Owning you PE
Hi there, I have been a prejac all my life. Suffer from lifelong PE but after discovering this subreddit a few years ago I got really hooked on leaning into it and training to get even faster. I’m married but haven’t had sex in years. When I do try to initiate sex with my wife I can’t even last beyond foreplay, which probably pleased her as she really doesn’t want my dick inside her. Besides, she’s had quite a few sexual partners, before and since we were married, so she is used to something more satisfying.
What I wondered, when you hear the expression that you should ‘own your PE’ what does that really mean? What would it involve doing, if anything? I accept that being a premature ejaculator is who I am, it’s part of my identity and it defines me in other ways. My lack of confidence in the bedroom as a result of PE has turned me into a beta male in other ways as well as convincing my with to cuckold me after a few years of marriage. Any opinion gratefully received.