Cage Hurting/Swelling Me When I Get Erect
I have heard that I need to try “not getting hard” while I am in my cage. That sounds like a good plan until my GF is teasing me & being sexy, then it all goes out the window. Whenever I get hard the cage almost comes off of my penis. I don’t know the exact wording or how to explain it but the cage like protrudes out all funky. The picture attached is not a custom cage and the ring is a little bit too small but the cage itself is almost a perfect fit (while I am completely flaccid). How can I stop this from happening? Is it as simple as “stop getting hard while you’re in a cage” or is that normal? I feel like it is IMPOSSIBLE to not get hard while my beautiful girlfriend is trying her hardest to make me hard. I wouldn’t be too concerned with it but once I am hard like this in bed with my GF, the cage has to come off within about 10-15 minutes because my balls & shaft start turning colors & or going numb. Any suggestions, ideas, or pointing out something I’m missing would be GREATLY appreciated.