u/Divine_Katt

Hope the title makes sense. What I mean is that I’ve had an overall bad experience having sex with people when I’m in the mood to sub. Obviously, I should have spoken up and said that the sex sucked, but I was still finding my feet when it came to voicing my sexual desires.

Before embracing being dominant, I genuinely just kind of accepted that a guy has sex with a woman, busts his nut, and then the act is over. The woman doesn’t really get much attention.

Finding submissive men who enjoy acts of service has been a complete revelation to me. Having a man who’s eager to please me and pay attention to my needs is something I’ve been missing out on for so long. It also made me realise how much of a shitty dom the person I’m referring above was.

Of course, with me taking on the role of dom, I’m careful not to accidentally do the same thing to him and make sure I am meeting his needs (unless he’s after denial, of course 😏). I also love giving rewards back through pleasure and praise after he’s finished the tasks I give him.

It’s just a shame I didn’t realise I’d been putting up with shitty sex for so long. I wish I’d realised this sooner. But hey, we live and we learn.

So I have accidentally just stumbled across this subreddit and I am unsure if posting from the female POV is allowed… If not mods feel free to remove :)

I’m pretty happy I came across it actually as I had no idea this was a fetish other people had! I absolutely have a thing for friend zoning guys I love it.

Anyways on to what I was actually going to post about:

I am responsible for turning my guy friend into a cuck. It wasn’t on purpose… more of an accident I suppose?

We have been close friends practically forever. In the past people have commented about us getting into a relationship but I made it incredibly clear I would absolutely never date him. He confessed to me over a couple drinks how attractive he found me and I just kind of laughed it off — I knew he had some feelings for me but I wasn’t aware to what extent he liked me. Despite being outwardly rejected he stuck with me and didn’t really seem to mind that I wouldn’t date him.

Moving on, I got a boyfriend! I announced this to our friend group… and to start with he seemed pissed off. I chalked it down to him being jealous and left him alone.

Eventually after a couple weeks he stopped sulking and our friendship resumed to how it used to be. I was glad as I love telling him about what I get up to. He listens to me talk a lot which works for me because I am a sucker for oversharing information and I love telling him about my day.

I’d send him pictures of me and my boyfriend on dates, text him and let him know what we were up to and overall I’d talk to him about things I loved about my boyfriend.

My relationship with my boyfriend was still relatively new so I was incredibly flustered by this man and absolutely infatuated with him ( well I still am but I’m not nervous of him anymore haha). I view my guy friend as completely off limits so he knows pretty much all of the details of when I was still “crushing” on my bf.

Moving onto how I found out I’d accidentally turned him into a cuck… The wider friend group had all gotten together for a party. Me and him ended up talking and he starts gushing about how much I deserve my bf and he’s glad I found somebody worthy.

I kind of mock him and tell him to stop being a cuck and I swear I have never seen a man get so flustered. I probed him with a couple more jokes before asking him if he seriously is a cuck and he just meekly smiles at me. He admits that’s he loves when I send him updates when I’m with my boyfriend and that’s it’s all he can think about.

It had briefly crossed my mind if he were a cuck. I kinda felt like his eyesight would linger a little bit too long if he saw me and my boyfriend kiss or do anything remotely intimate with me.

I just find it so incredibly funny that sometimes I would feel a teeny bit bad about friend-zoning him but the little freak was loving it haha

He’s still my friend and will continue to be so as long as he behaves… My boyfriend knows about this and finds it amusing. I’m just glad everybody was on the same page as it’s lead to some very funny encounters over the years of us knowing each other.

Anyways my bad this is such a long post but a girls gotta find somthing to spend her time doing on a long train journey