What’s up couples? 7-5-26 check in

what’s everyone been up to? We have over 4200 members and growing. If you and your spouse are open to enjoying masturbating together we want to hear from you. How did you start, Have you always done it together or are you new to it? what are some of your favorite things to do together? I’m sure more then a few of us are looking for some new ideas

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u/r67113g1 — 3 days ago

Can you go back?

After over 40 years of using a vibrator and only a vibrator for the last 25 or so, my wife has developed some medical issues.

I'm curious if any woman have been able to successfully transition back to manual orgasms. Another option might be one of the sucker type stimulators . She has tried those in the past but preferred her wand. I’m thinking if the wand is not good option she might have better success.

She is going to see her doctor soon and hopefully figure out what the underlying cause is

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u/r67113g1 — 24 days ago

Toy user question

For those of you that use vibrators and or dildos during partnered play. Who is in control of the toy?

For us , if my wife wants to cum she will be 100 % using her wand on herself with my fingering, nipple sucking assistance . Occasionally if she is really wound up, I will get out a dildo or another vibe and use it on her while she uses her wand on herself

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u/r67113g1 — 25 days ago

For vibrator/ dildo users

for those of you that use vibrators and or dildos during partnered play. Who is in control of the toy?

For us , if my wife wants to cum she will be 100 % using her wand on herself with my fingering, nipple sucking assistance . Occasionally if she is really woundup, I will get out a dildo or another vibe and use it on her while she uses her wand

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u/r67113g1 — 25 days ago

6-7-2026 check-in

We are now over 3700 members. What are your stories, accomplishments, questions, journeys, etc. what are some fun things you did with your spouse last week or plan to do this week?

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

How many wives have had their ass licked?

Did you like it or not like it? Do you now request it or say never again?

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

To those couples that masturbate with each other

Im curious about other couple’s experiences for those that perform mutual masturbation. As time goes by in your marriage do y'all do more less or about the same amount of mutual masturbation?

For us we haven’t had PIV sex in quite awhile. It’s all about mutual masturbation and other forms of outtercourse. This is due to a number of factors most relating to our age and the fact we have always had a good and honest relationship with our masturbation together and solo.

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

As time goes on

Im curious about other couple’s experiences for those that perform mutual masturbation. As time goes by in your marriage do y'all do more less or about the same amount of mutual masturbation?

For us we haven’t had PIV sex in quite awhile. It’s all about mutual masturbation and other forms of outtercourse. This is due to a number of factors most relating to our age and the fact we have always had a good and honest relationship with our masturbation together and solo.

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

As time goes on

Im curious about other couple’s experiences. As time goes by in your marriage do y'all do more less or about the same amount of mutual masturbation?

For us we haven’t had PIV sex in quite awhile. It’s all about mutual masturbation and other forms of outtercourse. This is due to a number of factors most relating to our age and the fact we have always had a good and honest relationship with our masturbation together and solo.

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

5/31/2026 check in

This is it, the last day of International Masturbation Month. The end shouldn’t diminish you good times with your partner, but it may give you reason to do something special with your spouse.

We are now over 3600 members. Welcome to our new members. if your new or not, please share with our group anything special, new, tips, challenging or unique about your and your spouse’s relationship with masturbation as a couple.

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

I don’t know where to start

Sometimes when we are getting ready for bed , my wife will say to me” What do you want to do tonight?”

i want to do everything we have ever done, is what goes through my head. I know I have to focus on just a couple of things but it is difficult in a good way.

how do you answer that question?

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

I don’t know where to start

Sometimes when we are getting ready for bed , my wife will say to me” What do you want to do tonight?”

i want to do everything we have ever done, is what goes through my head. I know I have to focus on just a couple of things but it is difficult in a good way.

how do you answer that question?

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

5-24-2026. Checking in

We have some more new members. Thats great. Welcome please share what you and your spouse are up to. As most if not all of you know it’s international masturbation month. I hope all of you are celebrating with your spouse and making the most of it.

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u/r67113g1 — 1 month ago

May is international masturbation month

it’s almost over. grab your partner and make the most of it. This is a great time to share with your SO some special intimate time together.We are going away for the last week and are looking forward to some play time . What are your plans for the rest of the month and the long weekend?

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u/r67113g1 — 2 months ago

May is international masturbation month

it’s almost over. grab your partner and make the most of it. This is a great time to share with your spouse some special intimate time together.We are going away for the last week and are looking forward to some play time . What are your plans for the rest of the month and the long weekend?

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u/r67113g1 — 2 months ago

May is international masturbation month.

it’s almost over. grab your partner and make the most of it. We are going away for the last week and are looking forward to some play time . What are your plans for the rest of the month and the long weekend?

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u/r67113g1 — 2 months ago

What are some new twists you are thinking about suggesting to your spouse?

As for me I love to finger my wife’s ass while she uses her wand on herself. it makes her cum very hard. And we both enjoy me rubbing her butt while I get myself off. So lately I’ve been thinking about suggesting we combine the two and finger her butt while I get myself off.

What are some ideas you are thinking about suggesting to your spouse?

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u/r67113g1 — 2 months ago

What are some new twists you are thinking about trying with your spouse?

As for me I love to finger my wife’s ass while she uses her wand on herself. And we both enjoy me rubbing her butt while I get myself off. So lately I’ve been thinking about suggesting we combine the two and finger her butt while I get myself off.

what new ways are you thinking about trying with your spouse?

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u/r67113g1 — 2 months ago

My wife thanked me

Saturday I mentioned to my wife that I had had the urge to rub her butt earlier that morning but unfortunately she was facing the wrong way. ( This basically means I’m going to masturbate while rubbing her butt. She enjoys the casual participation and is right back asleep). She said you should have woken me up , you know I would be happy to roll over. I said she was sleeping so soundly I didn’t want to bother her that much.

So Sunday morning I was awake early as usual and am reading next to her. When she realized I was awake she rolls over and intentionally pushes her bum in my direction . It doesn’t take me long to get in position and give us both what we are looking forward to.
later Sunday my wife thanked me for getting off next to her.

That was just a nice relaxing Sunday morning .

I'm thinking next time I may lube up my finger and explore her back side a little more and see if she invites me to put it in.

Does anyone else have a similar dynamic?

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u/r67113g1 — 2 months ago