u/DiscreteGentleman001

Hey Everyone!

Currently in a dead bedroom situation. Looking for someone attractive, flirty, & fun to keep my head in the clouds. I prefer to have a connection both in and out of the bedroom while keeping the focus primarily on a physical relationship. Intelligence, humor, & good foreplay attract my attention.

A little about me:

31 years old, born in November ;)
6’3” tall
Fit / muscular build
Brown hair slicked back, green eyes, tan skin, huge smile with dimples
Homeowner
Middle management at a very demanding & stressful white collar career in a dynamic high risk industry
College Graduate (Business Major)
USMC Veteran 2013-2017
Originally from California, moved to Atlanta in 2021
Currently located in North Atlanta Suburbs
Light hearted, great sense of humor, sarcastic, witty, I do not take myself or life too seriously. Life is short!
I am very introspective & self aware

My hobbies include:

Lifting weights, working out, & hiking
Cooking (I make dinner almost every night),
Traveling (Amsterdam, London, Paris, Rome, Istanbul, Stuttgart,& Krakow are some places I’ve been)
Reading (philosophy, business, history, maybe your messages soon!)
Continual learning (new how to’s or DIY’s)
Shooting range (I also collect firearms)
Track car racing (Road Atlanta BMW’s & Porche’s)

I’m definitely a quality over quantity gentleman, I value a strong emotional & physical connection, I am very open minded and looking for the right person to fill the void that has opened up in my life. I feel too deeply to have a casual FWB. I prefer someone who is reliable, dependable, and consistent in my life both physically and emotionally.

What I am looking for:

I prefer women who are more mature in age, moms are a huge turn on for me!
Someone who is local to North Atlanta or visits frequently
Preferably you have daytime availability or late afternoon/early evenings
Married and in a similar situation is a plus
A good communicator, we both have home and/or work lives, not looking to be ghosted or always guessing
A strong sexual desire and comfortable flirting / sexting
Willing to do all the things we say in text when we meet in person ;)

New profile after a sabbatical from Reddit. Looking for something real and genuine. I am an open book and will more than prove I am real before we meet in person.

Looking forward to hearing from you! ~

Hey Everyone,

Like many others, I have been struggling to figure out how to get my needs met in my current relationship. After many conversations & arguments with my wife I’ve come to the conclusion that you cannot negotiate desire, and even if you could, would it really be the feeling we are searching for?

I take care of my wife emotionally and physically, I also provide a more than comfortable lifestyle especially relative to my age. My current relationship is too intertwined to untangle without being messy. Thus, I’ve come to the conclusion having my own dirty little secret will keep the peace at home, satisfy my neglected needs, while maintaining the status quo.

About me:

~ 31 years old, born in November!
~ 6’3” tall
~ Fit / muscular build
~ Brown hair slicked back, green eyes, tan skin, huge smile with dimples
~ Light hearted, great sense of humor, sarcastic, witty, I do not take myself or life too seriously. Life is short and meant for enjoyment & fullness
~ I am very introspective, I am conscious of myself and the rest of the world around me
~ USMC Veteran 2013-2017
~ College Graduate - Bachelor’s of Business Administration 2021
~ Middle management at a very demanding & stressful white collar career in a dynamic high risk industry
~ Originally from California, moved to Atlanta in 2021
~ My hobbies include:
Lifting weights, working out, & hiking
Cooking (I make dinner almost every night),
Traveling (Amsterdam, London, Paris, Rome, Istanbul, Stuttgart, Krakow)
Reading (philosophy, business, history, maybe your messages one day!)
Continual learning (new how to’s or DIY’s)
Shooting range (I also collect firearms)
Track car racing (Road Atlanta BMW’s & Porche’s)

I’m definitely a quality over quantity gentleman, I value a strong emotional & physical connection, I am very open minded and looking for the right person to fill the void that has opened up in my life. I feel too deeply to have a casual FWB. Funny how thoughtfulness and attentiveness can be too deep for others.

What I am looking for:

1. Honesty - sounds funny from a guy proposing to have an affair however, to me an affair partner is really the only true person you can be honest with. The secrets we create are to be hidden from others not each other.
2. Communication - leading a double life can be tough, we have work & home lives while trying to balance a little extra on the side. I don’t expect to talk everyday however, we should communicate enough where it isn’t a mystery either.
3. Acceptance - I want to get to know the real you, the you you can’t and won’t share anywhere else. Let me into you mind and body, I want to hear all the thoughts you won’t tell others and do all the kinky things you won’t do with others.
4. Fire and desire - A good affair is a balance of emotion and desire, let’s not forget the desire (that’s what started this in the first place!) we should be comfortable casually discussing sex as much as we are comfortable being hot and heavy both on our phones and in person.
5. Be local or travel to ATL often - connecting on a phone is convenient however, physical intimacy is what we are after at the end of the day. Please be local or able to travel frequently to Atlanta.

