u/Full_Exit8592

I shared this a few hours ago on another account, but kind of decided I didn't like the name of that account and deleted it, so I just made a new account. Hopefully it's not considered spammy to reshare the story, it's just been a sweet journey and I really wanted to share it

I have a really good friend who I'm going to refer to as Livi in this post (anyone who knows us personally will get why this is funny 😂). We've known each other for about three years, and have been very close since day one. She's a couple years older than me and we kind of formed a big sister/little brother relationship.

About a year after we met my Mom passed away very suddenly, and Livi was in the room with me when I found out. She's naturally very nurturing and a natural caretaker, so she kind of took me under her wing per se after that. I genuinely don't know if I would have survived the next few months without her.

I'm not sure exactly when it was, but at some point I really wanted to try out chastity, specifically wearing a chastity cage and having a keyholder. I wasn't sure who to ask, but I trusted her more than anyone else. So I asked if she would be interested, and she said she would have to look some stuff up and think it over.

A couple weeks later she told me she'd be willing to try it out. I locked myself in a cage on January 1st, 2026, and gave her the key next day.

She's an absolute natural and took to being a keyholder so well! It was really embarrassing the first few times I asked for the key, but she never made it humiliating for me until we were both more comfortable. She said no a few times in the first couple months, and at one point playfully warned me not to ask for the key so often, but usually she was really kind and sweet as we tried this out as friends.

I think it was in March that she started having some more fun with it. I'll never forget the time I texted her on my break and asked if I could swing by and get the key after work, and she said "Only if you bring me my favorite coffee." I think if I had gotten the wrong kind, she would have locked me up for a month! But when she sipped the coffee and saw that I got the right stuff, and then grinned and handed me the key.... it was just the best feeling ever! I felt so validated and approved of!

We've really progressed a long way since the first day. I'm expected to show her the upmost respect and be on call whenever she needs a favor or a helping hand. She loves teaing me, like saying little innuendos when we're in public that only I would get. Like if someone asks if she's free on a certain day she'll say "sorry, I'm a bit locked up that day," stuff like that.

So yeah, this was a fun thing for us both, and it was sweet that we were able to keep it strictly platonic and it never got sexual or romantic. We're still honorary brother and sister, even if she does have a certain level of control over my sexuality.

Anyway, I also met this girl whom I'm going to refer to as Mia. She's very pretty and fun and we vibe really well together, and after a while I knew I wanted to get closer to her. I asked Livi if she was okay with this (just to double-check our boundaries) , and she got so excited! There was a lot of real big sister energy from her!

So I asked Mia out, we went on a few dates and had a ton of fun, but no sex. She's very conservative sexually and wasn't interested in having sex with someone she wasn't committed to. Livi unlocked me for the first date, but once Mia told me this boundary I never asked Livi for the key on any other date. But we had a ton of fun and got to know each other well enough that I could tell we both wanted to make our relationship official and committed.

So about this time I told her about my arrangement with Livi. This absolutely blew her mind cuz she had never even heard of this concept before. I explained it as best as I could, but she just didn't get it. But she wanted to make us work, so she said she'd be willing to do some research. I know she asked for some advice in reddit, which was very helpful (so if there happens to be anyone here who helped her, thank you so much!)

Eventually Mia and I became an official couple, with Livi still acting as my key holder. There were a lot of ups and downs for the first few months, and we all had lots of conversations (me and Mia, me and Livi, Mia and Livi, and all three of us at once). We had to redraw boundaries a couple of times because we realized certain things just weren't working, but we seem to have a system that works now.

The plan right now is that I'll continue to wear my cage with Livi as my keyholder until December 31st. At that point, Mia would like a break and have a time period without the whole chastity thing. We're not sure how long that will last, but whenever it's ended Livi says she'll love to hold the key again as long as she's not with anyone yet.

So yeah, thanks for reading!

I don't know I'm technically a submissive, but I wanted to share my story and I feel like a lot of y'all would appreciate it. My girlfriend has also shared her side of the story in reddit before but I'm not sure on which subreddits, so if this sounds familiar that's why.

I have a really good friend who I'm going to refer to as Livi in this post (anyone who knows us personally will get why this is funny 😂). We've known each other for about three years, and have been very close since day one. She's a couple years older than me and we kind of formed a big sister/little brother relationship.

About a year after we met my Mom passed away very suddenly, and Livi was in the room with me when I found out. She's naturally very nurturing and a natural caretaker, so she kind of took me under her wing per se after that. I genuinely don't know if I would have survived the next few months without her.

I'm not sure exactly when it was, but at some point I really wanted to try out chastity, specifically wearing a chastity cage and having a keyholder. I wasn't sure who to ask, but I trusted her more than anyone else. So I asked if she would be interested, and she said she would have to look some stuff up and think it over.

A couple weeks later she told me she'd be willing to try it out. I locked myself in a cage on January 1st, 2026, and gave her the key next day.

She's an absolute natural and took to being a keyholder so well! It was really embarrassing the first few times I asked for the key, but she never made it humiliating for me until we were both more comfortable. She said no a few times in the first couple months, and at one point playfully warned me not to ask for the key so often, but usually she was really kind and sweet as we tried this out as friends.

I think it was in March that she started having some more fun with it. I'll never forget the time I texted her on my break and asked if I could swing by and get the key after work, and she said "Only if you bring me my favorite coffee." I think if I had gotten the wrong kind, she would have locked me up for a month! But when she sipped the coffee and saw that I got the right stuff, and then grinned and handed me the key.... it was just the best feeling ever! I felt so validated and approved of!

We've really progressed a long way since the first day. I'm expected to show her the upmost respect and be on call whenever she needs a favor or a helping hand. She loves teaing me, like saying little innuendos when we're in public that only I would get. Like if someone asks if she's free on a certain day she'll say "sorry, I'm a bit locked up that day," stuff like that.

So yeah, this was a fun thing for us both, and it was sweet that we were able to keep it strictly platonic and it never got sexual or romantic. We're still honorary brother and sister, even if she does have a certain level of control over my sexuality.

Anyway, I also met this girl whom I'm going to refer to as Mia. She's very pretty and fun and we vibe really well together, and after a while I knew I wanted to get closer to her. I asked Livi if she was okay with this (just to double-check our boundaries) , and she got so excited! There was a lot of real big sister energy from her!

So I asked Mia out, we went on a few dates and had a ton of fun, but no sex. She's very conservative sexually and wasn't interested in having sex with someone she wasn't committed to. Livi unlocked me for the first date, but once Mia told me this boundary I never asked Livi for the key on any other date. But we had a ton of fun and got to know each other well enough that I could tell we both wanted to make our relationship official and committed.

So about this time I told her about my arrangement with Livi. This absolutely blew her mind cuz she had never even heard of this concept before. I explained it as best as I could, but she just didn't get it. But she wanted to make us work, so she said she'd be willing to do some research. I know she asked for some advice in reddit, which was very helpful (so if there happens to be anyone here who helped her, thank you so much!)

Eventually Mia and I became an official couple, with Livi still acting as my key holder. There were a lot of ups and downs for the first few months, and we all had lots of conversations (me and Mia, me and Livi, Mia and Livi, and all three of us at once). We had to redraw boundaries a couple of times because we realized certain things just weren't working, but we seem to have a system that works now.

The plan right now is that I'll continue to wear my cage with Livi as my keyholder until December 31st. At that point, Mia would like a break and have a time period without the whole chastity thing. We're not sure how long that will last, but whenever it's ended Livi says she'll love to hold the key again as long as she's not with anyone yet.

So yeah, thanks for reading!