r/FriendzoneBetas

I have blonde friend who’s very pretty and chill with me. But there are times when I get really horny and think about her with an alpha man who will please the hell out of her. She’s really into black guys so there’s definitely no chance I’ll even get near her like that. It’s gotten to a point where I’m just looking at photos of us together and I’ll fuck myself with a big black dildo while being in a chastity cage. I feel so pathetic, but at the same time, I get so turned on by it. Ughhh

Anyone find this popular story fascinating. A powerful woman politician beta cucks her husband. She goes around sleeping with other high status men while her sissy husband stays at home and wanks.

I hate her views and what she does but I find this fantasy amusing.

Well, I got a girl I have a huge crush on. We did hit it off in the beginning, making out a lot but no sex. She always said that we will someday and she just doesn't "feel" it yet.

A while ago chatting and meetups died down drastically, she said she had a lot to do for her studies.

Last time I visited her, I only got a glimpse at her bedroom (in the past we would usually sit on her bed, but that time it was somehow off limits), and there were two used wine glasses and two empty bottles...

I asked her if she had company (thinking maybe her best friend) and she said that a guy from her course is sleeping over after class on some days, as his drive home is over two hours.

She then added that he's just some shy guy and not very attractive.

Two weeks later we meet for coffee and she's talking about him, funny stuff they were doing at the university and that he takes her to the gym now.

About three weeks later (again almost no chatting) she talks about how handsome he is. Then smiled sheepishly and says "and he's got a big one".

We usually talk very openly about sexual stuff, you should know.

And now we again meet more often, but she's always talking about the ways they are fucking. She even started to enjoy anal with him, it's part of their routine - which was a no-go when we talked about it.

I can't stop listening to her talking about how she gets fucked. Especially when she talks about how he fucks her ass.

I have a gf since a few months ago. I thought that having sex regularly and having someone i love (because i love her so much) would make me stop being a beta, but no. I still have crushes on a few girls that friendzoned me before i managed to start dating my gf, i still jerk off to them frequently and they still do whatever they want with me (from homework to little favours).

I don't know if i should even try to fight it or just embrace it and accept that i will be their little simp for life, even tho i have an actual gf.

I still jerk off and simp over her on IG. I wonder if she’s seeing/hooking up with someone in the side.

Long story short, I asked my crush out and surprisingly, she said yes!! We've been dating for about 3 months now and in terms of a normal relationship, everything is going fine.

However we recently had sex for the first time and it is safe to say I could not satisfy her. Maybe it's because I'm out of touch, but she couldn't even feel me very well inside of her. I noticed I couldn't stay very hard for much long either. We tried a few positions, I tried going in and out, and resetting, but nothing ended up feeling good for her so after a while she just asked me stop and we watched a movie instead.

It's just an interesting experience I wanted to share with y'all to point out how a beta will always remain a beta no matter the situation. I thought getting a girlfriend and not being a virgin would change things. But being in a relationship doesn't change the fact that you and I are still a beta. I have realized we are fundamentally inferior sexually, and it will always be that way.

My name is Kyle and I’ve been in the friendzone with my best friend Kim for six years now and any time I ask her out or make an advance she shoots me down and keeps me as her best friend where she wants me. She knows I’m a complete virgin and think I’m waiting for marriage when in reality I don’t want or talk to other girls because I’m loyal to her. I want to know how I can be a better beta and simp for her and let her know that she can take advantage of that.

As the title states I’m 30 and still virgin mainly because the one woman I’m interested in who is also my best friend has denied me multiple times and I’d rather have nothing if it can’t be her. Her name is Kim and she’s 27 and nerdy and amazing and I just want to know all the ways I can let her know that I’d just like to be her beta bestie and simp and do anything that would make her happy and help me and her realize I’m just meant to be a beta. I always wonder what it would be like to be inside a woman but I doubt she’ll ever let me find out

Enjoying friendship with an older lady, I made her coffee this one day and brought it in and knelt presenting it to her. She said that she enjoyed me doing that and I had an erection.

That become a regular thing and she I noticed started asking for me to do more for her, I agreed doing housework and such like.

Well we are sat watching TV and she asks me if I get turned on doing chores for her, I nod a bit embarrassed and she says she thinks it would be fun if I asked if I could serve her.

So I end up on my knees and start to ask and she then says she wants me to do it properly, tells me to undress and I can give her a foot massage as well.