Hey Everyone,

Like many others, I have been struggling to figure out how to get my needs met in my current relationship. After many conversations & arguments with my wife I’ve come to the conclusion that you cannot negotiate desire, and even if you could, would it really be the feeling we are searching for?

I take care of my wife emotionally and physically, I also provide a more than comfortable lifestyle especially relative to my age. My current relationship is too intertwined to untangle without being messy. Thus, I’ve come to the conclusion having my own dirty little secret will keep the peace at home, satisfy my neglected needs, while maintaining the status quo.

About me:

~ 31 years old, born in November!
~ 6’3” tall
~ Fit / muscular build
~ Brown hair slicked back, green eyes, tan skin, huge smile with dimples
~ Light hearted, great sense of humor, sarcastic, witty, I do not take myself or life too seriously. Life is short and meant for enjoyment & fullness
~ I am very introspective, I am conscious of myself and the rest of the world around me
~ USMC Veteran 2013-2017
~ College Graduate - Bachelor’s of Business Administration 2021
~ Middle management at a very demanding & stressful white collar career in a dynamic high risk industry
~ Originally from California, moved to Atlanta in 2021
~ My hobbies include:
Lifting weights, working out, & hiking
Cooking (I make dinner almost every night),
Traveling (Amsterdam, London, Paris, Rome, Istanbul, Stuttgart, Krakow)
Reading (philosophy, business, history, maybe your messages one day!)
Continual learning (new how to’s or DIY’s)
Shooting range (I also collect firearms)
Track car racing (Road Atlanta BMW’s & Porche’s)

I’m definitely a quality over quantity gentleman, I value a strong emotional & physical connection, I am very open minded and looking for the right person to fill the void that has opened up in my life. I feel too deeply to have a casual FWB. Funny how thoughtfulness and attentiveness can be too deep for others.

What I am looking for:

1. Honesty - sounds funny from a guy proposing to have an affair however, to me an affair partner is really the only true person you can be honest with. The secrets we create are to be hidden from others not each other.
2. Communication

- leading a double life can be tough, we have work & home lives while trying to balance a little extra on the side. I don’t expect to talk everyday however, we should communicate enough where it isn’t a mystery either.

1. Acceptance

- I want to get to know the real you, the you you can’t and won’t share anywhere else. Let me into you mind and body, I want to hear all the thoughts you won’t tell others and do all the kinky things you won’t do with others.
4. Fire and desire - A good affair is a balance of emotion and desire, let’s not forget the desire (that’s what started this in the first place!) we should be comfortable casually discussing sex as much as we are comfortable being hot and heavy both on our phones and in person.
5. Be local or travel to ATL often - connecting on a phone is convenient however, physical intimacy is what we are after at the end of the day. Please be local or able to travel frequently to Atlanta.

You know how the therapist hands out stress balls for you to squeeze and play with in your hands? Similarly, there is something so erotic about a woman’s breasts that my mind literally powers off when in view. Not only does my mind power off, it’s also equally soothed at the same time. Something that I cannot figure out how to do any other way.

I’m seeking a woman in the Atlanta area or just outside the perimeter (preferably the Marietta, Sandy Springs, Alpharetta areas) who would enjoy regular meet ups where you disrobe your top and allow me to sensually rub, lick, kiss, & feel your boobs as a stress relief from my anxiety filled, high functioning workaholic life. No reciprocity required or expected. Honestly if you would just run your hand through my hair as I rub my face against your precious breasts for 20 minutes, I would feel more soothed and relieved than an all day spa day ever could. The expectation of men to perform in the workplace has never been greater however, we don’t discuss enough the emotional burn out, over stimulation, & sleep deprivation high functioning stress can cause on an individual.

For reference I am a 31M local to Atlanta (GA400 area), I’m 6’3” tall, HWP, clean cut, no tattoos, brown hair, green eyes, tan skin, a huge smile with dimples that you will definitely see come out to shine! I’m a USMC veteran, college graduate, and work a successful yet emotionally draining white collar career. Yes, I am sane, safe, DDF, discrete, and respectful.

I’m open to establishing a full on friendship or keeping it strict to breast relief therapy meet ups only. What you’ll find if we connect is I’m a large yet very gentle and emotionally soft man who has to mask and cope with the stresses and struggles of being a high performing male in corporate America. It would be life changing to be able to cuddle up and find peace between your breasts.

If you find this post of interest or just want to chat more my DM’s are open!