Is it normal for women to masturbate together?
I just started as an associate pastor after graduating seminary last year. I've been in my church about 3 months or so, and there's this group of older women (that's what they call themselves when they're around me!) who have been super welcoming and really nice to me. One of them, Robin, has become a kind of mentor/friend. She couldn't join, but she was really encouraging about this women's retreat and insisted I go, even though I was still nervous and feeling really "new" despite the ladies' best efforts.
We had a normal first retreat day. Some yoga overlooking the lake, journaling, a speaker about keeping intimacy alive in your marriage. And then there was a banana bread contest. Everyone was sooo nice. And it felt really good to be included... just what retreat's are supposed to do.
We were going to be four to a room at night. Each room had two full size beds and a cot. I was sharing a bed with one of my room-mates (Marcy), Sarah was in the other bed, and another older woman, Diane, on the cot.
But that night after we shut off the lights and finished all our giggling and chit-chatting, I was lying there next to Marcy and just feeling so good. I just really liked these women. I don't know. I know this sounds insane but I started brushing my fingers over my nipples, really quietly. I didn't think I was really going to masturbate surrounded by these new friends. Maybe later after they were all asleep.
But then I thought I felt the mattress rocking just a little. I could just barely see in the moonlight, but it looked like Marcy had one knee up and her hand down her pajamas. And then I heard Diane starting to inhale and exhale from the cot at the foot of our bed.
And then I felt Marcy whisper to me and asked if she could see my boobs. (They're very big.) I didn't even have to think about it... I pulled my tee shirt up and my boobs were all pale in the moonlight. And she watched me play with my nipples, my own hand in my panties rubbing my swollen little clitoris, while her hand started moving faster. Sarah was watching too, sitting up in her bed jilling a bit more frantically. And I came so hard I made a little squeak...and then they all followed, cumming almost at the same time.
Diane jumped out of bed and ran to the small bathroom and peed with the door open, laughing that she was so glad she made it to the toilet.
I couldn't believe what had just happened, but they were all so normal about it. Then Marcy asked if she could spoon me a little.
It was just so nice... I think we all fell right to sleep.
The next morning at breakfast nobody said anything out loud about it, but we kind of sat a bit closer to each other. We packed up in the afternoon, got in our car-pools. Sarah gave me a hug goodbye and said she was glad I came on the retreat. Marcy texted me on the way home asking if I wanted to come to her house for dinner next week. Diane just kept being Diane and darting all over the place.
I told Robin everything when I got home and she just smiled and said "See? I thought you might make some friends."
Is this normal? I mean I'd heard about this once or twice on the softball team in college, but do grown women really do this? I mean, I hope so... I feel like I joined some secret club I didn't know existed.