u/Equivalent-Volume815

I brought my wallet with me to new place and after the massage I went and took a long shower and when I got back I swear the MT was acting weird and I'm not kidding while I was in the shower I was paranoid about her stealing cash out of my wallet but who even cares because I barely had any left after payment and she gave good service but I open my wallet and I swear to you it looks like someone took out the credit/debit cards and put them back in. Hard to explain but it's like they almost weren't in the card slots right. Am I being paranoid or do you think its possible she took pictures of my cards because she knew I was stupid enough to even bring them in the first place.

I am thinking about going back to HK soon but the last time left me with such a sour experience crossing back into san diego. I haven't been back since. I live in SD and it was my second time ever going to HK and coming back and when I was crossing back in (on foot) the border agent I got was a complete asshole. Long story short he was literally interrogating me about my past trips/flights going back in time as if I was suspected of a crime or on a watchlist or something which I know for a fact I am not. And when I couldn't give straight answers he literally almost detained me and took me into another room. Everyone in the building was staring at me and my face was cherry red. I remember one of the questions he was asking was something like. "You flew internationally on this date, where did you fly to?" And I have a horrible memory so I was like "Uhhh Jamaica im pretty sure it was a while ago" and he was like "YOU DONT KNOW WHERE YOU TOOK A FLIGHT TO?!?!? THATS A RED FLAG AND VERY SUSPICIOUS" like he didnt believe me and he was genuinely freaking out. I have a hard time even explaining the energy this dude was bringing at 2am on a weekday but whatever you are imagining it was more intense. He was like this uptight little guy with a napoleon complex or something and he was just looking to feel powerful I swear to you. Has anyone else experienced trying to cross back and having this happen to them? It is making me scared to even go back because I am already a paranoid person and the reason for my border crossing is literally just prositution which is illegal in the U.S. even if it is legal in TJ.

I am a young guy myself who is very shy and I wonder if I see a provider who is my age she might think I want to just rush and finish and leave? Especially because I finish quickly the first round. I have been reading posts on reddit and people say that the "more experienced" providers are better for just making you feel more comfortable and being patient. I found a provider on tryst who is in her late 20's - early 30's and says she is GFE and sounded perfect for me but I found lots of reviews for her online that she is quote: "Rude" and one person even said that "She is a size queen and will rush you out if your're not big." I just dont even know if i can take these reviews seriously because I imagine providers have to deal with so many nasty clients who are insecure losers so of course they are going to go online and talk bad about the providers they see. Do you guys think because I am a respectful normal looking young guy that a provider would be more chill with me? And maybe wouldn't be as quick to get me out the door? I would really appreciate any advice :)