u/DearClaude

41 [M4F/MF] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi couple or female

Male here looking to connect with a female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 1 day ago

41 [M4F/MF] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi couple or female

Male here looking to connect with a female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 1 day ago

[Male] [41] [SanJose] Looking to connect with desi couple or female

Male here looking to connect with a female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 6 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Sharing real life experiences

Just a reminder to everyone here, please be extra careful when meeting people in public, especially from Reddit or other apps. Not just for privacy reasons, but because random real-life situations can happen in seconds.

This morning around 11 a.m. on Friday, I was at Safeway in Sunnyvale. I had stepped out from work for a quick meetup with someone I’d been talking to here. I was grabbing her favorite chocolates.

And then something completely unexpected happened.
There was a sudden incident in the parking lot/store area (sharing pics separately), and she literally missed being caught up in it by just a few feet.Honestly, if timing had been slightly different, things could have gone very wrong and very awkward very fast.

It really made me think about how quickly situations can spiral, especially when you’re trying to stay discreet. Explaining why two married people were at Safeway together on a Friday morning while supposedly “working” would’ve been the least of the problems.

Stay aware of your surroundings and have an exit plan

And please don’t assume “nothing will happen”

Sometimes life throws completely random situations at you. Stay safe out there, everyone.

u/DearClaude — 8 days ago

41 [M4F] #San Jose - Looking for something real simple and drama free

Not the easiest thing to write, but I’ll keep it real.

41M, San Jose, desi and married. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. What I’m looking for is a connection that exists outside of situation. Something simple, mutual, and understood without having to over explain.

I’d prefer someone in a similar place in life. Grounded, emotionally aware, and clear on boundaries. Privacy and discretion are really important to me, and I’m looking for someone who feels the same and knows how to keep things drama free.

About me: 5’9”, 140 lbs, I stay active and take care of myself. I work out regularly, keep myself well groomed, and overall try to stay balanced. Personality wise I’m pretty calm, easygoing, and more on the introspective side. Not into drama at all. I enjoy good conversation just as much as anything physical.

Ideally looking for someone within about a decade of my age, but I’m open if there’s a genuine connection. Prefer desi for the shared understanding, but open to talking to others as well.
I think what I’m really missing is that feeling of being wanted and appreciated again, and being able to give that back to someone who’s feeling the same way.

I’m also someone who genuinely values emotional connection.I can listen, be present, and offer support when it’s needed. Sometimes just having someone to talk to openly and honestly makes all the difference, and I’m happy to be that kind of space for the right person.

If this speaks to you, feel free to reach out. No pressure, just seeing if there’s a connection.

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u/DearClaude — 8 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi couple or female

Male here looking to connect with a female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 9 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi female

Male here looking to connect with an Indian female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 10 days ago

[Male] [41] [SanJose] Looking to connect with desi couple or female

Male here looking to connect with a female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 10 days ago

41 [M4F] #San Jose - Looking for something real simple and drama free

Not the easiest thing to write, but I’ll keep it real.

41M, San Jose, desi and married. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. What I’m looking for is a connection that exists outside of situation. Something simple, mutual, and understood without having to over explain.

I’d prefer someone in a similar place in life. Grounded, emotionally aware, and clear on boundaries. Privacy and discretion are really important to me, and I’m looking for someone who feels the same and knows how to keep things drama free.

About me: 5’9”, 140 lbs, I stay active and take care of myself. I work out regularly, keep myself well groomed, and overall try to stay balanced. Personality wise I’m pretty calm, easygoing, and more on the introspective side. Not into drama at all. I enjoy good conversation just as much as anything physical.

Ideally looking for someone within about a decade of my age, but I’m open if there’s a genuine connection. Prefer desi for the shared understanding, but open to talking to others as well.
I think what I’m really missing is that feeling of being wanted and appreciated again, and being able to give that back to someone who’s feeling the same way.