So I'm sat there and pledged myself to belong to her with an erection as I massaged her feet.

She enjoyed it as did I being erect and had me sit by her and suggested I masturbate myself and she only wants me to cum when I am seeing her by hand. I did that and had one of the most intense orgasms ever

Everyone here is like, “should I tell her who I am”. If you don’t think she’ll be into the label , just continue the relationship in that direction by being there for her and giving her everything while asking for nothing in return.

But a lot of you guys would be surprised to find that your friends would love to have you in that position. It’ll be like just telling them there’s a name for the dynamic that you’ve already have established.

I can’t speak for every woman, but I absolutely love this dynamic!

Yesterday i drove my best friend crush and her bf who she is in love now to the airport. They called me to their appartment and told me to take their bags to the car. I did like loser then i don't know what happened i opened the car door for them. Her bf commented "he is getting better". Then on the way my crush kept telling him how excited she is for the trip while i heard them smooching and moaning. Then i opened the door for them once we reached the airport. I took out all the bags while they stood holding each others arms. I felt like a pathetic slave loser. Now i am watching her insta stories ppsing with her bf at the beach lying with each other in bikini while i am kissing and licking my phone and jerking off to her meanwhile they are ravishing each other bodies

But proud to be useful for my crush

Of course that many of them are dating, and we envy the better man that they have; Specially e-girls, usually hide the fact that they are dating, or marriage.

But there are lots of famous people (specially small or big celebrities), who just pass years without having a "official" bf/gf, so we can probably deduce that they are just having fun, going out and having sex with a lot of people all the time.

You probably know what Im talking about: those extremely sexy people who treat "jerking off" as something weird and gross; Becaus ethey almost never do that, and every time they want to get some, they just go out and get some; They just call a fuck-budies, or a fwb, or just have a one-night-stands...

They have so much, and we so little; we were not made for this privilege life...

One of my earliest and strongest Friendzone Beta experiences came from a girl I had a huge crush on. I finally asked her out, and she told me directly that she liked someone else, but gave me the classic line: “I really don’t want this to affect our friendship.”

Of course, I agreed. I wanted to stay close to her badly enough that I accepted whatever role she was willing to give me.

The moment that really stuck with me happened shortly after. We used to hug whenever we saw each other. The next time I saw her, I went to hug her, and she lightly scolded me:

“I hug you. You don’t hug me.”

That should have embarrassed me. It did embarrass me. But it also made my heart race in a way I didn’t understand at the time. It felt like she had quietly rewritten the rules between us. I was still close to her, but now it was on her terms.

After that, the dynamic shifted more and more. She started expecting little acts of service from me. Paying for things when we went out. Dropping my own plans if she called last minute. Being available when she wanted attention, reassurance, or company.

She would flirt just enough to keep me hopeful, then remind me we were “just friends.” She would tell me about guys she liked, dates she went on, and how excited she was about other men. It hurt, but I kept listening because being useful to her still felt better than being nothing to her.

The part that really shaped me was how much control she had over my confidence. If I mentioned another girl I liked, she would find a way to discourage me. Sometimes she would say the girl liked someone else. Sometimes she would say something like, “You can try, but she’s kind of out of your league.” Then, if I got rejected, she wanted every detail.

Looking back, I think that was the blueprint. Being wanted close, but not wanted romantically. Being useful, available, teased, and quietly put in my place. It left a mark.

We eventually drifted apart after leaving for college, but the feeling never really left me. Since then, I’ve found myself chasing that same dynamic: wanting to be friendzoned, used as emotional support, teased, denied, and kept in that humiliating almost-but-never-enough position.

Over time, the fantasy has grown into something much stronger: simping, emotional sadism, chastity, denial, teasing, humiliation, and being kept as the devoted beta friend who never quite gets chosen.

Did anyone else have an early friendzone experience that imprinted on them this way? Was there a specific moment where you realized the humiliation itself had become part of the attraction?

I met this cute girl in a college fest. We got a mutual friend so we met again in that friend's house the next day. My friend was busy so we came out together, had a brief chat and we went to another friend's house. We already decided that we gonna hv lunch in a nearby restaurant but a guy joined us from that friend's house.

Now i felt sidelined. I find it hard to fit in a group and it felt like they almost forgot my existence while talking to each other. I most stayed quiet until we reached the restaurant. This time she was beside me and I was pulling out two chairs to sit with her. But the guy said, "we gonna talk more so i need to sit with her." I nodded with a smile and came back to the other side of the table. They talked a lot while eating. I tried to join twice but was unsuccessful bcoz of my meek voice (from the other end of table).

