Can anyone relate ? In a sexless marriage and still don’t want to change my situation. Just looking for someone who’s also attached where we can help each other fill that void.
M35 I’ll be honest: I’m a good person, but I’ve been stuck in a completely sexless relationship for a while now.
I’m in my mid-30s and spend most of my time running a few different businesses. I’m self-aware enough to admit that my grind is probably a big part of why things hit a wall at home. It’s a frustrating cycle—working too hard, getting home drained, and feeling like the spark just completely vanished. I’m not looking to blow up my life or start any unnecessary drama, but I’m at the point where I really miss that intimacy and a genuine, physical connection.
I’m looking for an FWB arrangement with someone who gets it. If you’re also feeling stuck in a stalled relationship and just want someone to blow off some steam with—someone who’s grounded, low-drama, and appreciates chemistry without needing to change our entire lives—then we’re probably on the same page.
For context, I’m in my mid-30s and I definitely have a preference for someone older.
A few things that matter to me:
Cleanliness/Safety: This is non-negotiable for me. I’m an adult who holds myself to a high standard, and I expect the same from you.
Total Discretion: It goes without saying, but everything stays strictly between us.
Quality over everything: I’m not looking to fill my inbox with endless, meaningless chat. I’d much rather wait for the right fit, even if it takes a bit of time to find that connection.
If you’re in a similar boat and you’re looking for a respectful, consistent, and fun connection that stays firmly in its own lane, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.