I’m also someone who genuinely values emotional connection.I can listen, be present, and offer support when it’s needed. Sometimes just having someone to talk to openly and honestly makes all the difference, and I’m happy to be that kind of space for the right person.

If this speaks to you, feel free to reach out. No pressure, just seeing if there’s a connection.

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u/DearClaude — 10 days ago

41 [M4MF/F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi female

Male here looking to connect with a female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 11 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi female

Male here looking to connect with a female interested in a dry ANR dynamic, including breast massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 11 days ago

41 [M4MF/F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi female

Male here looking to connect with a female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 11 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi female

Male here looking to connect with a female who is in this lifestyle. I also offer breast and body massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 11 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi female

Male here looking to connect with a female interested in a dry ANR dynamic, including breast massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 11 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi female

Male here looking to connect with a female interested in a dry ANR dynamic, including breast massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 11 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking to connect with desi female

Male here looking to connect with a female interested in a dry ANR dynamic, including breast massage and mutual exploration. Respect, communication, and comfort are important to me. If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM.

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u/DearClaude — 11 days ago

41M, San Jose, desi and married. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. What I’m looking for is a connection that exists outside of current situation. Something simple, mutual, and understood without having to over explain.

About me: 5’9”, 140 lbs, I stay active and take care of myself. I work out regularly, keep myself well groomed, and overall try to stay balanced. Personality wise I’m pretty calm, easygoing, and more on the introspective side. Not into drama at all. I enjoy good conversation just as much as anything physical.

Ideally looking for someone LOCAL, within about a decade of my age, but I’m open if there’s a genuine connection. Prefer desi for the shared understanding, but open to talking to others as well.

If this speaks to you, feel free to reach out. No pressure, just seeing if there’s a connection.

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u/DearClaude — 16 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for something real simple and drama free

41M, San Jose, desi and married. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. What I’m looking for is a ANR connection that exists outside of current situation. Something simple, mutual, and understood without having to over explain.

About me: 5’9”, 140 lbs, I stay active and take care of myself. I work out regularly, keep myself well groomed, and overall try to stay balanced. Personality wise I’m pretty calm, easygoing, and more on the introspective side. Not into drama at all. I enjoy good conversation just as much as anything physical.

Ideally looking for someone LOCAL, within about a decade of my age, but I’m open if there’s a genuine connection. Prefer desi for the shared understanding, but open to talking to others as well.

If this speaks to you, feel free to reach out. No pressure, just seeing if there’s a connection.

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u/DearClaude — 16 days ago

41M, San Jose, desi and married. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. What I’m looking for is a ANR connection that exists outside of current situation. Something simple, mutual, and understood without having to over explain.

About me: 5’9”, 140 lbs, I stay active and take care of myself. I work out regularly, keep myself well groomed, and overall try to stay balanced. Personality wise I’m pretty calm, easygoing, and more on the introspective side. Not into drama at all. I enjoy good conversation just as much as anything physical.

Ideally looking for someone LOCAL, within about a decade of my age, but I’m open if there’s a genuine connection. Prefer desi for the shared understanding, but open to talking to others as well.

If this speaks to you, feel free to reach out. No pressure, just seeing if there’s a connection.

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u/DearClaude — 16 days ago

41 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for something real simple and drama free

41M, San Jose, desi and married. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours. What I’m looking for is a connection that exists outside of current situation. Something simple, mutual, and understood without having to over explain.

About me: 5’9”, 140 lbs, I stay active and take care of myself. I work out regularly, keep myself well groomed, and overall try to stay balanced. Personality wise I’m pretty calm, easygoing, and more on the introspective side. Not into drama at all. I enjoy good conversation just as much as anything physical.

Ideally looking for someone LOCAL, within about a decade of my age, but I’m open if there’s a genuine connection. Prefer desi for the shared understanding, but open to talking to others as well.

If this speaks to you, feel free to reach out. No pressure, just seeing if there’s a connection.

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u/DearClaude — 16 days ago