r/Marriedmasturbation

Despite my encouragement, T has never been one to indulge in masturbation. She has maintained that “You do it better… It’s not as fun without you… I feel weird about it…” Outside of using a dildo and wand for some final orgasms after sex, I have never seen her masturbate in 20+ years.

All that changed a few weeks back. We bought a new sex toy from our favorite Australian supplier and received a free audio download “Re-claiming your Clitoris”. I asked T if she wanted to try it one night, and she agreed.

We both laid in bed, each with an ear-bud in, and listened to the meditation. It starts with relaxation and breath work, moves in to gentle touch, and eventually to self-pleasure at the listener’s level of desire. The narrator/creator is a sexy sounding Australian woman who is playing along, so to speak, and giving affirmations. 30minutes in all.

T followed along, and it was not long before I heard her moaning with pleasure and furiously rubbing her clit. It was exceptionally hot, and she had a few great orgasms.

Since then, she has “Re-claimed her Clitoris” and is so sexy and free with herself during our connection time. She is nearly as obsessed with and curious about her clit as I am.

I absolutely love and adore this woman as my Wife, and am so proud of her for realizing that she has the right to derive pleasure from her body.

Anyone else have a similar experience to share?

it’s almost over. grab your partner and make the most of it. We are going away for the last week and are looking forward to some play time . What are your plans for the rest of the month and the long weekend?

35 year old male here. Well, I’m exploring this side of Reddit as I can’t stop thinking about last night..I have licked my wife’s ass a few times before, but not like last night. She’s not really into it and she usually draws back some the few times I tried before last night, usually after a few seconds of rimming. The few times I’ve done it, even with her drawing back I’ve gotten rock hard from it and the orgasms after have been unbelievable. Something about that skin on my tongue from that little hole gets me harder than ever. Last night, I was giving her a back and leg massage on the couch and I started kissing all over her back, ass and thighs, not realizing she was already falling asleep. I started licking her ass and after a few seconds I thought..”why is she not drawing back?” In my head I was thinking we were about to get it on and she was really in the mood, but then I looked up and realized she was asleep..so I stopped and left the night sexually deprived. Now, this morning I’m left pondering on if she was awake and enjoying it, and the orgasm that would’ve came afterwards 😖😖

Saturday I mentioned to my wife that I had had the urge to rub her butt earlier that morning but unfortunately she was facing the wrong way. ( This basically means I’m going to masturbate while rubbing her butt. She enjoys the casual participation and is right back asleep). She said you should have woken me up , you know I would be happy to roll over. I said she was sleeping so soundly I didn’t want to bother her that much.

So Sunday morning I was awake early as usual and am reading next to her. When she realized I was awake she rolls over and intentionally pushes her bum in my direction . It doesn’t take me long to get in position and give us both what we are looking forward to.
later Sunday my wife thanked me for getting off next to her.

That was just a nice relaxing Sunday morning .

I'm thinking next time I may lube up my finger and explore her back side a little more and see if she invites me to put it in.

We discovered it few month ago. We love watching each other masturbating. It turn us on quickly. She has never been so hot.... Now as soon she sees me stroking, she loses control. She starts fingering till she wants hardly sex. Really, PIV is no more a must, often we enjoy masturbating till we came. I like so much stroking me while she observes and she fingers herself, making her body full of my cum.

My wife and I were laying out in the sun on our boat in a very quiet cove with no one around. Naked, warm sun, and a lite breeze was the perfect recipe for my wife to want to masturbate with her vibrator.

So she asks me if anyone is around and will I grab her vibrator for her. As I fetch her vibrator , I tell her there is a jet skier in the distance but she should be good.

So she gets started and I can’t help but do myself as I stand watch with one eye on her and the other on the jet ski getting closer. By now my wife can clearly hear the guy getting closer but she is too far into it to break away. Now don’t you know that guy came within 10 feet of the back of our boat, with a perfect view straight on my wife’s spread legs with knees up and giving herself a huge orgasm. coincidental or not I don’t know but she came just as he passed by.

After she regained her breath she laughed and said “Well he got an eye full” he sure did.

Many years later this is still one of my favorite memories of her fucking herself and we still enjoy mutual and solo masturbation.

i know i posted this memory before but with so many new members maybe some haven’t seen it.

Anyone else have a got caught type of story to share

What is more exciting, interesting, sexy, fun to you, your own masturbation or your spouses ?

For me I enjoy giving myself a good rub from time to time. the reality though is my wife’s self orgasms are much better to me in every way.

what’s better for you , your or your spouses self pleasure? And why?