u/Distinct-Method-4591

Been married for a long time, but it's just not what it's supposed to be. It's lonely, with a co-parenting vibe. There has to be more to life than this, so here I am.

I'm 37, ex-military, ex-athlete, and a body that defines the "ex" part of that. Not fat, but dadbod, 6'1 with Scandinavian features. I do need to get back to working out but I can't find the motivation. Hopefully someone can help with that. I'll return the favor.

I've been told I'm a nice and thoughtful person, and I have hard coded left leaning values that shape who I am. If you want to know what those are, ask and I'll explain. Patience and communication are key to any relationship, especially this type, so I offer both.

*notabot

I can be a nerd, I like video games, and I love to learn. I can also nerd out in other ways and go on rants about a plethora of different things. Sports, soccer, being the most common topic. I love to listen to others rant about things that interest them or that upsets them.

Age is irrelevant, connections happen regardless of age, but physically, curvy women seems to be what attracts me most.

If anything seems interesting, reach out. I'm not looking to change anybody's situation, just looking to find what's missing.

Been married for a long time, but it's just not what it's supposed to be. It's lonely, with a co-parenting vibe. There has to be more to life than this, so here I am.

I'm 37, ex-military, ex-athlete, and a body that defines the "ex" part of that. Not fat, but dadbod, 6'1 with Scandinavian features. I do need to get back to working out but I can't find the motivation. Hopefully someone can help with that. I'll return the favor.

I've been told I'm a nice and thoughtful person, and I have hard coded left leaning values that shape who I am. If you want to know what those are, ask and I'll explain. Patience and communication are key to any relationship, especially this type, so I offer both.

*notabot

I can be a nerd, I like video games, and I love to learn. I can also nerd out in other ways and go on rants about a plethora of different things. Sports, soccer, being the most common topic. I love to listen to others rant about things that interest them or that upsets them.

If anything seems interesting, reach out. I'm not looking to change anybody's situation, just looking to find what's missing.

Pros: Actually 6'1, can fix your wifi, will carry you when you get tired

Cons: Don't share food (will buy you your own though), thinks Die Hard is a Christmas movie, always right

Married, no intention of changing that, and have kids, but the marriage is not what it used to be or should be. It's lonely. Looking for someone in a similar situation that wants an actual connection that eventually leads to the other stuff. Age is irrelevant, connections can happen regardless of age. If you like the sporty-but-nerdy type of Scandinavians, with beards, I might be your type.

Pros: Actually 6'1, can fix your wifi, will carry you when you get tired

Cons: Don't share food (will buy you your own though), thinks Die Hard is a Christmas movie, always right

Married, no intention of changing that, and have kids, but the marriage is not what it used to be or should be. It's lonely. Looking for someone in a similar situation that wants an actual connection that eventually leads to the other stuff. Age is irrelevant, connections can happen regardless of age. If you like the sporty-but-nerdy type of Scandinavians, with beards, I might be your type.