u/Gemini_Janus

So I’m trans femme, and will be getting an orchiectomy (testicle removal surgery) soon. I’m getting it as permanent birth control and as gender affirming care. I’d rather get rid of them entirely than just get a vasectomy for birth control. But I am interested in chastity (haven’t done it before, as I’ve never had a partner interested in it and don’t want to do it alone) and I know that the cage fits over the testicles as the way to keep them on. Is it just completely impossible to do anything after I’ve gotten them removed? Are there any cages specific to this situation? Or would I just have to squish into a more cis female chastity belt if I want to explore this in the future? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Story time: Went to a party and a casual acquaintance made me feel the most “oh fuck I’m a bottom” moment of my life. So I went to a queer pool party for pride and was just causally chatting in the hot tub with this gorgeous girl. And then ended up jumping into the pool and my makeup ran a bit from the water. So this girl went and got a makeup wipe, then came back and started wiping under my eyes. And I’m like fuck why is this so hot, then she grips my face to hold me in place and says “Hold still darling” to be able to wipe harder. And just I’m just staring into her eyes 🫠 a completely innocent interaction that made me melt. Basically my only thought until she was done was “fuck fuck I’m a bottom, fuck I’m gay, is this what gay panic is? Wow” anyway, thought I would tell the story here because you all understand the feeling 😂 it’s such a weird feeling to just crave that gentle control. I didn’t realize how much I was needing it until I got a small taste.