I got friendzoned again (;

Truth be told, usually I’m the one doing the friendzoning but that‘s in gay life. I never had any sexual experiences with women and the thought of being alone with a naked woman almost frightens me.
Recently I get more and more invites of straight couples, however, who suggest starting some sort of threesome fwb but I as a gay bottom obviously couldn’t penetrate anything.
So, I was wondering, if set ups like this would be the ideal way to see a straight couple in action and somehow bond with the girl over this and help the guy out with doing his deed or if set ups like this actually end in disasters…

I've been crushing hard on my best friend for so long now. I've told her multiple times that I'm in love with her, but she never says it back. She just smiles and thanks me. She's super promiscuous and all her girlfriends know how I feel about her.

They love teasing me about it.Every now and then she feels guilty and will make out with me. She's even gotten me off with her hand a couple of times. At the same time she always ends up telling me all the details about her wild sex life.

Sometimes she invites me to her place just so I can watch her hooking up with other girls while I basically serve them both.And I love every second of it.

Oi! Eu tenho lembrado constantemente da minha ex domme! Nos tínhamos um relacionamento aberto; mas so ela poderia ter relações com outros homens, enquanto eu permanecia casto( até hoje sou virgem, rsrsrs!) Eu nunca nem cheguei ver ela nua! Afinal ele diz que eu nao tinha sido bom suficiente para isso. O máximo de um aparte mais " intima" que vi dela, foi o pé. Que por sinal era lindo!

Essas lembranças atualmente, não possui nenhum traço de recentemento. Muito pelo contrário! Estou extremamente satisfeito! Sempre me masturbo pensando nela. Se ela acha que que eu nao sou suficiente para ela, eu aceito. Afinal ela é uma Deusa, faz o que ela quiser. Se eu encontra-se ela, e ela me pedisse alguma tarefa: simplesmente por pedir. Eu faria numa boa, mesmo que ela nao me desses bola.

It feels humiliating and arousing when i think about my bestie's knowledge of my virginity. I'm 25, she being 22 got laid many times! Maybe that's why she doesn't talk much about her sex life. She probably knows I'll jerk off and she probably finds that cringe. She did only when I was helping her to move on from her toxic ex. That's the only time she talked in detail about their intimacy.

I still wonder how it feels to be inside a woman lol.

A few months ago, I met a cute African girl at a festival. We struck up conversation and got pretty close. A few drinks in, it got a bit touchy as she put her hand around my stomach and I kissed her on her neck.

I asked her for her instagram and if she wanted to go on a date. She said it was a bit too early for that, and kept mentioning many times that she really wanted a woke guy. I said something along the lines of supporting some causes. She giggled and said she believed me and gave me her instagram. However, I ended up getting ghosted a few days later.

The interesting part is the posts I saw on her IG recently. She is in the same hot bikini she was wearing that day, but kissing a tall white guy. I ended up stalking him a bit and turns out his twitter posts are the complete opposite of woke. One of his posts were complaining about African immigrants in the country.

I found it hilarious and horny that a guy who doesn’t give a fuck about her and her beliefs is the one she’s most attracted to. I got the hugs and teasing. He gets the pussy and the body. He gets her drooling. I’m here jerking off inagining her doing things to him I could only fantasise about.

I have a friend will ask me for so many favors and I never say no to her. She is so cute and flirty and calls me her best friend and will always tease me about sucking her toes but I always acted grossed out. She has a buff black bf and thy are always getting into fights but she’s kinda intense and says he fucks too good. She will talk about sex casually and leave her cloths everywhere, she made me write her paper for school a few times and is always touching me in a comfortable way but it makes me nervous and I think she knows. I invited her to my place with some friends once for drinks and she brought her bf who I found out from her at a future time fucked her in my bathroom. Whenever she needs anything she calls me and I’ll even drink with her bc her bf ignores her and is always with his own friends once we fell asleep drunk next to each other only for her bf to wake me up and tell me to leave. She said she wants to go on vacation but her bf doesn’t want to drive 5 hours to the location and asked if I can take them so we can explore the city together. I told her yes but I know she just wants a ride. I’m also paying for a third of the hotel we will stay at. I’m open to comments or questions