u/DontEggPress

The whole point of an affair is longevity. I recognise that doesn’t happen in a day or a week but it’s easy to gauge our interest in each other pretty quick. I’ve been on and off here for a while and I’ve met some fantastic women but for reasons beyond our control, it hasn’t really worked out into the sort of partnership I’d want.

You’re someone I want to feel attracted to physically and intellectually. I want you to look forward to my texts as much as I would to yours. Ideally, you’re facing the same issues I am - effectively housemates with your SO and a dead bedroom - and have a predisposition to banter and talking. You’re a mom, try to keep yourself fit, and enjoy healthy debate alongside conversations about the mundane. I want to know what your day is like, what’s annoying tf out of you, and why it would be so much nicer if the two of us could just hang out, get coffee, and imagine a more perfect life.

I’m a confident, tall, and fun dad with an interesting career and loads of interests. Everything from politics and history to 90s cartoons and the heyday of new metal. I’ll keep you entertained, loved and attended to, provided it’s mutual.

No tall claims, just keeping it simple cause something like this shouldn’t feel like a challenge. Hit me up with what you’re reading or listening to at the moment, I’ll look forward to you.

I’ve come to realise that what I’m looking for is a partner who enjoys banter, debate, and smut in equal measure. The whole reason I even find myself here is the lack of intellectual stimulation and a dead bedroom alongside the desire to feel a genuine spark. Judging by my experience here, it’s the same for most others so reach out if it’s consistent conversation you’re looking for to begin with. To be clear, I’m not here to flirt with tens of people, looking to find just one person cause sneaking around is hard enough to begin with.

6’1”, brown, educated, great career, and mostly happy and worry-free. A likeminded and adventurous partner - not that any of our situations will change in the short term - is all I seem to be lacking. So if you’re a working mom who makes an effort to keep yourself mentally and physically agile, we’d likely hit it off. I’d love to do shared reading or runs, heck, in my late 30s those qualify as very meaningful dates especially if we’re not located close to each other.

This was brief cause we’ve all got distractions. Reach out if you’d like to learn more and explore something potentially meaningful.

I’ve come to realise that what I’m looking for is a partner who enjoys banter, debate, and smut in equal measure. The whole reason I even find myself here is the lack of intellectual stimulation and a dead bedroom alongside the desire to feel a genuine spark. Judging by my experience here, it’s the same for most others so reach out if it’s consistent conversation you’re looking for to begin with. To be clear, I’m not here to flirt with tens of people, looking to find just one person cause sneaking around is hard enough to begin with.

6’1”, brown, educated, great career, and mostly happy and worry-free. A likeminded and adventurous partner - not that any of our situations will change in the short term - is all I seem to be lacking. So if you’re a working mom who makes an effort to keep yourself mentally and physically agile, we’d likely hit it off. I’d love to do shared reading or runs, heck, in my late 30s those qualify as very meaningful dates especially if we’re not located close to each other.

This was brief cause we’ve all got distractions. Reach out if you’d like to learn more and explore something potentially meaningful.

I’d think my reasons for being here aren’t very different from yours, somewhere between seeking a spark and curing a dead bedroom. In other words, just a healthy, regular and consistent relationship albeit one that’ll likely be virtual in the short-term if we aren’t located in convenient proximity. This isn’t my first rodeo but I’d like for it to be my last as would you. Experiences here have been mixed to say the least.

Ideally, you’re a mom and at least 30+, educated, working, and mostly content with life barring the universe not having met your expectations in terms of romance and passion. You’re big on conversation and look forward to constant texting and that distraction on a busy day at work. You try take care of yourself physically and intellectually on most days, you’re culturally curious and open, and enjoy banter and the odd debate.

About me - besides all the stuff above - I’m tall, clean-shaven (no beard, that is), have a career I enjoy, and dabble with writing, music, and sport. At this point, I’m glad that I haven’t let myself go and try to be accountable - about 75% of the time - to the image I had of me at 40 as a teen. I’m Indian by origin and currently call the Middle East home although I tend to move every couple of years. Location/timezone isn’t a big deal for me assuming it isn’t for you.

If any of this sounds appealing or even if you’d just like to talk, then hit me up with what you’re reading or listening to now or a fun bit of trivia.

I’d think my reasons for being here aren’t very different from yours, somewhere between seeking a spark and curing a dead bedroom. In other words, just a healthy, regular and consistent relationship albeit one that’ll likely be virtual in the short-term if we aren’t located in convenient proximity. This isn’t my first rodeo but I’d like for it to be my last as would you. Experiences here have been mixed to say the least.

Ideally, you’re a mom and at least 30+, educated, working, and mostly content with life barring the universe not having met your expectations in terms of romance and passion. You’re big on conversation and look forward to constant texting and that distraction on a busy day at work. You try take care of yourself physically and intellectually on most days, you’re culturally curious and open, and enjoy banter and the odd debate.

About me - besides all the stuff above - I’m tall, clean-shaven, have a career I enjoy, and dabble with writing, music, and sport. At this point, I’m glad that I haven’t let myself go and try to be accountable - about 75% of the time - to the image I had of me at 40 as a teen. I’m Indian by origin and currently call the Middle East home although I tend to move every couple of years. Location/timezone isn’t a big deal for me assuming it isn’t for you.

If any of this sounds appealing, then hit me up with what you’re reading or listening to now or a fun bit of trivia.