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Wondering if anyone has tried any of the hypnosis audio files for bed wetting?

I know nothing of the sort is any kind of magic, but just wondering if anyone has felt that they helped at all.

I just left on a work trip, and brought enough diapers to last with a few extras. Went to change before my flight and discovered that one of the top tapes was missing on my new diaper. No problem, I'll just grab another. Except the same tape was missing on that one too. Same with the third, however that one had the tape folded in but it didn't get attached. Ruh roh!

Thankfully the fourth diaper was good, and so were the rest, but that's three diapers less than I had planned and no easy way to get more. I should be able to procure some packing tape or something so I can use those defective diapers, but that was a bit of a surprise.

I have been wearing diapers for a long time, and thankfully even across numerous brands, it's pretty rare to get bad diapers. Every now and then I would see one, but I have never seen three in the same pack like that. They were Seni Super Quatros, and up until now, I have gone through many cases of them and have had no other issues.

I am autistic and diapers provide such an intensely wonderful and multifaceted sensory experience for me which I think plays a huge part in why I love wearing them. I also find that they help me deal with stress, emotional regulation, and I strongly prefer wetting my diaper frequently throughout the day rather than holding it in to use a toilet every few hours. Besides that, they’re just very soothing, incredibly comforting and they make me feel safe. I started wearing them nearly full time a few months ago, and it is the best thing I have ever done for myself.

I’m wondering how many of you are also on the spectrum, or think you might be?

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I'll be honest, I'm not even sure if I'm bedwetting. I have been wearing 24/7 for several months now, and I am absolutely loving it. I just go whenever I feel the slightest urge, and change my diapers when needed.

It has gotten to the point now that I sometimes remember wetting my diaper in the middle of the night, but usually it's a vague memory it best. However, I have noticed that my diapers are always quite full in the morning. I think being diapered 24/7 has helped a lot. Wetting myself has just become so normalized that I really don't think about it and just go, so it really isn't even strange to wet myself in bed, because I spend all day doing it as well.

I have been wearing pretty much 24/7 for around a month now, but only use it for #1. Absolutely no regrets. It has really helped me cope with some mental health struggles and autistic burnout, however that is a work in progress. It has also helped me to use it as a sort of muscle relaxation exercise to keep my pelvic muscles as relaxed as possible, and I NEVER try to hold it. I pee often in small amounts throughout the day and night without really thinking about it. Sitting, standing, walking, in bed, whatever. Even if I think my diaper is about to leak, or I can feel it leaking, i just let it flow. If it leaks, it just means I should have changed earlier. Keeping my pants or bedding dry is the diaper's job now, not mine anymore, and I REALLY LOVE that feeling of letting go of that responsibility.

I have noticed a newer sensation as I am changing where I feel a sort of strong emotional bond with the wet diaper. Like I am sad to change it since it has kept me safe and secure. As I pull the front down and expose my guy parts to the cold air, I just want to pull it back up and tape it back on. I don't want to part with it and how it feels. It has been there for me and protected me from the scary world and keep me dry as I wet myself throughout the day. Yet as I put a new one, it feels like I have a new friend. I feel really happy and excited for the journey we will have together for the next few hours. I know that it will again keep me safe and protected and the cycle will repeat itself.

I think this is a product of completely surrendering to diapers regardless of the consequences. It's part of my life now, not just something recreational. It has to keep me safe in all situations, not just in the safety of my home, and they do so admirably.

Has anyone else experienced this?

I have always wished we had a very low profile or obscure way to identify each other that wasn’t easily discovered or google searched by outsiders.

My suggestion would be the ABU Husky without any text, just the Husky. Perhaps worn on a sticker or maybe as a logo on shirts or whatever other way someone could come up with. I think most ABDL’s have tried or are at least aware of those diapers, and would likely recognize the symbol. At the same time, it wouldn’t be obvious to outsiders and could easily be dismissed if we didn’t want to connect.

If you like the idea but not the symbol, do you have another suggestion for a future poll?

We have all felt like we are alone, yet we are surrounded by people just like us.

There are over 120 thousand of us here.
We are AB/DL.

Would you consider participating in this practice?

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Working through some things in therapy that I had no idea were so impactful. Memories that I knew existed, but never actually processed.

I recall occasions when I was as young as 2 or 3 and my Dad whipping me with a leather belt so hard that I couldn’t sit down, leaving red marks all over my bottom. My Mom never stopped him, never tried to help me. In her defense, she left him and moved us 1000 miles away a short time later. I don’t blame her.

I vividly remember my clothes being removed and being whipped, but I had a diaper on. I was so relieved that I wasn’t feeling the usual pain. I must not have been screaming which made him more angry. I remember desperately trying to stop him from pulling my diaper down but couldn’t. He ripped it off me and whipped me more.

Nobody came to help me or protect me. All I had was that diaper and it was taken away. It protected me and made me feel safe, and without it I was so afraid and in so much pain.

This was very difficult to really sit with, but no wonder I am so enthralled and comforted by diapers.

I have been wearing 24/7 for about 10 days now. I have no intention of stopping soon and I am wishing I had done this long ago. It has been such a huge comfort and boost to my mental health, as I was absolutely falling apart both physically and mentally. Diapers meant safety and literally protected me from emotional and physical abuse as a little one. Although my relationship with them is complex, I find them very safe and comforting.

What could I use for possible explanations if family members notice that I am diapered? Hoping for some sort of vague yet believable medical explanation. Sadly, despite the extreme benefit that this has had on my mental health, I don't feel that they would understand and that a medical explanation would be much more acceptable.

I am doing my best to be discrete, but I want to put some thought into what I might say in case someone asks.