39 F4M CST, online only. Looking for a spark

I’m 39, married, and looking for a little something on the side. My life is a busy mix of work and family, but I’m missing that extra excitement and a connection that’s just for me.

​I’m a pretty low-maintenance, down to earth person who’d much rather be at home gaming than out at a crowded bar. When I’m not handling responsibilities, you can usually find me playing some sort of game. I’m looking for an escape from the routine with someone who is chill, doesn’t do drama, and understands the value of a quiet night in.

​Looking for a guy in a similar boat who is discreet, wants something exclusive, respectful of boundaries, and knows how to keep a secret. If you’re a fellow gamer or just someone who can be real without making things complicated, let's see if we vibe.

Please be between the ages of 35-45. I don't do snap or telegram either. We can chat here or on discord.

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u/Dist-Feep — 27 days ago

I hate writing these, I never know what to say here.

Like it states above, I'm 39 F. Married, obviously. A couple of teenagers. I know there are some who aren't attached and that's okay with me, just be an honest person. You also dont have to have kids but at least have an understanding that they come first. All are welcome to shoot their shot as long as you're between the ages of 30-45. No lower, no higher. I've been out of this for a bit and just getting back into it so my availability will be spotty at first but conversation will be consistent and I want the same in return. I don't have anything specific I'm looking for, just don't be a dick. I'm not a slow burn person but I don't expect things to go straight sexual first either. So if you're here to fulfill some sexual desire, I'm not the one, there's plenty of others out there, just don't even waste my time. I'm not someone who can just video call and voice chat whenever either so if that's also a must, I'm not the one. I think that about does it. Hope to hear from you!

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u/Dist-Feep — 1 month ago

I hate writing these, I never know what to say here.

Like it states above, I'm 39 F. Married, obviously. A couple of teenagers. I know there are some who aren't attached and that's okay with me, just be an honest person. You also dont have to have kids but at least have an understanding that they come first. All are welcome to shoot their shot as long as you're between the ages of 30-45. No lower, no higher. I've been out of this for a bit and just getting back into it so my availability will be spotty at first but conversation will be consistent and I want the same in return. I don't have anything specific I'm looking for, just don't be a dick. I'm not a slow burn person but I don't expect things to go straight sexual first either. So if you're here to fulfill some sexual desire, I'm not the one, there's plenty of others out there, just don't even waste my time. I'm not someone who can just video call and voice chat whenever either so if that's also a must, I'm not the one. I think that about does it. Hope to hear from you!

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u/Dist-Feep — 1 month ago