some I'm extremely interested in pursuing, some I'm moderately interested in, and some I'm open to.

Besides things that would involve lasting damage, my main hard limits are actually scat, vomit, age and pet play.

I can host some, and I am open to travelling.

Dm if you're interested, and we can see if there is a connection outside of kink before discussing specific kinks.

I'm pretty open, so feel free to ask anything - if it is something I'm not happy answering at this point, I'll just say, no harm.

Done a few quizzes to kill some time.

It's not really that much of a shock, I knew I preferred a lot of fight in a submissive, but I never actually thought of myself as being (slightly) more masochistic than sadistic.

I'm quite intrigued as to how common this is for doms?

Recently spent 55 hours awake (doesn't matter why and I know it's not good).

Talking with someone else resulted in me questioning some of my previous positions. It wasn't their intention, just what happens.

Amongst other things, I reconsidered my thoughts on blood. I've had a mindset that I was adverse to it, but I couldn't think of why. I've had no problems with period sex, or oral... no queasiness at the sight of it. Just really could not find a reason why I thought I had an issue with it.

Whilst this isn't the most important of the things I've reconsidered, it is the one that has left me the most perplexed how to pursue it.

I know I'm not interested in anything medical related for it. I'm not particularly against that, it's just that I don't want that level of physical disconnect. Cutting isn't something I'd want to do either.

But the thought of them bleeding, tasting it and having it on my face...

I like rough play, and although I don't do it with the intention of making them bleed, the thought of someone cutting their lip or mouth, me tasting that blood as we get off...

So yeah, any suggestions on how to make this happen if I don't want to use blades or hit someone hard enough to (intentionally) make them bleed?