u/DecisionGold1683

37 [M4F] #Online -Vulnerability and Emotional Substance

Hi! I'm late 30s, married with kids. I am looking for a special someone to develop an authentic relationship with that's centered around emotional depth. Yes attraction is a factor but I am looking for someone who I connect with on a deeper level. Age isn't necessarily a big factor but being in similar stages of life does help.

I've had OAs before and have a good understanding of what works for me. I want to find someone who has the patience and determination to really get to know someone. A woman who is confident in what she wants and tired of the meandering one day conversations on here. Who with time is open to be vulnerable and develop real feelings. Someone who lacks emotional depth in their marriage and is looking to fill that hole. Someone who feels unappreciated. Hopeless romantics are a plus!

Having similar interests isn't that important to me as I enjoy learning about new things and stuff you're passionate about that I don't have much exposure to. I enjoy working out and staying in shape, cooking, useless bar trivia, sports and current events and being very active. I am introverted but ambitious in my career with quiet confidence. Big outdoors person as well. I'm clean cut (sorry beard lovers!).

I have done this before and know what works for me. I am looking for someone who is serious about forming an OA and knows what they want too. Demanding is good in that regard..If you are interested in developing a real relationship with emotional connection, or if anything above resonated, feel free to say hi! I am not trying to change anyones situation or mine and a short conversation to get to know each other won't hurt.

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u/DecisionGold1683 — 4 days ago

37 [M4F] #Online - Looking for emotional depth and substance

Hi! I'm late 30s, married with kids. I am looking for a special someone to develop an authentic relationship with that's centered around emotional depth. Yes attraction is a factor but I am looking for someone who I connect with on a deeper level. Age isn't necessarily a big factor but being in similar stages of life does help.

I've had OAs before and have a good understanding of what works for me. I want to find someone who has the patience and determination to really get to know someone. A woman who is confident in what she wants and tired of the meandering one day conversations on here. Who with time is open to be vulnerable and develop real feelings. Someone who lacks emotional depth in their marriage and is looking to fill that hole. Hopeless romantics are a plus!

Having similar interests isn't that important to me as I enjoy learning about new things and stuff you're passionate about that I don't have much exposure to. I enjoy working out and staying in shape, cooking, useless bar trivia, sports and current events and being very active. I am introverted but ambitious in my career with quiet confidence. Big outdoors person as well. I'm clean cut (sorry beard lovers!).

I have done this before and know what works for me. I am looking for someone who is serious about forming an OA and knows what they want too. Demanding is good in that regard..If you are interested in developing a real relationship with emotional connection, or if anything above resonated, feel free to say hi! I am not trying to change anyones situation or mine and a short conversation to get to know each other won't hurt.

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u/DecisionGold1683 — 11 days ago

37 [M4F] #Online - Dom seeking soft submission

I am a gentle Dom looking for a softer sub. Service subs are ideal but I'm open to your wants and needs. Ideally someone articulate, smart and funny as I like to have normal conversation outside of d/s.

Communication is key. I don't need you to be available every second, but I do need more than a message or two a day to bond properly. Someone seeking guidance, care and affection is ideal. I have a dominant personality but prefer being gentle with my sub. I am looking for a long term dynamic. Full disclosure, I am in a vanilla relationship that is entirely separate from this world.

If you enjoy having stimulating conversation about more than just sex and power exchange and take care of your health, we'll be a good match. I'm looking for kink plus mental and emotional stimulation. I have experience but am not extensively experienced. Ideally looking for someone similar to me who has done this before but isn't a seasoned pro at it. If you're looking for quiet confidence, an extroverted introvert, and a Dom who can provide you with genuine affection and care beyond just the sexual, say hi and tell me a bit about yourself!

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u/DecisionGold1683 — 12 days ago