My wife has used a Magic Wand with dildo attachment for well over 25 years. She uses it for pinpoint external use , only occasionally inserting it . so my question is for ladies that have tried the flutter attachment. How did you like it ? would you recommend it?
My wife has used a Magic Wand with dildo attachment for well over 25 years. She uses it for pinpoint external use , only occasionally inserting it . so my question is for ladies that have tried the flutter attachment. How did you like it ? would you recommend it?
I know a lot of men buy their wives toys. I have bought my wife all of hers since we have been married. She had her own before we were together. She has suggested I buy my own but has never surprised me with one. So it just occurred to me, do many wives surprise there husband with a new toy.
What’s everyone up to? We now have over 5300 members and growing.
I am away on business. I’m curious how many times my wife will get herself off while I’m gone. Probably it will be more than she admits to. Ever since I told her I usually only do it while I’m with her she has not been as forthcoming about how often she does it. I’m thinking it’s because she realizes she goes solo much more than myself. I certainly don’t mind in fact I love it and encourage it. She is good typically 2-3 times a week solo vs myself 2-3 times a month next to her.
Do you remember the first time you masturbated with your spouse? What led up to it? Did one of you just start or was there a conversation about it first?
For us I don’t remember the actual first time we did it(over 30 years ago) But I remember the conversation. Very early on dating, I asked my wife to never feel like she had to fake an orgasm. If she wasn’t feeling it , it’s ok. She responded with well I’m going to need a vibrator to cum.
We went to a sex shop the next date and bought her one for my house.
Why do so many couples tend to hide and or feel the need to keep masturbation private? I don’t get it. My wife and I have been together over 30 years and have always been open and excepting of it. We both do it solo and together. It seems to me couples that hide it or keep it private are missing out on a part of their spouses sexual personalty and or hiding their own.
Whats your view? And why?
what’s up couples? We are now over 5200 members. So newbies, what are you and your spouse doing together in the world of mutual masturbation. This of course can take on a lot of different forms. i imagine some of you have routines together and others change it up regularly. What are some of your best memories together? What do you go back to because it is so comfortable for the two of you. What do you recommend that might be a little different? Let’s hear your stories
I love it every time my wife gets herself off. So occasionally, when one of us asks what do you want to do tonight. I say I just want you to use your vibrator and get off. My wife will usually say Ok thats easy and does her thing. I will hold her and when asked assist with fingering and or sucking as she requests.
Anyone else enjoy something similar?
I love it every time my wife gets herself off. So occasionally, when one of us asks what do you want to do tonight. I say I just want you to use your vibrator and get off. My wife will usually say Ok thats easy and does her thing. I will hold her and when asked assist with fingering and or sucking as she requests.
Anyone else enjoy something similar?
last night my wife suggested we take the morning and have a masturbation session. I’m really looking forward to sharing her orgasm with her. I enjoy her fucking herself as much as she does.
is anyone else planing a session with their spouse this morning?
Background, My wife and I are older. We have always been open about masturbation. we do it tiger and silo regularl. But lately our timing has been off. My wife and I don’t have missed matched libidos , we have missed matched sleep schedules. I go to bed earlier than she does and get up much earlier. We are both morning masturbators lately. Mine is next to her early and her session is after I go to work .( side note she told me she forgot the maid was coming and almost got caught, last week.. ) . Last night she mentioned she was happy I was cuming more next to her. Then we talked a little about or sleep schedules and needing to better align so we can better share it with each other.
I know a lot of couples schedule sex. How many of you schedule mutual masturbation?
We are over 4800 members now . So what are you and your spouse up to?
My wife and I don’t have missed matched libidos , we have missed matched sleep schedules. I go to bed earlier than she does and get up much earlier. We are both morning masturbators lately. Mine is next to her early and her session is after I go to work .( side note she told me she forgot the maid was coming and almost got caught, last week.. ) . Last night she mentioned she was happy I was cuming more next to her. Then we talked a little about or sleep schedules and needing to better align so we can better share it with each other.
