u/Electronic_Cycles

I’m intrigued. There’s a lot of exciting infidelity going on here. How do you carry on while also maintaining your main relationship? Do you love your significant others? Would you leave them if you could or do you just want to cheat? How do you look them in the eye after you’ve done the deed?

For me it’s fairly straightforward. I compartmentalize my cheating from my everyday life, but I know it’s not like that for everyone. How do you maintain thing?

So we are all a bunch of cheaters here with lots of different experiences, arrangements and side peeps. Assuming that many of our APs and fwbs know that we are cheating I know that there will be some amount of encouragement and support.

But who else knows? Do you confide in friends that you are unfaithful? Do they judge you? Do they egg you on? Or are you like me with no one to tell but the anonymous forums of Reddit.

I’d love to have a friend who I can confess too and share hot stories with. Have you got one?

I’m looking for a fun with someone who understands what it is like to be in a marriage that you can’t leave but has lost its spark.

I’m around 6ft, average build, dark greyish hair and green eyes. Discretion is a must. One off or regular welcome. Can’t accommodate at home but open to ideas.

Open to Sheffield and surrounding areas.

This is a long shot but worth a try. I’m looking for a connection, not necessarily physical but open to that, with someone who understands what it is like to be in a marriage that you can’t leave but has lost its spark.

I’m around 6ft, average build, dark greyish hair and green eyes. Discretion is a must. Happy to chat for a bit to see if we click, and happy to stay friends if nothing further develops too.

Open to Sheffield and surrounding areas.

Just a quick one while I have the chance. I had the opportunity to stay over with my AP last night. She just sucked my dick while I was browsing Reddit and thinking of cheating on her and my wife. Life doesn’t get much better

Hello APs and cheatees (rather than cheaters)

My arrangement with my AP is rather specific. She expects exclusivity, and sees it more as a boyfriend/girlfriend arrangement. She doesn’t actually like cheating, but she has sympathy and affection for me and I think really wants to make it a loving relationship.

I assume that isn’t typical of APs and cheating partners on here. Do you expect exclusivity from the woman or man who is cheating with you? Would you be hurt if they fucked around with others?

Likewise, would they be angry or annoyed if you weren’t exclusive with them? Would that anger be justified because they themselves are cheating?

I’d love to hear the AP / cheatee’s perspective!

I am curious, because I’ve actually been with only a small number women who seem to like the fact that I’m a cheater:

What is it about men cheating is the draw? Is it the taboo? The betrayal? Something else?

I’d love to hear more about what gets you off when you read posts from cheating men on here.

Throwaway for obvious reasons.

I’m 45m who has been married for 7 years (classic itch) and I’ve been cheating with my AP for a couple of years now.

Is it normal to want to cheat more? I get plenty of sex from both the wife and my AP girlfriend, but I feel the need to cheat on both of them.

Can I have my cake, and my cake, and eat both too?

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