I've been deep in the friendzone with my crush for months. She tells me everything, and has a boyfriend. Today I joked that her bf is short and she got actually pissed. Left me on read after saying it wasn't funny.
How do I make it up to her without sounding even more desperate? Just a simple sorry or should I go full beta and offer to do something nice?
I’ve been lurking on here again, and I just had to share this. There is nothing more entertaining to me than watching the modern dating scene completely crush average guys while top-tier men pull further and further ahead. My friends and I were literally just debating if we should have any sympathy for guys who hit 30 without ever touching a woman. Honestly? I think it’s hilarious. Your absolute desperation and failure is an absolute turn-on for me. Tell me I’m not the only one addicted to watching this chaos.
45 transwomen, love being a service beta to beautiful superior women 💕
I wanna try it on my f friends but don't know how and what to do help and suggest me if u got any ideas or done it before
It’s been a long and frustrating journey but finally working to embrace my nature. Nobody would suspect me to be a beta, but definitely am naturally sub and like to follow. Finding comfort in serving Alpha males and enriching their lives. Been dabbling in humiliation and being degraded and humiliated by men and women. New goal is to find a gf who‘s into friendzoning and cuckolding me long term. Love feeling denied, humbled, and maybe even pussyfree. Would def be cool to make friends with guys who are beta or Bulls. Lots of people in SoCal so shouldn’t be too hard to find a connection.
I saw a pretty blonde girl at my campus that I knew from my class with a nice pink sport dress along with her bright pink manicured nails. I noticed the matching details as she was sitting at a table with her friend. I breathed and worked up the courage to to walk over and compliment her on her matching look.
I said she looked pretty and matching in that outfit. She looked at me briefly and said thanks and then looked at her nails before going back to her phone and talking with her friend. I stood there awkward not knowing what to say.
She started saying to her friend oh my god why isn't he responding to my messages. Then she looked at me and said sorry I'm trying to get hold of this guy who's supposed to meet up with me tonight... I was a beta afterthought while she pursued the hot guy. I walked away in shame, but later had some excitement in my mind.
Take off the gooner goggles for a second. You’re here because you’re a beta, nothing wrong with that! Not all guys can be alpha men. You get to be friends with women, make them happy, be close with them, and feel useful and valued. Women need attention and emotional support just as much as they need a good sex life with someone else.
I get that it’s hot to degrade yourself but also be gentle. You’re not a fuckup, you’re meant to be a beta, women still need betas in their life too, you’re doing just fine guys. Just keep respecting women and appreciate what you have.
Just wanted to be thankful this community exists. This kink is really special to me and I’m glad I found a place where others love it.
Here’s a brutal one from my glory days in college.
It was a random afternoon when she texted me to come fix her PC (printer connection). Of course, I dropped everything and went straight over like a well-trained dog.
She opened the door wearing just a t-shirt and panties. No bra, no pants. She greeted me casually, then went back to the couch to watch TV. She only got up once to smoke a cigarette by the window. That’s when I took the opportunity to sneak a look at her ass while she wasn’t looking...
I spent the whole time repairing her computer while she chilled half-naked a few meters away. When I finally finished, we talked for maybe 5 minutes… and then her boyfriend showed up.
As I was leaving, I turned around and saw him slap her ass hard right as she was closing the door. The sound followed me down the stairs.
I walked home with a weird mix of horniness, shame, and sadness. Peak friendzone experience.
Hi! so I've made a few posts in the past about my best friend... I'm definitely in the friendzone with her.
since living together, she started being a bit more liberal, lets say, with how she treats me and our friendship. she started being more obvious about me doing chores for her. at first she would just throw her dirty socks, sometimes panties, at my door from her room and expect me to wash them. then it was just asking me to do her laundry if she was at her boyfriends, like if she needed one specific thing washing. after that she would just put her laundry basket outside my door!
I started cleaning her room as well, one time I just did it while she was at home with her family. she seemed to really like it now whenever she wants her room cleaned she'll just hint at it by saying that her rooms a mess or she'll just sleep in my room because her room is too untidy.
making her teas, cooking food, and washing dishes are a regular thing as well. now we've moved into a house where we don't have a dishwasher, she hasn't cleaned a single plate or utensil! I'll often cook her food alongside my own, if she doesnt want what im having I'll either just have what she wants or make both.
now we've moved into this new house like I said, i feel like things have been a bit different... we have rooms right next to each other, walls are kinda thin but not too bad (older british housing am I right lol). for context, she made it official with this guy who seems nice, and she's been very open to me about their sex (not going into detail here, that wouldn't be right!), yknow as she often talks to me about that stuff.
when we moved in a week ago, she said how her bed was right up against my wall, and then said to me how it'd be a good idea if I put my bed against the wall. I did it, no questions asked, she just kept saying how fun it would be if she needed me and I would literally just be on the other side of the wall. then she preemptively apologised if she "gets a little loud" sometimes... then when I said I'll just go downstairs or put my headphones on she just said "don't be silly" and that I didn't need to do that.
a lot of the friendzone part of our friendship is more like unspoken rules. so even though sometimes she'll just hint at me doing chores for her, like saying her bedroom is a mess, or asking me to wash just one item of clothing, she'll be meaning for me to just do it. being her best friend and knowing her well, she isn't always the most direct person... I'm wondering what if she wants me to hear her? is this a newer stage of our friendzoned friendship?
