u/Embarrassed-Cod-8027

My sub is extremely subby even outside of kink play and subspace. Add those into the mix and he becomes fanfic levels of sub. Been with him for a while now and he told me that he has always struggled with these urges, more specifically the rebounds that occur because of it. Going from normal man to full blown extreme sub and vice versa takes a huge toll on him. He's tried to quell it but it always happens. After having introduced him to long term chastity and becoming my slave, those urges only grew. We talked and he said he wanted to try an experiment. He wants to be locked 24/7(exceptions being cleaning and emergencies obviously) for a whole month AND have no orgasms. He would still ejaculate, but we tried this thing a while back where he would make himself not contract/clench his lower muscles during orgasm, which ended up removing all pleasure from it(described it as literally just peeing). In doing all of that, he would stay in light/medium subspace pretty much all the time and not experience sub drops and rebounds. The reason for doing all this is to see if he can live as a sub all the time(he told he feels like he was leaning that way anyway, like less of a man and more of a toy for men and all that) AND still be able function for things like work, chores, errands, in public, etc. AND avoid those rebounds/sub drops. It's been a few days and so far he is able to function albeit not as easily as when he's not in subspace, but just wanted to ask in case there's something i'm missing that could end up being a problem. Also, I refrained from using some words but like to put in to perspective how extremely sub he is, when he relocks he goes into subspace within 15-20 minutes. Almost all his thoughts and feelings(outside of functioning)revolve around me and he describes his level of horniness as fluctuating between medium and high. Also, even outside of kink and subspace he says himself as "it", like less than a man/human, to the point that I even started treating him like that(refrained from using those types of words in case it was triggering but it's important for context)

I understand that this is a sub only place but given the circumstances, thought it'd be wiser to ask other subs about how to proceed with my sub since I'm unfamiliar with the sub experience and all.

My sub is extremely subby even outside of kink play and subspace. Add those into the mix and he becomes fanfic levels of sub. Been with him for a while now and he told me that he has always struggled with these urges, more specifically the rebounds that occur because of it. Going from normal man to full blown extreme sub and vice versa takes a huge toll on him. He's tried to quell it but it always happens. After having introduced him to long term chastity and becoming my slave, those urges only grew. We talked and he said he wanted to try an experiment. He wants to be locked 24/7(exceptions being cleaning and emergencies obviously) for a whole month AND have no orgasms. He would still ejaculate, but we tried this thing a while back where he would make himself not contract/clench his lower muscles during orgasm, which ended up removing all pleasure from it(described it as literally just peeing). In doing all of that, he would stay in light/medium subspace pretty much all the time and not experience sub drops and rebounds. The reason for doing all this is to see if he can live as a sub all the time(he told he feels like he was leaning that way anyway, like less of a man and more of a toy for men and all that) AND still be able function for things like work, chores, errands, in public, etc. AND avoid those rebounds/sub drops. It's been a few days and so far he is able to function albeit not as easily as when he's not in subspace, but just wanted to ask in case there's something i'm missing that could end up being a problem. And also if there's another server that's better for these types of questions, would appreciate a link as I'm not on reddit often so idk