I know a lot of couples schedule sex. How many of you schedule mutual masturbation?
Friday morning I was up early as usual and feeling in the mood. My wife likes me to wake her up to be involved. So before my shower I came back to bed. Gently work her up and asked her to roll over so I could cum at her back door. As she went to the bathroom I got started. Once back I applied lotion to her butt. I be honest it didn’t take me long to cum between her beautiful ass cheeks. After cleaning us up she was quickly back to sleep and I was in the shower, then off to work.
latter that morning my wife texted me a “ thinking about you” . That is her code for I’m about to get myself off or she just did. Later she expressed it was a very nice morning.
if you and your spouse are open about masturbation with each other join us at r/marriedmasturbation . We are over 4600 members and would love to hear what you and your spouse are up to
Friday morning I was up early as usual and feeling in the mood. My wife likes me to wake her up to be involved. So before my shower I came back to bed. Gently work her up and asked her to roll over so I could cum at her back door. As she went to the bathroom I got started. Once back I applied lotion to her butt. I be honest it didn’t take me long to cum between her beautiful ass cheeks. After cleaning us up she was quickly back to sleep and I was in the shower, then off to work.
latter that morning my wife texted me a “ thinking about you” . That is her code for I’m about to get myself off or she just did. Later she expressed it was a very nice morning.
if you and your spouse are open about masturbation with each other join us at r/marriedmasturbation . We are over 4600 members and would love to hear what you and your spouse are up to
What is everyone up to? We are up to 4600 members. Welcome to all the new couples enjoying masturbation openly with their spouse.
Friday morning I was up early as usual and feeling in the mood. My wife likes me to wake her up to be involved. So before my shower I came back to bed. Gently work her up and asked her to roll over so I could cum at her back door. As she went to the bathroom I got started. Once back I applied lotion to her butt. I be honest it didn’t take me long to cum between her beautiful ass cheeks. After cleaning us up she was quickly back to sleep and I was in the shower, then off to work.
latter that morning my wife texted me a “ thinking about you” . That is her code for I’m about to get myself off or she just did. Later she expressed it was a very nice morning
So last night after a few glasses of wine my wife suggest I could watch porn with her, but then she said she wasn’t sure if she wanted to actually see it or just be with me while I watch it. Since my wife doesn’t /hasn‘t watched porn I’m not sure what she is really expecting. I’m thinking this is something she and a girlfriend came up with. The only porn I would really enjoy watching is mature, amateur woman masturbating.
Im curious if any other couples are together when one is watching and the other is just listening and or there for support? I just not sure what this dynamic would be like but I’m very interested in trying it, but want to avoid any pitfalls.
So last night after a few glasses of wine my wife suggest I could watch porn with her, but then she said she wasn’t sure if she wanted to actually see it or just be with me while I watch it. Since my wife doesn’t /hasn‘t watched porn I’m not sure what she is really expecting. I’m thinking this is something she and a girlfriend came up with. The only porn I would really enjoy watching is mature, amateur woman masturbating.
Im curious if any other couples are together when one is watching and the other is just listening and or there for support? I just not sure what this dynamic would be like but I’m very interested in trying it, but want to avoid any pitfalls.
Welcome newbies. we are up to over 4500 members. this is the sub to talk about, ask questions about, tell your latest accomplishments relating to mutual couples masturbation and or your solo activities that are shared with your spouse.
So what’s happening out there? Anything new and or different this past week? Do you have any special plans for the coming weeks?
just curious what other couples are using or not using.
As for us I rarely use toys. if I do it is some type of prostate massager. My wife is a Magic wand Queen. When we play together or she is solo, it’s her and her wand 100% of the time. She will use her fingers and or mouth on her nipples. If I’m with her I may use a second vibrator or dildo and or finger her.
As I’m writing and thinking about this, My wife has more interesting variations than I do.
what about y’all?
We are up over 4300 members. what’s going on out there? What have you and your spouse been up to?