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Wife (f30) and me (m34) have been working on expanding our sex life and communication on it. It came up that she likes to watch me masturbate and would love to walk in on me doing it randomly. We also have been discussing porn and porn together which she would also like but she hasn’t and doesn’t watch porn. I don’t think her fantasy of coming in and seeing me jerking includes me watching porn and jerking to other people. Anyone been here or have recommendations? We will be discussing it further on our end but just curious what your experience is.

Anyone have hands on experience with any of the long distance toys? Looking at lelo, we vibe, and lovense. Just something new and fun when one of us is out of town for work! Any other recommendations are welcome too.

Wife has been getting into showing off for me, and this has included sexier daily bras/ panties as well as lingerie for date nights. It really is fun for us and she often comments on my bulge in different types of underwear (I have different types for various level of activity). But was curious what wives would want to see or what husbands wear to "show off". Everybody likes their present wrapped right? Doesn't have to be super functional as it will be in the same nature of special occasion and not worn all day.

Wife and I recently downloaded an app to help us grow our sex life. We are sexually active already but we like trying new things and it seems to bring us together even more exploring new things together. Through the app we have found that there are few things we both would like to try but we aren't sure what our next steps should be? Including masturbating together, watching porn together, and then nudism. We both would like to try having more risky sex in public settings or areas where there is some risk of being seen, as well as trying out a nude beach or resort. This is all new to us and don't know if we should have rules or suggestions on how to start?

We are both in our early 30s me 34m and her 30f. Both in high stress jobs/ business owner, it has really affected my libido and performance. She has an extremely high drive and is always "ready to go". Been dating and sexual for 6years and weren't virgins before that.. overall a healthy and fun sex life with good communication. Getting married and going on a honeymoon and I am worried about being able to have a high enough drive and be able to perform. Would love to be able to give her multiple rounds and multiple times per day at that. I am not the sex machine that I was in my early 20s. I don't have a problem getting it up for the first round or lasting long enough for her that once, but it is a one and done. She has made it known that she is hopeful for more if it happens. Would Viagra be a bad choice for a week of fun? Any other tips for a newly married couple in the bedroom?