ROMANTIC DINNER BY THE BEACH?

Anyone ever done this? We're dirty vanilla (exhibitionists/voyeurs/nudists) who like public play and chatting up other couples in our chill time. I've heard the other dinner for more than one couple is lame and overpriced. And we did the sushi on a naked lady thing once and were not really impressed. But the idea of chilling on a beach at sunset (what remains of the beaches) for a private two person dinner sounds nice. Could anyone who has done it enlighten us on what this entails?

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u/EggmanIAm — 5 days ago

ROMANTIC DINNER BY THE BEACH?

Anyone ever done this? We're dirty vanilla (exhibitionists/voyeurs/nudists) who like public play and chatting up other couples in our chill time. I've heard the other dinner for more than one couple is lame and overpriced. And we did the sushi on a naked lady thing once and were not really impressed. But the idea of chilling on a beach at sunset (what remains of the beaches) for a private two person dinner sounds nice. Could anyone who has done it enlighten us on what this entails?

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u/EggmanIAm — 5 days ago

ROMANTIC DINNER BY THE BEACH?

Anyone ever done this? We're dirty vanilla (exhibitionists/voyeurs/nudists) who like public play and chatting up other couples in our chill time. I've heard the other dinner for more than one couple is lame and overpriced. And we did the sushi on a naked lady thing once and were not really impressed. But the idea of chilling on a beach at sunset (what remains of the beaches) for a private two person dinner sounds nice. Could anyone who has done it enlighten us on what this entails?

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u/EggmanIAm — 5 days ago

Membership Questions

I saw the drama not too long about about the owners bait and switching/changing terms for beneficiaries, etc (various OPs descriptions, not mine). How has the membership changed, if at all, thus far into 2026? We’re looking at returning in winter but are on the fence about stay and play, memberships, contracts, etc.
Any bets on this from the recent debacle regarding benefits, contracts, etc that could enlighten us?

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u/EggmanIAm — 6 days ago

Membership Questions

I saw the drama not too long about about the owners bait and switching/changing terms for beneficiaries, etc (various OPs descriptions, not mine). How has the membership changed, if at all, thus far into 2026? We’re looking at returning in winter but are on the fence about stay and play, memberships, contracts, etc.
Any bets on this from the recent debacle regarding benefits, contracts, etc that could enlighten us?

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u/EggmanIAm — 6 days ago

Memberships Question

I saw the drama not too long about about the owners bait and switching/changing terms for beneficiaries, etc (various OPs descriptions, not mine). How has the membership changed, if at all, thus far into 2026? We’re looking at returning in winter but are on the fence about stay and play, memberships, contracts, etc.
Any vets on this from the recent debacle regarding benefits, contracts, etc that could enlighten us?

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u/EggmanIAm — 6 days ago

Smart Glasses / Influencers

Illicit videos taken by influencers at lifestyle resorts going viral

I am seeing a rise in social video content created at lifestyle resorts by influencers, often claiming to "accidentally" have booked a hotel with a bunch of swingers. Sometimes they admit it's an actual swingers resort. Other times they pretend swingers took over their vanilla hotel (but those in the know recognize the background).

They often show faces of all the guests at the resorts, but blur/crop the nudity so their content doesn't get removed by the platform (of course I doubt they are blurring the nudity if they are sharing them elsewhere). These videos are frequently going viral due to the vanilla curiosity of the lifestyle and the places we like to spend our time. Unfortunately, this means that outing someone is almost certain (if that's not one of the intended purposes all along, seeing as they dont blur faces).

A PSA for attendees of these resorts: watch closely for hidden cameras, meta glasses, clip on action cameras, and people filming from windows or balconies of rooms.

The resorts seem to be doing nothing to get the content taken down, and that will ultimately be their demise if they dont figure it out soon. I've even seen Temptation (granted, the Diet Coke of swinger resorts) commenting positively on a video despite it being taken against their own rules. A different video taken at Temptation from a balcony zoomed in on the face of every topless woman in the pool. The video had \~50,000 likes (meaning an estimated 500,000 to 1,000,000 views). The user was at a bachelor party and had no idea he had "ended up at a swingers resort."

In many jurisdictions, there is no legally enforceable expectation to privacy when you are out of your room at swinger takeovers or resorts. Being nude in a public place often negates any revenge porn claims that may have otherwise been possible. Usually, only the event or resort has a means of going after these people.

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https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/s/4RUQxWJLxY

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u/EggmanIAm — 11 days ago