u/DeepBluePacificWaves

Hi Doms and subs, how is it going?

My boyfriend/owner is a switcher, and I'm learning to be one myself him. We have a relationship in which we're to switch roles, preserving the D/S.

Recently, he asked me to punish him for having sex with others before we've met, just like he did it for me (he spanked me with a wooden stick I bought, around 9mm in diameter. 5 spanks for the first time I had anal, 3 for the first time I had oral. He ordered me to write down all the times I had sex, count them, delivered to him in session and read out loud, before he spank me.)

Now that in the position of thinking the same, I wanna do something a little different, but haven't thought yet what. I thought I would make him wait in the middle of a room, naked, on his knees, with eyes closed, and while he recites his past encounters, I masturbate in front of him and cum in his face, so I can mark him as mine, without warning, but I don't know, it seems so simple

Do you have any ideas on how to spicy it up?

So, I've been using chastity for a few months by now, tried to decrease the size until the flat in using, but always developed an injury underneath my balls. I always notice when it's about to come, because I can feel a burning sensation in the area. I try to use some lube or cream to prevent it, since some subs told that's what they use to help the injuries to heal

My Dom is worried about these injuries, and, at first, I thought they're due to the size of the ring, but anything bigger would make the chastity easily go off, which isn't against the whole idea of the device

I started to suspect that it might be due to my penis size (13.5 cm), which is not great, but it's thick, and we've been playing with smaller cages (which look hot)

We've talked before and my Dom considered that he doesn't want me to not have erections anymore, because I could be of use to him and his anal pleasure, so I approached him with the idea of using the smaller cages occasionally, while using a bigger one daily (so he can have this control over me)

He accepted the idea, however, I'm left wondering what could make those injuries happen, and how to prevent them

Btw, I don't I was clear before, but each time I develop an injury, I was ordered to talk the cage off and heal before using it again (like I'm doing it right now)