r/bedwetterclub

First bedwetting accident

Finally had my first bedwetting accident after wearing diapers to bed every night for 4 months.

I remember Wetting my diaper just before crawling into bed which is pretty normal for me. Was wearing a peekabu instead of my normal forsite grey stripe diapers that ive been using. I have been drinking dandelion tea before bed for a couple days and noticed it has increased the urine output. However last night i didnt get time to drink any tea.

Woke up around midnight and my onesie was soaked front and back. The sheets were soaked. Thankfully have a mattress protector.

I absolutely do not remember waking up to pee. Its just a shame by diaper had to leak while experiencing this.

Im hoping it becomes a much more regular occurrence, but at least finally happening means im making progress to being an actual bedwetter. Have been pretty excited all day long about this incident

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u/cagemenow — 2 days ago

Super discouraged and need help trouble shooting

Ive been wearing to bed nightly for going on 10 years...havent missed even a single night ... EVER..at the inlaws, on vacation, business trips, camping trips, you name it.

I still have yet to have a legitimate bedwetting incident.

I drink 16 oz glass.of water when I go to bed. And then wake up in the arlt morning and wet my diaper and then go back to sleep. Sometimes I dont wake up until my alarm goes off at 7am ...even then I make.sure to wet in bed before I get up.

I never wet the bed as a kid

My wife is supportive of me wearing

I wear high quality diapers that im not afraid of leaking

I do NOT beleive i am susceptible to hypnosis

I just dont know what else I can do here - but would love some help or coaching.

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u/Boring-Research410 — 2 days ago

Professional hypnotherapy for becoming a bedwetter or bladder incontinent?

Hi all,

I wanted to ask has anyone seen a private hypnotherapy professional to become a bed wetter? Or even bladder incontinent?

I’m looking for someone who would help me if anyone knows anyone!!

Thanks!! 🍼

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u/Big_little_red2020 — 2 days ago

Bedwetting in Training Pants

I typically wear a diaper to bed the last half of the week and training pants the other half of the week. I'll break out the Grown Ass Adult Man Undies when I absolutely have to.

About once a year or so I guess my subconscious doesn't realize it's Tuesday night and not a diaper night, and I'll have an actual bedwetting accident.

One of the last times I woke up in the middle of the night in wet training pants I jumped out of bed and see the wet spot on my bed and feel the wet training pants. In that moment before my mind is fully awake, I am on the verge of tears and terrified that I'm going to be beaten. After close to a minute I wake up enough to realize I'm a Grown Ass Adult Man, and I'm sleeping in a bed I paid for in an apartment that I pay for, and my parents have been dead over 10 years. No one is going to beat me with a belt.

Grown Ass Adult Man Me is like WHOA WTF!? Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it. I may be like Icarus and flew too close to the sun.

Little me is like this felt like an authentic toddler/preschooler bedwetting accident.

Adult me will change the bedsheets and clean myself up, and I'll change myself into a diaper for then rest of the night. I normally we diapers to bed about half the week. When I have an authentic bedwetting experience like that I'll wear a diaper to bed the rest of the week.

After a week I'll go back to sleeping in training pants. The little bit of nervousness I have going to bed in training pants and hoping I don't wet the bed again hits the Little nerve in a different way and reinforces the headspace.

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u/TheGoodishBoy — 2 days ago

This diaper is wetter that one wetting waking up

I usually sleep diapered the last half of the week and in training pants the first half of the week.

On diaper nights I'll notice sometimes I'll wake up juuuust enough to not hold back. I'll make sure to not look at my alarm clock so my brain doesn't "time stamp" this.

There are times that I'll wake up in a diaper that is much heavier and wetter than the one wetting. The only thing I can think is all my subconscious knows it's safe to go, and maybe it's kinda like peeing in the shower, like I'm wet already and my subconscious realizes it's okay to go.

I'll wake up in a very wet diaper under my onesie with my arm around my stuffie, and sometimes paci still in my mouth. There's that liminal space where my eyes may be open, but my mind isn't fully awake. That time always feels Little to me.

Doesn't matter if I'm 2 years old or my current age, it feels the same waking up like that.

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u/TheGoodishBoy — 3 days ago

My first wetting accident

I kinda stopped with trying to wet myself at night because it became really tedious and hard, so I would sleep diapered and when I would wake up I would force my self to pee in it right away, also throughout that time I had a timer set for every hour to use the bathroom no matter what to try and weekin my bladder, that kinda helped in the way that I felt the need to use the bathroom more with less inside, fast forward like a month and with me having stopped this all, I had woken up fully soaked, my underwear soaked under me soaked, at first I didn't want to believe thinking maybe it just sweat but there's no way, I did a smell test and it definitely did smell like pee, didn't know how to feel about it but kinda seems hot to me know, mind I did drink that night prior and I did drink tequila so I was drunk but I have no recollection of wetting myself.

Is this considered some kinda progress? Should I diaper up now when I go to sleep or was this just a one time fluke, any tips or recommendations will be nice, mind you the last time I had an accident was probably when I was very little

Sorry for the typos

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u/sisssy_slut7 — 4 days ago

Dandelion tea

I had read on another platform, dandelion tea can be super helpful with starting bedwetting. Has anyone tried it before? Was curious how much to drink and when i should drink it to help me pee the bed

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u/cagemenow — 8 days ago

Glad I found this sub!

I’ll start by saying I was a bedwetter when I was younger and as embarrassing as it was at that age waking up in a soaking pull up was so comforting.
Over the past few years I’ve went back to wearing pull ups and thicker ABDL diapers. At the start it was once every couple of weeks to slowly becoming wearing most of the week. I normally wear them while I’m playing games or watching tv then after they’re completely full and close to leaking I’ll change before bed.
But recently I’ve been thinking about the idea of completely un potty training and starting with bedtime first, reading through this sub has been super duper helpful.
I’m really excited to get my bed wetting journey started so I can go on my deeper journey of being completely unpotty trained.
Any advice is appreciated!

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u/Infinite_Sherbert_86 — 11 days ago
▲ 9 r/bedwetterclub+1 crossposts

Unsure if this is the right sub to ask but wanted to throw the idea out

So if any of you have seen my previous posts here, you know that I'm going through college right now. I'm home for the summer but I'm about to be moving back in in just under 2 weeks. I wanted to ask a question primarily about bedwetting. There are a lot of times where I don't wear at night, mostly because I tend to find it uncomfy for how I sleep, but then for the times where im laying in bed and I don't wanna get up and put a diaper on all while holding my pee or get up to go to the bathroom, what would y'all recommend for if I just want to release in bed. The base mattress seems to just be a basic spring mattress with polyester/plastic covering which I'm not sure on how much that absorbs pee. Ideally I would like to be getting my sheet wet but not much else, maybe my blanket to some extent. I can post a picture of the base bed once I'm actually back in the dorms with a follow up post.

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u/Professional_Play_50 — 11 days ago

Suspicious progress

I'm fairly certain I've been making progress in my bedwetting training but I'm running into an issue. I usually go to bed in a slightly wet diaper and when I wake up it's usually more wet from me waking up and wetting and going back to sleep. Lately, my morning diapers have been more wet than I remember and I think I'm starting to wet in my sleep more. It's exciting but I'm wondering if this is a natural progression?

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u/icastsog — 14 days ago