Question about suggesting routines or task for myself
Hello everyone!
I am at the beginning of a more structured FLR.
My partner and I have been together for a year, and BDSM has always been a part of our dynamic, but now we have decided to take things more seriously. I started reading a lot about it, and there was one book that completely changed my mindset. Now I truly want to focus on being the best version of myself for her.
Since I am the novice and she is the person with much more experience, I would like to ask for your advice on introducing routines. Is it a good idea for me to suggest "rules" or tasks for myself to complete?
For example, I would like her to control my bedtime by setting a fixed time.
My question is: could suggesting this, along with introducing punishments/consequences if I fail to stick to the schedule, yield good results? Or will it just create more stress and work for her, since she would have to be constantly attentive every single day at that specific time to check if I am complying?
How do you usually manage the introduction of these routines without turning the dominant's role into a micro-management burden?
Thank you in advance for sharing your thoughts!