39 [M4f] #online Life Coach Dom looking for subs in need of
I like to take things a bit “properly” at first. Discuss kinks, expectations, limits, goals, and anything else. I know most people don’t even think about some of these things at all, but it’s part of my process. I can be extreme in my dynamic and I’ve been burned by jumping into things too fast.
I’m a nerd on a variety of levels lol. Gaming, science, fantasy, D&D, anime, whatever.
But let’s talk about the fun stuff, that’s why we’re both here.
Kinks:
I’m a sadist, I enjoy reactions. Pain and pleasure, pain caused by pleasure. The facial reactions you have and emotions that com from it are like gold to me.
This is why I will want to see your face. It can take a little bit of time to get there for the “fun” pics, but if you’re not going to do a quick swap early on then you won’t be comfortable doing what I will want you to do.
TPE (light) I enjoy making decisions for my sub. From day to day things, outfits, food, whatever. With an online dynamic true TPE is nearly impossible, especially with work getting in the way. So I prefer to do this through training, tasks, and setting expectations. Control is easier when you’re trained properly.
Conditioning is second nature for me. I like long term goals and so I can condition you for them. This is something I don’t take lightly and normally avoid anything that could cause issues later unless requested or long term.
Coaching/training. You need to learn how to give a blowjob, how to deepthroat, how to position your body during sex, how to talk and respond.
Near Slave dynamic. We can talk about this more though.
You should be comfortable sharing pics and videos. With an online dynamic this is an expectation that we can’t get around. It might take some time to share much, that’s understandable. But I want to see the pain and pleasure in your eyes.
Others in a list…. Anal, orgasm control, degradation, humiliation, tasks, worship, outfit control, and I’m sure a few others.
I tend to be drawn to the mentally unstable and on the spectrum subs. Obsessive, red flags, punching bags of a submissive.
Limits: Scat, blood, diaper play, I’m sure a few other things.
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What I’m looking for in a sub.
Physically I prefer athletic, petite, skinny, and I tend to like the “heavier but used to be athletic and want to work out again” body type. It holds up well to the abuse. If you’re short and under 120 then that’s ideal.
Age: I prefer 25-35. I’ll consider outside of that.
When you message me, include the following…
Tell me your body type, what you look like, age, top kinks, limits.
Then tell me about the dirtiest or kinkiest thing you’ve ever done.
If you’ve read all of this and have any interest at all, let’s chat.