u/Drphatkat

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25 [M4A] 22030 - Touch starved femboy looking for cuddles (no sex)

Hiya! This is mainly open to fellow femboys, women, and similar folk; it's hard for me to get comfortable enough to cuddle with masc men (sorry).

Depression has been getting to me, and it has been a while since I've been held. I love touch and cuddles (and have a hypersensitive body), and would love to just relax and cling to someone, either while watching something or just laying down.

For a bit about me: I'm a thin, effeminate guy and (when it's warmer) crossdresser. I have some SFW pics on my profile for those curious. I'm demisexual, so no thank you to sexual advances, I just want to be held and **platonically** touched (if desired, less clothing can be accommodated for more skin contact; just not full nudity). I love headpats and chin scratches as well, and will happily cling to you and provide a soft, light touches across your skin.

I unfortunately cannot host, but I am willing to travel a good ways (just about over an hour) if need be; the closer the better.

I hope to hear from you!

P.S. if I take a bit to respond, I'm probably asleep or otherwise preoccupied, but I will get back to you ASAP!

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u/Drphatkat — 15 hours ago
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Is reverse chivalry a thing?

I (25 M) have scrolled though this sub and have primarily found subjects around either sex or finances. While that's all well and good, I, both single and demisexual, don't want to jump to sex. No, what I want is romance; genuine, lovey-dovey romance. Being someone who is more submissive (not just in the bedroom), however, and as someone who has taken an interest in FLR, I have a burning question: is role-reversed chivalry a thing?

To me, it sounds like a dreamy fantasy. I would absolutely love someone to sweep me off my feet, metaphorically or physically, and treat me like the princess I've dreamed of being (boys/men can be princesses too!). I'd probably cry with joy if a woman knocked on my door with a bouquet and took me out on a date. In return I would give my heart, soul, and devotion to this person, ever eager to follow and make her happy.

The issue is that bringing up the idea, even when theorizing the concept with friends (not to mention potential partners), has gotten it shot down and locked behind gender norms, where I am somehow "less of a man" for having a woman drive while I am in the passenger seat. It has made the whole concept feel impossible to even imagine, and I want to know if it's just a far-fetched fantasy that will never be realized, or if, even if it takes a miracle, it's potentially possible.

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u/Drphatkat — 11 days ago

25 [M4A] 22030 - Demisexual effeminate guy seeking genuine connection with someone local. Friends-to-partners intent (Emphasis on friends first!)

*This post is open to women, fellow femboys, and other similar folk. Masculine men, sorry but no. Chasers will be blocked. If this is still up, I'm still looking! Feel free to reach out!

Hello! I figured I'd give this one last try. I'm seeking someone between 23-34 years old, though that isn't a hard limit. I'll start by giving the most divisive things about me, and then cover some more things in depth. I am a very open and honest person. I do my best to be tactful, but I have AuDHD levels of honesty, and have learned I need very similar in return. As such, what I say is what I mean (barring obvious sarcasm), and I detest lying. Communication is a very big thing for me, and if there is every any issue, please let me know so we can talk about it and not let it fester. I am always open to answer any and all questions, so long as they aren't a security risk (such as my SSN). So, now on to the common traits and hobbies many find less desirable.

I, first and foremost, am monogamous, agnostic, and drug free. I am discomforted by recreational substance use, and dislike the smell. I have no inherent issue with alcohol, though I myself do not drink. I have no problems if you worship, just please don't try to convert me. I am also a hobbyist crossdresser. I am still a cis guy, I just like how dressing makes me feel pretty. I don't dress toooo often, especially during the colder months, but I would like to dress more as time goes on. I am growing out my hair to match this as well, though it's not very long yet. My dressing is not inherently sexual, and my public dressing is not for kink purposes.

The last two divisive things: The first is that my best friend is my ex. We broke up for a reason, so no there aren't any residual feelings or competition, but she does mean a lot to me, and we do go on the occasional trip together. Any partner I may have, as well as my family, obviously have higher priority than her, as it should be. The last thing, and I must stress that this is not going to be relevant for a fair amount of time, but I am sexually submissive (on the gentler side). I won't go into details here, but if you're curious, feel free to ask. It is here I should also note that I tend to be very go-with-the-flow; if you have desires or opinions, especially about smaller decisions, I will happily go with what you want in most scenarios (I will let you know if I do not). I am perfectly fine making decisions, but if you have strong feelings about something, I am more than happy to follow those.