Any fellow pathetic losers want to chat? Would love to meet other people like me :). Message me!
I've been her beta for some time since my last relationship ended and as it's evolved become utterly submissive to her.
Literally her servant, doing her housework, getting anything she needs, kneeling there begging to serve her and worse. I've actually pledged not to date anyone else and remain pussy free for her. She occasionally lets me engage in masturbation as she watches me on my knees and I thank her for the privilege.
The other week it went a bit further as I dressed up to do my chores as she wanted me in a maids outfit, I knelt there begged to do her housework and I was rock hard.
So i was talking to this hot chick i recently became friends with. I asked her what kind of guys she is into and we ultimately started talking about dick sizes. She was bold about it and literally said "size matters" and that she wants at least a 7 incher guy even though her ex was 6.6 inches.
I asked her what is a small size according to you and she said 5 (I'm 4 inches btw 🫣)
She then asked me, "what's your size?" and i avoided the question by saying, "that's a secret 🤫".
Idk what she thought about it but she said, "take a look at this “ and showed me her dick pic gallery on her Reddit All big like she said.
I was friend zoned even worse
I almost dodged a bullet! (though she already has kinda friendzoned me 🫠)
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I hope it fits in this sub.
She was fit, long brown hair, perky boobs and such a juicy ass. We broke up because I couldnt trust her and she used sex to manipulate me. I did good by her BJ. I was a pain in ass, she wasnt in the mood. Nice vacation anal etc.
I remember during a fight i couldnt stop thinking how bouncy her ass was. Now know why
She cheated on me multiple time but still I stayed. One time, she told me she saw her ex in the morning, i was pissed but she acted cute and we end up fucking. While she was on top of me I told she was a cheating whore. She looked at me and said "yeaaaaah" with a grin.
I was a mess after the breakup and started to watch a lot of porn and at some point I found her on a plateform. A giy I didnt know was pounding her in doggy, slapping her ass, she was moaning it sent shock wave through my body. I got so hard. I was still pissed at her for lying all this time. But i jerked off to her. I looped this video again and again. I ended up edging for her.
I feel so pathetic but so turned on Idk where im at anymore.
Maybe i needed to get this off my chest.
My bestie texted me that a guy approached her and they gonna meet up sometims later. I almost immediately replied what did he say, how did he approach etc. It has been 2 hours but she has not seen them yet 😭 she might be busy i understand but it makes me sad. Actually the moment she said that a guy approached her, I felt bad. Idk why 😭 ik she is never gonna see me romantically still I feel bad when a guy approaches her and they talk. I hope she tells me quick what they talked.
I’m wondering if friendzoned guys desperately wish they were more like Alpha men, or if they’re more content with their place in the hierarchy, and accepting of what they get. I get this sub is more kink based so answers might be skewed here, but just curious.
My partner recently pointed out that the main reason my social circle is heavily male-dominated is due to my attractive looks and my unapologetic, dominant attitude, which made me realize how much I genuinely enjoy keeping these guys entirely platonic while subtly making them watch me gush over my relationship. Whenever a guy friend tries to cross the line by planning a suggestive hangout or dropping a flirty comment, I instantly shut the behavior down by bragging about how incredible my boyfriend is and how no other man could ever compete with him. One specific guy in my group has completely embraced this passive, secondary role, to the point where he regularly sends me social media clips highlighting how perfect my relationship is and calling me a powerful woman who commands her boyfriend. I find this level of compliance incredibly amusing and wish the rest of my platonic male circle would fall into line like he did, so I am sharing this thoughts to see if anyone has fresh suggestions on how to firmly establish these boundaries and friendzone them even harder.
Sometimes i try to go on two mans with my friend. But he’s a player, taller, more muscular, and far more handsome. So both of the girls usually end up sleeping with him at once and I’m usually stuck on the other bed or driving the car while they’re all in the backseat giving him head. The closest I’ve gotten is they’ve let me watch him have two girls riding him on Halloween night after the bar. But sometimes I just get kicked out. They just laugh at me and call me the gbf. Any other betas experience this? Anyone want to hear stories.
So awhile ago I posted about how I couldn't get over my ex and I was her simp for life. Last night I once again told her I was in love but I accepted I was never going to be anything but a little brother to her.
She hugged me and told me she was so happy I accepted it because she has 0 interest in me sexually or romantically. Then she actually gave me head pats. I felt my little dick throb.
I actually went home and came to fucking head pats.
Initial post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FriendzoneBetas/s/PGiQr4BBDZ
There’s nothing quite like the thrill of having a guy completely under my control utterly devoted, eager to please, and willing to do anything to make me happy, no matter how selfish or cruel I am. I love the rush of commanding men and watching them obey like desperate little pets.The best ones are the ones so starved for my attention that they’ll spoil me, pamper me, and cater to my every whim without complaint. I adore keeping them addicted by switching between sweet and cold, giving them just enough affection to keep them hooked and desperate for more.Honestly, nothing beats being a hot girl who knows exactly how to string along weak, obsessed boys for my own entertainment.