u/EleanorRigby79

Someone recently brought this up, as a kink: "I like when people are mean to me in a nice way." At first I thought it sounded ridiculous, but then I realized they meant things like playful teasing, sarcastic compliments, fake annoyance, and roasting each other without any actual malice. (Think Enemies2Lovers…my book girlies will get it)

However there is the flip side of this: "I like when people are nice to me in a mean way." Like someone who's blunt, grumpy, or acts annoyed, but quietly goes out of their way to take care of you. (Think Grumpy/Sunshine…my book girlies will get it)

Do you have one that you prefer?

Today's letter is [K]

We are working through the ABCs of kink. Drop something in the comments that relates to the pleasure Dom/sub dynamic that starts with this letter.

This could be something you would like to learn more about, or something that you have tried and want to share, or something that you know about that you think would be interesting to everyone else.

Also if you are new here, check out our previous topics on the ABCs of kink mega thread pinned on the top of the page.

So I missed posting this morning, so hopefully there are some of you still on this evening.

First and foremost, I want to welcome our new moderator KDS. We are so glad to have you here!

As I sit here in my jammies after my everything shower, I thought it would be fun to ask everybody what you were to bed. Are you a jammies person? Do you sleep in the buff? Do you have a nighty that you prefer? Share with the group what do you wear to bed?

I am a Jammie girl. I jumped on board to the pajama set train on TikTok. IYKYK.

I'm up late and thinking a late night voice note edition would be fun. Of course you can contribute when you wake up as well.

So this week's prompt is "what is your guilty pleasure?" I want a SFW and a NSFW version.

Let's hear them in your sultry or sexy voices.

Today's letter is [J]

We are working through the ABCs of kink. Drop something in the comments that relates to the pleasure Dom/sub dynamic that starts with this letter.
This could be something you would like to learn more about, or something that you have tried and want to share, or something that you know about that you think would be interesting to everyone else.

Also if you are new here, check out our previous topics on the ABCs of kink mega thread pinned on the top of the page.

Happy Father’s Day to all the Daddy’s out there!

And I know this is a day for Dad’s with kids, but it could also be a day to celebrate your Daddy Dom.

Subs: What do you do to make your Dom feel special?

Doms: what would you like?

* picture is irrelevant. It’s just there for click bait. 😉

All right kiddos,

It’s voice note time! This week I’d love to hear about something that you find attractive that other people would just think is totally innocent. So many things come to my brain and I will post them on my voice note below. What are yours?

Today's letter is [I]

We are working through the ABCs of kink. Drop something in the comments that relates to the pleasure Dom/sub dynamic that starts with this letter.

This could be something you would like to learn more about, or something that you have tried and want to share, or something that you know about that you think would be interesting to everyone else.

Also if you are new here, check out our previous topics on the ABCs of kink mega thread pinned on the top of the page.

Hello all,

Here is a fun discussion topic. What is your favorite toy? Please also share how you use it if you feel comfortable. Do you use it alone or with your partner? Do you always use it or just sometimes?

Hello all my little frisky kitties, 

This Voice Note is going to be a bit different. Hopefully, this one is going to be fun and makes some toes curl. 

Step 1: Below I want you to type out the ONE word someone can say to you to instantly make you melt? Keep it frisky and flirty.

Step 2:  Now, browse the words the other members have shared, pick one (or several) and record yourself saying that word, and drop the voice note as a reply to their comment.

*trying this again as my first attempt at posting this didn't have the instructions.

Good morning my cherry little sunflowers 🌻

It’s voice time. And I actually remembered on the right day!

So for this week, similar to this Sunday Morning Musings, I want to hear about your bucket list. Tell us what's the most achievable thing on your bucket list, and what's the wildest dream on it?

This could be anything, it could be SFW or NSFW. Is this something you are working on? Or maybe this is something that feels unachievable but you still can’t get it out of your head.

I can’t wait to hear from everybody. Here is mine: https://voca.ro/131GaitjZhHd

Today's letter is [H]

We are working through the ABCs of kink. Drop something in the comments that relates to the pleasure Dom/sub dynamic that starts with this letter.

This could be something you would like to learn more about, or something that you have tried and want to share, or something that you know about that you think would be interesting to everyone else.

Also if you are new here, check out our previous topics on the ABCs of kink mega thread pinned on the top of the page.

Good morning my cunning little foxes,

How was your week this week? What do you have planned for the upcoming week? My week was full of changes and the possibility of new exciting adventure adventures.

I also got to cross something off my bucket list yesterday, which made me very happy.

What’s on your bucket list that is attainable that you would like to accomplish? This could be SFW or NSFW.

Hello my Chaos Racoons 🦝

I know, I know... these usually happen on Thursday. But life gets in the way sometimes, so we're doing a special Flirty Friday edition this week.

This week's prompt:
"What's something someone could whisper in your ear that would completely ruin your ability to think straight?"

I have so many to come to mind that it’s gonna be hard to narrow it down to just one or two. What are yours? Or perhaps on the flipside, what have you whispered in somebody’s ear that’s made them turned to jelly?

Take it wherever your mind goes and share your answer in a voice note below. Don’t be shy, we are looking forward to hearing what everyone comes up with.

Here is mine: https://voca.ro/115yXXZCVr65

Today's letter is [G]

We are working through the ABCs of kink. Drop something in the comments that relates to the pleasure Dom/sub dynamic that starts with this letter.

This could be something you would like to learn more about, or something that you have tried and want to share, or something that you know about that you think would be interesting to everyone else.

Also if you are new here, check out our previous topics on the ABCs of kink mega thread pinned on the top of the page.

Good morning my lovelies . I hope everybody is having a wonderful Sunday morning, and possibly enjoying a bit of this long weekend.

Tell me a goal you would like to accomplish this week. It could be something in your work, life, or your home life, or your bedroom life what is something that you wanna do?

For me I’m looking towards getting back into the gym after a medical procedure and starting to feel more like myself again.

Good morning my little Care Bears ,

For this week’s voice note prompt I want to know what is one thing someone did that instantly made you feel safe, wanted, or genuinely understood? This doesn’t necessarily need to be from a dynamic, it can be from a friendship, a relationship, or just a random moment that stuck with you.

And feel free to comment on the other direction, how do you make somebody feel safe, wanted or understood?

Need a little inspiration? You could talk about:
• The way someone listened without interrupting.
• A check in text that came at the right time.
• Being given clear guidance when you felt overwhelmed.
• Someone remembering a small detail about you.
• A moment where you felt chosen, not just tolerated.

We’d love to hear about these moments.

Today's letter is [F]

We are working through the ABCs of kink. Drop something in the comments that relates to the pleasure Dom/sub dynamic that starts with this letter.

This could be something you would like to learn more about, or something that you have tried and want to share, or something that you know about that you think would be interesting to everyone else.

Also if you are new here, check out our previous topics on the ABCs of kink mega thread pinned on the top of the page.

Hello, all my beaming rays of sunshine. I hope your Sunday morning has started off well.

Did you have anything wonderful happen to you last week? Maybe a new meetup or a new scene that you and your Dom/sub played out. Or maybe just a new connection that you are looking forward to exploring more?

Are you new to this page? If so, swing by and say hi!

The weather where I live is warming up so I’m spending as much time outside as possible. Including night games at the ballpark. What fun things have you done?