With that out of the way, a bit about me! I am a thin and lanky white guy. I have a degree in mechanical engineering, and as such am a bit nerdy. Quality time and physical touch are the two largest love languages of mine, with the rest ranking in this order: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts (I still like gifts! I just care a lot more about the act and meaning than any material thing). Fun fact: I am hypersensitive to stimuli, including smells, pain, and touch (which amplifies my love for touch, and my disdain for pain).

For my hobbies, I am an avid gamer, amongst other things. I play a lot of titles, from Terraria (my favorite game) and Minecraft to The Binding of Isaac and Left 4 Dead 2, and many more! Board and card games also fall under here, and I have a large collection of them. I play Magic: The Gathering, Dungeons and Dragons, and a spot of Billiards on occasion as well. I also love day hiking (and nature in general), disc golf, and when I can afford it, shopping!

I don't want to make this too long, so I'll leave this off on a few notes: I currently, due solely to the fact that housing is expensive, live with my parents as I pay off my student loans, and we do own two cats. My profile has a few SFW pictures of myself (mainly crossdressing) at various stages in my journey, along with other posts I've made that you're free to check out (note that my hair is slightly different to any current picture at the time of this post). If you've made it all the way to the end here and are either interested and/or have some questions, feel free to message me! I look forward to hearing from you!

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u/Drphatkat — 14 days ago

*This post is open to women, fellow femboys, and other similar folk. Masculine men, sorry but no. Chasers will be blocked. If this is still up, I'm still looking! Feel free to reach out!

Hello! I figured I'd give this one last try. I'm seeking someone between 23-34 years old, though that isn't a hard limit. I'll start by giving the most divisive things about me, and then cover some more things in depth. I am a very open and honest person. I do my best to be tactful, but I have AuDHD levels of honesty, and have learned I need very similar in return. As such, what I say is what I mean (barring obvious sarcasm), and I detest lying. Communication is a very big thing for me, and if there is every any issue, please let me know so we can talk about it and not let it fester. I am always open to answer any and all questions, so long as they aren't a security risk (such as my SSN). So, now on to the common traits and hobbies many find less desirable.

I, first and foremost, am monogamous, agnostic, and drug free. I am discomforted by recreational substance use, and dislike the smell. I have no inherent issue with alcohol, though I myself do not drink. I have no problems if you worship, just please don't try to convert me. I am also a hobbyist crossdresser. I am still a cis guy, I just like how dressing makes me feel pretty. I don't dress toooo often, especially during the colder months, but I would like to dress more as time goes on. I am growing out my hair to match this as well, though it's not very long yet. My dressing is not inherently sexual, and my public dressing is not for kink purposes.

The last two divisive things: The first is that my best friend is my ex. We broke up for a reason, so no there aren't any residual feelings or competition, but she does mean a lot to me, and we do go on the occasional trip together. Any partner I may have, as well as my family, obviously have higher priority than her, as it should be. The last thing, and I must stress that this is not going to be relevant for a fair amount of time, but I am sexually submissive (on the gentler side). I won't go into details here, but if you're curious, feel free to ask. It is here I should also note that I tend to be very go-with-the-flow; if you have desires or opinions, especially about smaller decisions, I will happily go with what you want in most scenarios (I will let you know if I do not). I am perfectly fine making decisions, but if you have strong feelings about something, I am more than happy to follow those.

With that out of the way, a bit about me! I am a thin and lanky white guy. I have a degree in mechanical engineering, and as such am a bit nerdy. Quality time and physical touch are the two largest love languages of mine, with the rest ranking in this order: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts (I still like gifts! I just care a lot more about the act and meaning than any material thing). Fun fact: I am hypersensitive to stimuli, including smells, pain, and touch (which amplifies my love for touch, and my disdain for pain).

For my hobbies, I am an avid gamer, amongst other things. I play a lot of titles, from Terraria (my favorite game) and Minecraft to The Binding of Isaac and Left 4 Dead 2, and many more! Board and card games also fall under here, and I have a large collection of them. I play Magic: The Gathering, Dungeons and Dragons, and a spot of Billiards on occasion as well. I also love day hiking (and nature in general), disc golf, and when I can afford it, shopping!

I don't want to make this too long, so I'll leave this off on a few notes: I currently, due solely to the fact that housing is expensive, live with my parents as I pay off my student loans, and we do own two cats. My profile has a few SFW pictures of myself (mainly crossdressing) at various stages in my journey, along with other posts I've made that you're free to check out (note that my hair is slightly different to any current picture at the time of this post). If you've made it all the way to the end here and are either interested and/or have some questions, feel free to message me! I look forward to hearing from you!

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u/Drphatkat — 19 days ago